Some of you may remember my post from a few months back about a falling-out with my dancer friend. Very short version, I was her ITC customer for 1 year, then OTC club friend (with no ITC or $$ in or out of the club) for 1 year.
Then I pushed her for more (not romance, it's hard to explain), she got cold and cut off contact, and I got obsessive and spent several weeks trying to contact her when she didn't want me to. All cyber -- not physically stalking or anything. Dropped something for her at the club a couple of times (purposely didn't see her) when I wasn't sure if she was seeing my e-messages.
Well, objectively, I've been kinda nuts. She did a lot wrong too, but I can only work on myself. Have stopped trying contact for the last few weeks.
So the question for the ladies is -- is there any way to recover from being a pseudo-psycho? Or once I have that label (fairly), is the only thing to do is move on with my life, write her off as a friend forever, and let it be a lesson to myself never to get that way again?



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