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    have any dancer's ever hit a customer. i went to a club last week and there was a dancer on a shower stage going around to the customers by the stage and the dancer rubbed her breasts in a guy's face and got a tip and as she turned around he slapped her on the ass. she turned back around and punched him in the mouth and he got a cut lip. i had a favorite dancer at a club that is now closed that punched a guy because he bit her nipple during a private dance. he left and came back with the police. the owner of the club told the police what the customer did and the police said he could be charged too. he let it go and left. just wondering if you ever punched a guy or you just have bouncers just kick the guy out for breaking the rules.

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    I work at an all nude club and this drunk mexican guy came up to the stage to tip me and tried to put the dollar IN my pussy. IN IT! I turned around and shoved him on his ass then screeched about how nasty money is and why would he think I would want that in my girly bits! Stupidness.

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    i have hit customers before, hecl i hit one with a beer bottle, but you have to do something extremely offensive for me to resort to that
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    I've hit my share of guys. Of course, I give a warning first and it's usually more of an open hand slap than a punch.

    A good friend of mine is in legal trouble right now for taking off her shoe and hitting a custy in the eye. She scratched his cornea, and there was so much blood. The thing is, he just booed her on stage, so he probably didn't deserve that extreme of an attack. But sometimes acting like a moron costs you an eye. It's a risk.

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    I did only once, about 9 years ago.

    I was walking around talking to customers when I spotted a friend of mine by the back bar. So I walked up to my friend and gave him a hug. As I was walking away, this guy I was passing said to me, "Hey, where's my hug?" I turned toward him and told him he wasn't getting one. So as I started to turn he grabbed my arm, near my wrist, hard as hell.

    I have this thing with guys putting their hands on me, so I punched him in the face. He went and told my manager, and I ended up getting suspended for one night. They told me that I should let a bouncer take care of it next time. But the bouncer didn't see him put his hands on me and would have only given the guy a warning.....so I gave him my own warning.

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    I've hit my share of guys. Of course, I give a warning first and it's usually more of an open hand slap than a punch.

    A good friend of mine is in legal trouble right now for taking off her shoe and hitting a custy in the eye. She scratched his cornea, and there was so much blood. The thing is, he just booed her on stage, so he probably didn't deserve that extreme of an attack. But sometimes acting like a moron costs you an eye. It's a risk.
    Well was he alright? If he lost his eye then IMO your friend deserve very several punishment. Losing an eye (or even diminished vision) because of something stupid makes her looks a little psychopathic. I understand how stressful it can be, but you get over that in a few hours (maybe a day) but permanent eye problems can last forever.

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    it was an extreme circumstance when i did.

    i was in a private room with a customer. he proceeded to force himself on me. i screamed as much as loud as i could but no one could hear over the music (and i was LOUD). i had a lit cigarette and i managed to grab it out of the ashtray and burn the guy in the face and free myself enough to kick him hard and run out of the room.

    call it assault if you want to, but that guy was WAY out of line. i'm a small girl and he was a big dude, so the odds were already against me. the bouncer was horrified and immediately the guy was thrown out.

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    Fuck yes. And I would do it again.

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    No, I haven't been pushed that far yet. The only time I came close was when a guy tried to rip my panties off. Thankfully the bouncer kicked him out before I had the chance to do anything myself.

    One of the girls I worked with though dumped a drink all over a custy for trying to pull money out of her garter.

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    I've broken three noses. Each was a different, and what I would consider deserving!

    One, I was in a champagne room and the guy got really creepy. He asked me "What would you do if I held you down and fucked you back here?" I told him to fuck off, and slapped him. He grabbed my arm- I broke his nose. The bouncers beat the shit out of him after...

    Another, a guy tried grabbing at my poo tang during a dance. I give one warning- period. Told him not to do it again. Kept dancing, he tried again. I got up and demanded my money... Then there was THIRD attempt. Broken nose #2...

    Third was similar to the first- in a CR and the dude literally grabbed me and was being forceful with me. One of the floor guys came in just in time, and actually held the dude and asked me if I wanted to take a swing. Yes, sir!

    Those are my only three negative experiences in strip clubs, period. In three years... I don't think that's too bad.

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    Yep, sure have. I don't feel getting kicked out of a club is enough for sexually assaulting me. I have actually had a guy do something to me, and when he got kicked out, said, "it was worth it". Doesn't feel so worth it to them if they know they might go home bloody.

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    Quote Originally Posted by angelicat View Post
    I've broken three noses. Each was a different, and what I would consider deserving!

    One, I was in a champagne room and the guy got really creepy. He asked me "What would you do if I held you down and fucked you back here?" I told him to fuck off, and slapped him. He grabbed my arm- I broke his nose. The bouncers beat the shit out of him after...

    Another, a guy tried grabbing at my poo tang during a dance. I give one warning- period. Told him not to do it again. Kept dancing, he tried again. I got up and demanded my money... Then there was THIRD attempt. Broken nose #2...

    Third was similar to the first- in a CR and the dude literally grabbed me and was being forceful with me. One of the floor guys came in just in time, and actually held the dude and asked me if I wanted to take a swing. Yes, sir!

    Those are my only three negative experiences in strip clubs, period. In three years... I don't think that's too bad.

    You must have one helluva punch! I think I'd have to have a weapon to do that kind of damage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by angelicat View Post

    Third was similar to the first- in a CR and the dude literally grabbed me and was being forceful with me. One of the floor guys came in just in time, and actually held the dude and asked me if I wanted to take a swing. Yes, sir!

    Those are my only three negative experiences in strip clubs, period. In three years... I don't think that's too bad.
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    You gotta have a way to protect yourself too. You are in private situations, like in CR, and if you are being attacked by a much bigger guy do whatever the fuck you can do, lik punch or defend yourself in any way to get away from him.

    Security will in fact deal with him later, but until then its just you and him. You have a right to protect yourself. Over something lik booing i dont see the point, because in fact you can get over that, and the fact is you dont want to be getting in legal trouble etc... Only defend yourself when things take a downfall, and it seems logical to defend yourself. Because no one should treat or do things lik that to you. No matter the guys opinion on it.

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    I've threatened customers with everything from a broken wrist if he tries touching my vagina again to ripping the tongue out of their mouth if they can't keep it off my body, usually after i've asked nicely repeatedly.

    I have only actually hit one customer ever and almost went to jail for it. I was dancing on stage in a topless only bar towards the end of the night and he reaches up, grabs my thong, pulls it OFF and shoves a $5 up against my pussy. I told him "Do it again and I make you hurt." So he proceeds to tell me that he has $10k in his pocket and he can do what ever the fuck he pleases, I'm a whore for his money, so I need to just take it ,and tries again. I bitch slapped him right across the mouth. Not unwarranted, I don't think. The little piss-ant didn't do anything else to me himself but his entourage, which for some reason included his wife and his sister, reacted like I had just heartlessly stabbed their innocent godling. His sister tried climbing the stage to beat my ass and his wife threw drinks at me till I retreated to the dressing room. His bodyguard and wife wanted to call the cops and press charges, his sister thought I "should be strung up and beaten like a piñata" (words directly from her mouth). The management told me I should be fired but because I had danced there so long and technically had a right to smack the sob, I was suspended for a week. Which was rescinded after the bar closed and it was just me and the manager in the DR. The fucked up part? They let the fucker and his crew back into the bar the very fucking next night!!

    Not my fight but a great story - Later that week a different customer was making fun of one of the other girls for her "fake" grill and went so far as to punch her in the mouth to try and prove it was fake. She dropped him like a sack of potatoes with one punch before the bouncers had a chance to intervene. I wanted to jump in on that one, but ended up pulling other dancers away from the scuffle and pointing them at the dressing room. It was epic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dancersrfun View Post
    have any dancer's ever hit a customer. i went to a club last week and there was a dancer on a shower stage going around to the customers by the stage and the dancer rubbed her breasts in a guy's face and got a tip and as she turned around he slapped her on the ass. she turned back around and punched him in the mouth and he got a cut lip. i had a favorite dancer at a club that is now closed that punched a guy because he bit her nipple during a private dance. he left and came back with the police. the owner of the club told the police what the customer did and the police said he could be charged too. he let it go and left. just wondering if you ever punched a guy or you just have bouncers just kick the guy out for breaking the rules.
    Barring a dancer attempting to protect her life, which anyone is entitled to, a dancer striking a customer for any reason is totally taboo from the club's point of view.

    Why?

    Because in every state that licenses the sale of alcohol, and that is all of them, a report can be filed for every assault that goes down in a club with that states version of the alcohol beverage control board. Every assault that goes down in a club is one assault closer to having the clubs liquor license suspended and eventually revoked.

    The club loses its license to sell booze, out the window goes the value of the club. The club is out of business and it can't even be sold for a 1/4 of what it was previously worth when the business still had a liquor license.

    A dancer causing such problems would quickly find herself blackballed by word of mouth between owners and managers as a problem child who was a potential risk to any club that allowed her to work in it. She'd have to leave the area to find work and hope her rep didn't follow her.

    For club owners and the managers they hire all that matters, rightly or wrongly, is the club's bottom line and a dancer who is a danger to get a club closed down is no good for business.
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Perry View Post
    I've hit my share of guys. Of course, I give a warning first and it's usually more of an open hand slap than a punch.

    A good friend of mine is in legal trouble right now for taking off her shoe and hitting a custy in the eye. She scratched his cornea, and there was so much blood. The thing is, he just booed her on stage, so he probably didn't deserve that extreme of an attack. But sometimes acting like a moron costs you an eye. It's a risk.
    Is your friend finding it hard to find work in the area she did this in?

    I'm not trying to be a bastard, just telling the truth, when I say I wouldn't allow her to work at any club I was managing. Even if she was a great dancer and had a following it just wouldn't be worth it. There are too many good dancers looking for work, especially now, to take a chance on someone with those kind of issues.
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    ^^^ If she just went to another club, how would they know? It's not like there's references or background checks for this work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vodka Keeps Me Sane View Post
    IThey told me that I should let a bouncer take care of it next time. But the bouncer didn't see him put his hands on me and would have only given the guy a warning.....so I gave him my own warning.
    A good club, with good bounces, knows how to deal with such situations. You should let them deal with it. Retired cops cost a bit more but they are worth it as they know how to set a standard of decorum that resolves problems BEFORE they happen most of the time and the dancers wouldn't get manhandled like that in the first place.

    They have middle age spread and can't life 400 lbs but they know how to handle problems in a way were the dancers are made very safe, but doesn't put the clubs license in jeopardy. Of course if the club uses gym rats and steroid goons who use their muscles before their brains you wind up with other problems.

    The private parties we throw at clubs are very "hands on". Extras abound. If dancers were going to have a problem at any place you'd think it would be at these parties, but there are next to no problems at all. Why? Because every one who comes to these parties knows the floor/security manager is a retired cop who hires other cops to work security and they aren't about to start any problems. Everyone behaves like proper ladies and gentlemen. The few who might not are recognized early on by people who know what they are doing and dealt with, discreetly, before they become a problem.

    Ask the clean dancers here on SW who have worked these parties if they've had any problem at them. They will tell you that most of the guys are very respectful, and if they aren't they get asked to leave and they aren't getting invited back [the parties are by invitation only].
    Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.


    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Does a round house kick count?

    The bar was closing and all the bouncers were trying to get everyone out the front door, leaving the girls alone in the back of the club in the dressing room. A customer walked right into the dressing room and started harassing the dancers. I was totally nude and grabbed a pitcher of ice water and threatened to throw it on him. When he grabbed another girl by the arm I dumped the water over his head, and spun him around and shoved him toward the door. Then he came back at me so I kicked him squarely in the chest. He fell out the dressing room door right at the feet of a bouncer checking out the commotion coming from the back of the bar.

    Most women don't stand a chance against a man in a boxing match, but dancers especially have very strong legs.

    I've seen dancers slap or shove guys who attempted sexual assault (grabbing boobs or pussy), and had the customer done something like that to any other bar staff, he would have been looking at getting arrested. Unfortunately, dancers don't have the benefit or support of most law enforcement, and the abusive customers know this. When there is no help on the way, you do what you have to do to protect yourself from assault.


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    This thread got me thinking, I wonder if there is a form of mild PTSD that dancers develop through repeated sexual assault? Not like full on rape, but having to do the lap dance aikido to avoid having fingers/tongues shoved places, and to be harshly groped on the ass or boobs as part of the job. Giggling like you like it, when in reality you just want to scream.

    I once had a customer attempt to choke me durring a dance. He started off gentle, but his grip got harder and harder until I was failing my legs to wriggle away from him. He acted all surprised that I didn't like being choked, and tipped me $200 on top of the hour fee he owed me. I was left there thinking WTF? That happened to me at Teasers in Las Vegas.

    You start piling all these little abuses on top of each other, the dancer shaking it off night after night, and eventually she snaps and hauls off and wails on some guy who happened to say the wrong thing at the wrong time. Hopefully some customers will read this thread and realize that some dancers may be ticking time bombs, and you never know if it is that "funny" ass slap that is going to send her into a homicidal rage.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    Is your friend finding it hard to find work in the area she did this in?

    I'm not trying to be a bastard, just telling the truth, when I say I wouldn't allow her to work at any club I was managing. Even if she was a great dancer and had a following it just wouldn't be worth it. There are too many good dancers looking for work, especially now, to take a chance on someone with those kind of issues.
    Not even a little trouble. The clubs are pretty thrilled to get an attractive dancer, and that's about the extent of it. Most clubs would have thrown out the douche for booing before she ever got to him, actually.

    I'm not trying to be a bitch, just telling the truth, but I don't think she's the kind of girl who would want to work at one of your "clubs".

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    ^ snap!
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    Even reading this thread is getting my blood boiling.

    I honestly feel myself becoming that ticking time bomb Paris described. The only thing keeping me from going off on a customer now is that I don't want to get fired--I really like my club. But I know someday--well, some dude out there better be damn thankful my shoes have ankle straps. They don't come off too easily.

    I have never hit a customer. But I have fantasies. Horrible, bloody fantasies.

    But, in retrospect, I have been raped before, years before I started dancing. And I barely fought back because, being so young, I was scared. Now, I look back and wish I had, even just a little. I know years from now I'm going to look back and wished I kicked some fucker in the balls instead of just running away.

    I agree--being asked to leave is NOT enough punishment for assaulting a girl. Sometimes, you have to be your own security.

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    I've shoved a few guys, but only ever hit one. I was standing by the bar talking to a custie, and this guy I had given a table dance to earlier was leaving the club. He was a real fucking scumbag, white trash that was trying to get a huge show for like a buck. He walked past me on his way out, and out of the blue he grabbed my ass HARD, the kind where they try to shove their fingers INTO your ass at the same time. I don't really remember doing it, but I saw red, and apparently I turned around and absolutely socked him in the face. He staggered back a few steps and kind of fell against a chair. Then I screamed at the bouncer to get the guy the fuck out of there. And the bouncer was this kind of pussy guy we used to have on weeknights. He was a lot of talk, kept saying everyone was scared of him cause he had a mohawk, but he was always leaving his station and trying to socialize with the custies. I'd had several problems with the guy, because the bouncers are supposed to watch the camera monitors when we're giving lap dances, and he never did. I mean, that's what he's there for. And if a guy tried shit in the back, you had to get away from him and get to the front to find the bouncer and tell him. And then, half the time he would just give the guy a warning, because HE hadn't actually seen it. Fucker...if he'd been doing what he was SUPPOSED to do, he would have seen it. Anyways, when I punched the custie, the bouncer kind of got up from the bar and started over, but the custie had already hightailed it out of there.

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