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    So... I have to go from the tiny ski-town I'm working in for the winter, to a much larger city for an appointment in two weeks. I emailed some strip clubs in the city, and found out that there is an amateur night landing on the evening that I will be there. AHH! I really want to do this, and am so nervous!

    I have been reading through these forums like a fiend haha, and have found a lot of tips... but anything else would be great. I'm scared of getting up there and dancing and having the room be absolutely silent haha. Maybe that's ridiculous, but that's my biggest fear!

    I would like to order a pair of those clear platform shoes... but am not sure what height to go? I'd rather keep them lower, but if I am just going to go for a 5" heel would I be better off just saving my money and wearing the shoes I already own? (they're plain black peeptoe pumps, about 3 1/2"-4")

    Anyway, thanks in advance everyone, and just want to say how much this board has helped and motivated me, this is the BEST forum of any type that I have ever been on.

    ... and what the heck should I wear?
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    Default Re: First Amateur Night!

    Don't spend money on anything until you've been hired, but try to wear a 4" heel.

    As for what to wear... just something sexy. It's amateur night so keep in mind that you can do the whole girl next door look.
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    Default Re: First Amateur Night!

    sweet, thanks for the tips : )

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    Good luck sweetie, hope it goes well. Remember confidence confidence confidence. That always helps. Hope it goes well

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    Default Re: First Amateur Night!

    The size of the heel is more about the "image" anyway - men expect to see strippers in 6 inch heels because we are strippers, not because we need to be that much taller. In my opnion, girls that aren't wearing stripper shoes just don't look...right.

    But if you put together an outfit that made it work, that would look more like a costume and stripper-appropriate.

    Don't worry, as long as you have enthusiasm and a smile on your face, you'll do fine. Good luck!

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    The main thing to keep in mind is that men are much, much less critical than women are. And they are merciful--especially to newbies. I've seen some hideous (like, deformed and fat) women get on stage, and guys have such good attitudes about even cases like that. Trust me--unless you have a dick, they'll be cheering! They see T&A. Inexperience is sexy--like witniessing a girl's "first time"--so it'd be really hard to mess up!

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    That just made me feel so much more confident, haha! thanx Charlie, I really appreciate it.
    How long do you figure I'll be on stage for? Is it likely the 3-song deal?

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    It'll go by in a blink! You'll be lucky to even remember which songs you danced to. After the first few seconds of realizing "Oh yeah...I'm supposed to be taking off my clothes now", it'll be a blur--it's like dancing in a club, but actually making money off of the guys who'd be staring at you anyway!

    For my club, I danced to two songs. But this obviously completely depends on the club.

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    Clubs cut songs off at different times. At most clubs the average is 3 minutes per song, so you are looking at 9 minutes for 3 songs.
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    Default Re: First Amateur Night!

    I'm training someone now for Amateur Night - I kid you not she's been training forever for this - I'm starting to wonder if she's only doing it because I give her an indsutry discount.

    If it's your first time ever - it's going to be so much fun!!! My first time dancing at a stripclub was a blur of fun and excitement. I didn't do an amateur night but was at an empty dive bar and I kept asking one of the dancers a million questions about stripping and she sent me up onstage. I was mortified at first but got into it and had so much fun. No one cared that I was in street clothes. And I even got tipped What a night?!? So much fun!

    You'll get in the moment of it. As for shoes I don't think they are necessary but I agree with the previous poster stripper shoes just look right. If you can find a pair really cheap go for it but you should wear something around 4-5 inches. Just be sure you can move in them comfortable and that they fit well - you don't want a shoe flying off - which I've done. haha.

    As for outfits - here are some ideas that most women already have in their closets - school girl (thong, plaid skirt, white dress top) short slinky dress, cute teddy out fit or lingerie, or a favorite that I saw a girl do once that I thought was sooo hot - long white dress shirt, thong and mans tie. I really liked that a lot - I don't know why. Or just a black bra and black lace boyshorts with a black thong underneath. Or depending on the bar - take your bikini - I've seen it before. I know a lot of this isn't "real stripper clothes" but it gets the job done in a pinch without spending loads of money.

    Have fun and report back!!!

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