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    Hey guys, Holli here.

    I was just wondering, aside from the standard "Heya sexy, how are you doing tonight?" type of greetings, what are some clever openers you've used in the past to approach customers? I'm sure the men in the club get sick of hearing the same "You look lonely! Want some company?" lines. Then again, I hear men are pretty simple so I could be wrong

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    I honestly say whatever comes to mind... i get tired of saying the same line a thousand times a night...makes me feel robotic and I think most guys think the "hey baby/ hey sexy" thing is kind of lame

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    I usually just walk right up and say "Hi, What's your name?" I used to ask them if they wanted company, but then I figured out that the best way to avoid a no is to not ask questions that can be answered that way.
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    Default Re: Openers, or, how to approach?

    ^^^ I do the same thing but I introduce myself first. Usually it's best not to ask if they want company because it gives them the opportunity to turn you away.

    Sometimes I'm more physical the talkative, but usually just as a soft open. I'll walk behind a guy and rub his shoulders or neck. If he's standing up I might go to his side and do a little dance bump against him... then walk away. It piques their curiosity and is a good way to make it easy for you to come back when you aren't as busy.

    If they are sitting in the back or alone in the dark I will make some joke about being a wallflower to open the conversation.
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    Default Re: Openers, or, how to approach?

    i usually ask how they are doing or how was their day etc. it shows that i am interested in them and gives an opportunity to scope what kind of customer they are/ what kind of mood they are in. Then i ask if they mind if i join them etc... Ive found asking if they want company leads to much more "no's" than "mind if i join you?" does.

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    Don't ask a question make a statement.




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    Hi how are you? I'm ready to have some fun aren't you? I had sooo much fun the last time I worked, I hope we can have as much fun as I did last time!!

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    I've tried the "Is this seat taken?" so many times, it reminds me of the spiel I used to have to give every time I answered the phone at Domino's. Same with "How're you doing tonight?". But then I've also been doing this longer than I want to admit and have the audio equivalent of a photographic memory. I need new lines.

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    sometimes i find myself walking up to guys, introducing myself, and then walking away cause i have nothing else to say. i hate when i do that. sometimes i'm just spoiled and if a customer doesn't light up when i walk over then i don't wanna waste my time, but i feel like i can't be that picky right now in ny.

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    Approach the man - make sure he can see you. Unless it's super crowded. You don't want to scare the poor thing to death. Remember, unless he is a seasoned veteran, the man is nervous.

    Shoulder touch, LIGHTLY! Don't paw or manhandle the man.
    Say.. " Hey ( hello or whatever. It's a regional thing ) Darlin'. How are you? ( bend in a little and show off the goods. and for Petes sake, keep the posture. Don't slouch.)
    After he replies with fine ( Or whatever )
    Say.. " Are you staying out of trouble?" This can be tweaked to .. "Being good, behaving and so forth."

    This ALWAYS gets a smile and breaks the ice. Then you can build a little convo on whatever he replies with. Usually the guys will say " Yes, of course!"
    The pat answer to this is.. " Well darn, you are just a party pooper" Or.. " "Oh I'm sad now, I was trying to find some trouble."

    You get the idea.

    For gals with boobies, and sometimes for those without the large set - Bumping into men on accident or not. A good ice breaker is.. " Excuse me! My boobs just wanted to say Hi."

    Even walking by and asking guys if they are okay can start something. Customer service goes a long way.
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    ^^^ if i said that about my boobs i bet anything some guy would say....who's saying hi?? i dont see any boobs??
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    Quote Originally Posted by chitownchick View Post
    ^^^ if i said that about my boobs i bet anything some guy would say....who's saying hi?? i dont see any boobs??
    You can say, I just wanted to say hi.. or insert hips, legs. If they say that, you really don't need to be talking to him in the first place. Because that's something an asshole would say.


    My smartass self would say, you need glasses then don't you. Or make a crack about when did they start letting blind guys in strip clubs. Just me.

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    blind guys...awesome...

    i sometimes get myself into mild trouble being such a smart ass at work
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    Default Re: Openers, or, how to approach?

    lol, you girls are cute =)... but back to the topic, sometimes I just go up to the guy with a big smile, look him in the eyes, and say "hey cutie! I've been looking all over for ya." look at his lap and then at him, then back to his lap...hopefully he'll invite you to sit down by then. if not I point to his lap and say "I would like to sit there". It usually works and helps break the ice too. Be playful, sexy, sweet, and anything you say should work.

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    Default Re: Openers, or, how to approach?

    ive just been saying, if i dont know the guy, i say something like, what are you up to today sexy? something like that, if i know them, i give them a hug and jsut sit down. i have found that asking if you can sit down is a way for the guy to get an out if they dont think they want a dance. i have had more rejections by asking "hey do you want some company?" i just dont give thema choice, i figure if they are that offended by me they can tell me themselves they dont want me there.
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    Default Re: Openers, or, how to approach?

    I don't say 'you want company' either. another approach idea relating to chitownchick's post is to run up to some friendly looking guy who is checking you out. hug him and tell him how much you missed him, even though you guys have never met. hopefully this would make him feel flattered and make him laugh. then reveal that you've nver actually met but are interested in getting to know him. I'm very goofy so I do weird things like this a lot.

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    Default Re: Openers, or, how to approach?

    Walk up smile make sure he can see you. Ask his name introduce yourself and with a head nod say you wouldn't mind if I sat down would you? Or You need a hot girl on your lap huh ( head nod again) You want to make sure he's not going to waste your time and is interested. If it's a couple ALWAYS approach her first.

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    Tie Downs with a Head Nod.

    Like stripperhacks said, never ask a question that he could say no to.

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    I usually get their attention before I start walking over and do some kind of sexy strut type thing, then either sit in their lap or on the side of their chai with my leg(s) drapped over and ask them their name. It's weird and kind of business like, but I always get better responses when i ask them their name, tell them mine and shake their hand/.

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