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    I keep getting that comment. Like, a LOT. From custies, dancers, and my own damn mother! I have a history of being a pushover, I'm not incredibly thick-skinned but I'm having a TON of fun so far... I'm just worried if I keep hearing that, eventually it will feel true...Is there such a thing as 'too nice' to strip? I'm aware I look incredibly innocent...But so far it's been making me $, do any of you vets think the novelty of that will wear off when I'm not a "new girl" anymore?

    (I've always envied tough, assertive, in-your-face chicks, and I'm a good actress I think? I can grow into these damn stripper heels if I have to, I swear! Somebody jade me! )

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    Default Re: "Too Nice" to strip?

    The novelty will most definitely wear off eventually. Then you'll either decide to keep doing it for the money and/or because you still enjoy some part of it, or, you will decide you've had enough an move on.

    I don't think there is such a thing as too nice to strip. Too thin skinned? Yes. But too nice? No.

    Also, as far as that coming from customers, they say that to make you feel good (not trying to say your aren;t nice, just letting you know)...I have been doing this for 5yrs now, and customers still say i'm "too nice" to be doing it.

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    I get it a lot too. It's almost a part of my hustle now. A lot of guys want a nice girl who isn't a crook. None of us are, but apparently ensuring our safety, not going out on dates with strangers, and demanding the payments that are due to us has given us a bad rap...

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    Default Re: "Too Nice" to strip?

    I get the same comment all the time. It's been many years and I still hear it. I don't think being nice has anything to do with dancing, so don't worry about it and take it as a compliment.
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    Default Re: "Too Nice" to strip?

    ^^^

    The ladies above me nailed it. The "too nice" comment never goes away. Eventually, though, your thin skin will!

    It sounds like you're off to a good start, btw. good going!!!

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    Default Re: "Too Nice" to strip?

    yea, i was in the same boat of you... and i got "too nice" or "two innocent" to be dancing ALL the time...

    but i don't think it effects earnings... never stopped a custie from getting a dance..





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    Wow, most guys think normal strippers are bitches, huh?

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    Default Re: "Too Nice" to strip?

    ^^^yeah, they do. Though to be fair, I've come across enough that are, that I am not all that surprised that they think that

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    "Too nice" never worked in my favor. For two years I would constantly be getting turned down and frustrated, and I drove myself insane wondering what all those other girls who were always in VIP were doing differently, and why they were making 2-3 times as much $$ as me.

    Then I realized that the top earners that I envied were aggressive as hell! No one would ever call them "nice", yet guys tripped all over themselves to open their wallets for them.
    Eventually I got fed up with being taken advantage of (i.e. guys watching me get naked and talking to me without paying me; having my time wasted, having to smile and giggle and listen to their dumb ass shit and in the end getting "rewarded" with one or two measly dances and never anything more. )

    One day something just snapped, and that was the end of Ms. "you're such a nice girl". I make a lot more $$ now.

    If being nice works for you then keep doing it; if not, it will get old FAST and you'll have to find another approach that will get you the $$$ that you're here for.

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    Being nice is an advantage when dealing with customers, I think. Just remember this is a business, your business. Treat it that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms. Mia Roberts View Post
    yea, i was in the same boat of you... and i got "too nice" or "two innocent" to be dancing ALL the time...

    but i don't think it effects earnings... never stopped a custie from getting a dance..
    If I ever got called "innocent" I would be LIVID.

    dictionary.com:

    –adjective
    1. free from moral wrong; without sin; pure: innocent children.
    2. free from legal or specific wrong; guiltless: innocent of the crime.
    3. not involving evil intent or motive: an innocent misrepresentation.
    4. not causing physical or moral injury; harmless: innocent fun.
    5. devoid (usually fol. by of): a law innocent of merit.
    6. having or showing the simplicity or naiveté of an unworldly person; guileless; ingenuous.
    7. uninformed or unaware; ignorant.


    –noun 8. an innocent person.
    9. a young child.
    10. a guileless person.
    11. a simpleton or idiot.

    12. Usually, innocents. (used with a singular verb) bluet (def. 1).

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    If someone says you're too nice or innocent to strip, head for the hills. They'll MAYBE give you a few pity dances and then go spend good money on the girls they think are whores. They're there for the whores! They might not get it, but they sure like to try.

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    Default Re: "Too Nice" to strip?

    I hear this a lot & I hate it.....what the fuck do you mean, my peers arn't, I'm not good enouph ( er, bad enouph) to strip, or spend money onfuckers.....something died last week in me, but I think it is for the best.....we will see how this week goes for me....the not so nice girl anymore!

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    Ugh. 8 years later I'm still getting this one. I'm "too nice", "too smart", "too sweet" etc etc to be doing the job I do. It annoys me almost as much as "I think I'm (falling) in Love with you" and "do you know how beautiful/hot/smart/perfect you are?" (the answer here is "probably").

    If I didn't have so much fun bilking these "charmers" out of every dollar they have I would have quit years ago so I didn't have to have the same 10 conversations 40 times a day.

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    Default Re: "Too Nice" to strip?

    I'ts all bullshit made up by custies is the way I see it. Almost everyone who has danced has had this comment told to them. Along with the ones mentioned above, also "too pretty"
    There is stripper shit and there is custie shit, haha

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