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    I just switched clubs, from a slow one with expensive ass dances where LDs on the floor aren't allowed, to a club with more customers, cheaper dances (half as much of the other place, and we get a MUCH higher commission), and dances are allowed on the floor.

    So, been going around offering dances, and even telling guys they want a dance. Very few responses. Finally I sit down and talk to a customer. He says he's only got one girl there but tells me I shouldn't even ask and just get in their laps, and hold out my garter for tips.

    I did this, made a lot more $$.

    My problem is, will this set me up for a reputation among customers that they won't come to me willingly, or want a VIP dance? And some customers don't know how to say "thank you" when they're good, or "no thanks" when they don't want one and look dumbfounded between me, their wad of singles and my garter. Admittedly these guys are usually younger, aren't regulars, aren't looking for a girl they can respect, and won't buy VIP dances.

    AAAND how do I upsell if I didn't even ask in the first place? I had a "childsplay" line made up to compare, but if I just sat down in their lap, expect tips how do I make that sale? And when do I time myself? I'm thinking of waiting until they say they're out of singles, but before letting them go to the bar, then offering. Or should I go halfway? Sit in their lap, then ask? They may just be too shy and I'm already there, breaking the barrier.

    And for the record, I usually rock the bad girl/punk/rebellious look, but on occaision go more classic.
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    Default Re: Not Asking For Dances

    Wait, so you just sit there and pull out your garter and hope for a tip? I really think you're wasting your time on this approach. If nothing else comes of this routine of yours, I think you will get a name in the club and it won't be a good one.

    Also, you don't have to sit in laps to make money.







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    It's apparently what a lot of the other girls do. Of course then I hear complaints in the dressing room about giving a dance and then the guy saying he doesn't have any singles, and how he wasted their time. I do think a lot of the girls there are stuck up and skanky, and willing to do just about anything for a dollar (just short of extras, but they got no problem with grinding their FACE in the customers lap in the VIP area and not even asking for tips...)
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    I'm confused. How long are the dances and what do they cost?

    This reminded me of a club I worked at where even if you didn't dance for a guy, and you only went up to him to talk for a sec and ask if he wanted a dance, you'd smile and ask, "tip for my time?" This was the norm, and I wasn't used to this, but every girl did it, just about, and it really worked and increased my earnings. Some girls would even give a second dance and then ask for a tip, without even asking the guy if he wanted a "sample." If the whole club is doing this, I think it's fine for you and to upsell, all you'd do is use a line implying that he seemed turned on by what you were doing then, and how much better it would be in a more intimate area of the club or w/e.

    If your dances are longer than a minute, then yeah, you're def risking wasting time, which is money.

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    Default Re: Not Asking For Dances

    VIP dances are $20 (not private, but in a roped off area, and we can front straddle/ show tits) (and CR can be full nude and is private, 15 mins at a time), but on the floor it's fully covered and we can really only grind facing away, and those are the ones in question. We just dance and hold out our garter/strap about every 10 seconds.

    I'm thinking just the halfway approach. Sitting on their lap (in a normal way) and introduce myself, then ask. And saving the grinding harassment for the younger, cheaper, non-regular crowd who don't wanna pay for a VIP dance or CR and really just want some grinding, while talking a bit more to the older guys. This club is so weird, I just don't know x_x I'm used to where we can't get off stage, and we actually dance, while here, girls just give lap dances around the stage during their sets and are extremely high contact.
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