Ok. so here's a question for the custies. When you guys compliment strippers do you really mean what you say?
Backstory: When i was first getting into dancing a stripper friend who works in a diff. club warned me "you are going to get so many insults, i always do... it's like they come in there to pick on your weight/tatoos/exc to feel better about themselves." So that's what i was expecting. But i have yet to get a single guy pick on me. instead i am always getting compliments. "your so attractive" "i love your hair" blah blah. I can never tell if the custies actually think i am all that hot or if they are just bullshitting me for some reason...
Also the following types of compliments are annoying, (at least in my oppinion) so maybe try to avoid them.
-you want to tell a girl she is cute. fine. don't repeat it over and over. then it's just acward.
-don't tell the girl "why are you working here, you could do so much better"... "oh yah? and where do you sujest i work in Wisconsin that is better hah?
-"you are the hottest girl at this club" or even worse "you are way hotter then (points at current girl on stage)".
Espetially in regard to that last one. You may think it's a compliment, and maybe some dancers like hearing that they are hotter then their co workers, i find it to be really abnoxious, especially since i like most of my coworkers and it always seems more as an insult to them then a compliment to me in a weird way.
so i guess my question is as follows
1) custies, do you mean the compliments you give strippers and
2) dancers, do you enjoy getting compliments like the ones i have mentioned, or do they just get old and annoying?
(also, if this whole thing sounded braggy or something, i didn't mean it that way and i can't think of a way to put it that will sound more humble. plus i am not a humble person so just deal.)
-Crimson



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. one dancer said she blushed at my compliment, which was rare for her. i took it as SS since it was too dark to tell if her cheeks were rosy
. i asked another girl if she gets tired of hearing that she's beautiful and she said "no one can ever get tired of hearing that, i love it"

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