A few months ago I met my ATF at a no-alcohol club. There was just something about her that created an incredible chemistry. I've gone back and seen her a few times and really enjoyed myself each time. We've talked for long periods of time and enjoyed each other's energy and there was always a very intense sensual experience.
Now, I have no desire to meet her outside of the club. None. Zero. I'm happily married (wife knows I go to a strip club about once a month or so) and don't feel it would be proper to have contact with her outside of the club. My ATF is also married (although that marriage is not so great according to her). She once asked me for my phone number and I said no, although we do e-mail every now and again, mainly when I want to check and see if she'll be in the club.
So while I have no desire for OTC, I like the feeling of a fake relationship in the club and like acting like a gentleman around her. She's older than me (5-10 years, I'd guess), very attractive in a MILF way, and a good conversationalist. We have some things in common but are also different enough that our conversations are fun and lively. She either actually likes hanging out with me at the club to to some genuine degree in addition to liking the money I give her, or fakes it well enough that it feels to me like she does. I don't feel a need to look into the fantasy too deeply and try to guess which is actually true.
Bottom line is that I like the feeling of a solely In the Club relationship with her, and because I like that feeling in the past few months I have done the following Pathetic Looser stuff in addition to just buying dances and tipping her for the time we are together;
The dance floor is circle and I have walked around the circle, dropping money until I made it back to my seat.
Made it rain (which she apparently had never happened to her before and didn't know the term)
Given her hand massages, back massages, leg massages, arm messages, and foot massages.
Brought snacks for her and all of the gals.
Given her a piece of jewelry that I thought matched her hair (which either genuinely chocked her up or she is an excellent actress - I also gave her the gift receipt so she can get plain cash if she wants)
Keep in mind that I'm doing these because I like to. I'm not trying to date her or have _anything_ outside of the club. I just like the feeling it gives me and it's a fun role play. It's an escape for a few hours - not much different than playing World of Warcraft and pretending to be a Palidon for a few hours, except I'm role playing with a hot naked chick - OK so it's a lot different than WoW.
Bottom line is, I do the Pathetic Looser stuff because I enjoy doing them for the moment they are done, so I'm looking for other PL stuff that I can do
Things I'm thinking about doing in the future;
Buying her a dress (with a gift receipt if she just wants the cash)
Bringing Pizza in the club for all the girls.
Tipping her for doing 2-person Yoga moves with me.
Tipping her to play a board game or cards together.
Bringing flowers (the ultimate in PL right)?
Buying a toy for her kid (too personal? She's told me a fair amount about her home life)
Anyone have any ideas for what are some other fun PL stuff I can do?
Side question: What's the funnest PL thing you've ever had done for you (In the Club)?


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