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    Default How to convince someone...

    Okay, once I'm in vip, I'm awesome at dragging it out, playing the drunk flirt, and basically getting my money doing nothing more than I would do on the floor with as little work as possible.

    Here's my problem...

    I'm a good girl. I don't kiss or do anything more than grind a little (clothes on), but I put on a big show and make the drunk guy think he just got a really awesome half hour or more.

    In the club I work at the girls have a reputation for being very dirty, which I take advantage of.

    So how can I get more vip's playing off the "easy" thing without being "easy" and giving myself away as the good girl. I want them to think I'm going to give them everything without ever saying that.

    Thanks in advance girls!

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    there's a danger with doing thatthat if you really overpromise, the guy will be angry and ask for his money abck and throw a fit. so i suggest not playing this game with the serious pervert since he would be motivated to really try to push you in the private room, and be the most pissed off. having said that, this still works great on an average guy. the trick is to know when to stop talking. have just a couple of lines afte which you confidently just lead them in the back. some good lines are" lets go in the back - its so mush more intimate" (and really eamphasize "intimate" with a wink or smthg) "trust me, you're gonna be happy" emphasis on "happy"
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    I know some girls don't feel comfortable doing this, but maybe you could talk dirty to him. I'm not sure about your club, but I doubt that most girls do that in clubs that I've worked in...maybe 2 clubs max. Most claim that they feel fake or silly doing that, which I completely understand. This can work, though, as long as you can make it convincing. This can really work when you're one of the only girls doing this.

    When I talk dirty, I use the contrast of my "personality" to my advantage. I approach a guy looking very "clean," sober, pretty well educated (at least I think I do when I speak), put together, etc. I introduce myself, get to know him a little, then BAM - out comes the dirty talk to lure in him into the back.

    I only do this on guys I've never seen in the club before, and ones that seem at least mildy interested in me beforehand. Be forewarned, however, that this may turn off some guys, as they may find this approach not "classy" or w/e. I also typically only do this when I'm doing a quicker hustle...liiike, if I come into work and don't really feel like "working," I'll just tell myself that I'm going to approach everyone w/the quickest hustle possible (as in under a minute) and talk dirty then move on or dance for them. You'd be surprised...talk can be very stimulating depending on how you approach the situation. It's also better for the married guys that might feel guilty bc they have wives - it's not like they got extras in the back, but a little talk sure adds more to the fantasy compared to solely dancing/grinding.

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    hmm, i like this, examples? i kinda suck at spotaneous dirty, but i have like 10 lines memorized that i can say with a straight face. but i'm always looking to expand my repertoire
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    I use humor, I can't talk dirty with a straight face...and I'm certainly not going to set myself up for a situation where I don't deliver what I say....
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    Quote Originally Posted by saphire123456 View Post
    hmm, i like this, examples? i kinda suck at spotaneous dirty, but i have like 10 lines memorized that i can say with a straight face. but i'm always looking to expand my repertoire
    lol i suck at spontaneous dirty talk, too. i say the same stuff, but like i've said in previous posts, i don't really have regulars bc they stress me out and i hate tryin to keep up w/remembering things about them and blah blah. 10 lines sound like more than i have, actually. here are some examples:

    "let's go play in the back? i'll give you a nice headrub while we wait for the next song and then i'll give you a full body massage with myyy body concentrating on one area ESPECIALLY"...okay that's not really dirty dirty sounding when i read it, but you can make it sound dirty depending on your tone.

    while already in the back during a lapdance after the end of the first song - "can i keep riding your hard cock? it feels so good under my wet pussy."

    "let me put my tits in your face and sit on your hard dick."

    etc etc. it's real basic stuff. i do make sure that everything i say, i can do. whenever i say "riding cock," i make sure that i'm already in the back doing a lapdance and he KNOWS that i mean riding as in grinding. i make sure to use the words: tits, breasts, dick, cock, wet pussy, pussy, ride, sit on top of your cock, etc.

    as i said, it's really the contrast that i think works. like the other day someone was saying how i seemed too "nice" to be a stripper and blah blah blah...that was the perfect time to bust out w/the cock and pussy talk and it worked.

    i agree w/britney, though. don't say something that you can't deliver. i never tell him that i'll ride him until he comes, that i'll suck his dick, that he can stick his dick in me, etc. and yes, use caution because i do understand that some talk can be interpreted in different ways. i wouldn't be surprised if the majority of people on here did NOT recommend this method!

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    hmmm, I think i may have been to conservative with my "dirty" talk, I may have to turn it up a notch and see how i fare.
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    I just can't do it with a straight face....they see right through me....I use a lot of eye contact and subtle touching my chest or stomach it makes them get the idea

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    I am just really ambiguous when guys ask for stuff - usually. like "haha, we'll see hun! why don't we get in there and get warmed up/see what happens?" be suggestive, but don't promise anything.
    but if they come right out and are like "do you fuck?" or the like, I always make sure to say, "oh we don't do that here! but..." follow up the negative statement with a positive one.

    also, if you make them have enough fun with you and can set yourself apart from the dirty girls, you will gain a (good) rep, which should last a lot longer than the thing the dirty girls have going for themselves
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    You really have to be careful saying that. I usually tell dirty jokes it works better. I would be worried I'd get a cop and get busted.

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    I'd go the wide-eyed, spoiled brat route. When it is time to extend, make sure to get closer, widen your eyes, play up the 'Daddy's little girl' pout and coo to them that you two are having such a good time that you don't want them to leave.

    Tell them they are more fun than all the boring guys who are out on the main floor and get it across to him that HE is entertaining YOU. If he does extend, incorporate shoulder and neck rubs and lots of silly cooing and just dote on him, treating him like a KING. It will be hard for most guys to try to make things go into slut mode if you act like the totally sweet chick who just wants to 'cuddle' or be sensuous. He'll be more in pamper mode as opposed to trying to ask you to do more than you're comfortable with.

    A lot of guys secretly like the combo of what can be considered 'babying' him and yet simultaneously treating him like he is your knight in shining armor. One of my highest paying regulars as well as my most consistent (but admittedly less well-off) regular like this approach because they are often ignored or love-starved outside of the club environment.

    They feel a more genuine connection when it comes across that you are looking at them as the BMOC and not as 'just another dude' as they are treated by the fly-by-night extras girls who, in turn, otherwise remind them of the way they are treated in normal society. Get him to think in measurement of spending more TIME and minimize the emphasis on the $money$ aspect.

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    I almost ALWAYS ask questions in a sexy tone.. Especially if they are difficult or really handsy.. I'll ask "What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done?" and if they are shy be like "I really want to know..." and get them talking... Or I will tell him a story of my crazy sex days (like sleeping with 5 other women.... or public sex....) to get him intrigued. It takes the focus off them trying to grope. Getting them involved in steamy conversation along with sexy dancing usually gets them interested in staying longer.

    I also massage their shoulders or neck while I dance.. Or rub their head (the one on top of the body!) Getting them relaxed is always key... Depending on what they are looking for.. Some want crazy wild stripper, some want to be treated like a king, some just want to relax.. You have to read the customer and give him what he wants (to an extent)

    Naked massage is always nice...Who wouldn't like that. And I just made 2-400 giving someone a massage

    Good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by XAnastasiaX View Post
    You really have to be careful saying that. I usually tell dirty jokes it works better. I would be worried I'd get a cop and get busted.
    This is my method as well, that or just be really adorable and flirty.

    I have been in a club during a raid. I wasnt ticketed or accused of anything, but it shook me up so badly I am now scared shitless of cops and getting a ticket, even if I am not doing anything.

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    You talk dirty he'll expect you to act dirty. Don't waste your time with that crap. If you're a good enough hustler you won't even need to go there barely ever. If it's important to him give him a lapdance - and talk. Humor is important as Britney ireland says. Humor mixed in with questions.

    Compliments are the key along with constant questions - and listen, then when he's finished talking ask yet more questions amd more humor. Remember this. The guy may WANT hot action but in reality what he NEEDS is attention and to feel wanted. You don't have to kiss or do anything sexual with him to give him what he needs. If he insists on it and won't budge when his time is up let him walk away to go and find the club whore. You stay safe.
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    The guy may WANT hot action but in reality what he NEEDS is attention and to feel wanted.

    YEa!! Thanks for reminding us of that!!

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