All right ladies...I need your help. For real. Sorry if this is long--I tried to make it brief.
As some of you may know, I began having sex at the beginning of this year. I wasn't really expecting it to be great (although I'm deeply in love with my SO). I figured I'd get the first time over with, and move on from there.
Problem? Things haven't really gotten better.
I'm really struggling between wanting to just give up on it all (I'm the kind of personality where if I don't excel at something, I don't want to do it at all), and wanting to keep trying new things in hope that it'll improve. I'm becoming a clock-watcher during sex...which is terrible. I love making my SO feel good, but I feel so left out because it isn't good for me.
The biggest frustration is that I'm highly orgasmic when I'm on my own. I get off easily, quickly, and as many times as I want. So how is it possible that sex is such a disappointment?
I'm very analytical...so I suspect I may be having problems staying 'in the moment.' But I don't know how to solve this! Furthermore, I really don't like receiving oral sex (it's painful at worst and tolerable at best), and intercourse is sometimes painful and very rarely feels 'good'.
Do you ladies have any advice for me? Even random, weird sex tips will be appreciated (like 'try tipping your hips and pointing your toes' etc.).
I'm feeling completely frustrated and cynical about sex...having heard from a young age that it was the epitome of adult activities. I would appreciate ANY and ALL help! Teach me, ye goddesses of sex!![]()



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. It really make ALL the difference. You can be compatible with someone on every level, including physically, and still not be compatible sexually.

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