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    Smiley Working up the courage !

    & the muscles lol ! I have been thinking about dancing for about a year now... for several different reasons. 1 being the money of course I hear it can be pretty good.. 2 it just intrigues me. I have watched videos on you tube and stuff and it is just amazing how beautiful pole dancing actually is.. and I understand that is not something that I am going to be good at right away, maybe not even for a while but still it is something I want to try. I am not really a shy person but a little nervous. I have just been stretching [trying to learn to do splits!] and working out. I think my body looks good but I need more muscle tone if I am going to attempt the pole ! I am also hoping this will help me come out of my shell some.. haha well it will pretty much force me to. I hold back a lot of frustration and sexuality and I really don't know why but this feels like a good way to release it ! Believe it or not I have never even been to a club but once. Not saying I can't dance but I am not a dancer by any means.. not yet anyways !! Well , just wanted to introduce myself !

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    ^^^ I had never been inside a SC when I first got hired. I just walked in and they hired me. Well, not the first one - but that is because the manager was a jerk (watching a football game rather than interviewing me) and I walked out.

    Just go try it and you'll be fine. You don't need to learn to pole dance unless you want to. The majority of dancers don't know how to pole dance.
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    I just started a pole aerobics class. They teach the girls how to be sexy and dance as well as learning pole tricks. I know how to dance because I've danced for 7 years, but never had an interest to learn pole tricks until not too long ago. I finally worked up the courage. It's more like an investment for me and has many perks... ie getting in shape, attaining confidence, wow the crowd and make more tips, etc. You should try it to motivate yourself and give you confidence. Most of the instructors are ex-dancers, so they will know what they are doing. Good luck to you!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gypsyeyes1230 View Post
    Most of the instructors are ex-dancers, so they will know what they are doing.
    No and no.

    There is a big misconception that the majority of people teaching pole classes are ex-dancers. As a matter of fact many pole studios look down on ex dancers and often have a policy for not hiring ex-dancers for all of the stereotypical reasons. Personally I think it's silly, but it is a fact. There are different types of pole studios out there with many being anti-stripper.

    Second, don't ever assume that just because someone is teaching means that they actually know what they are doing correctly. I just posted about this. Read my 4th post at:

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