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    Hey ladies,

    Sorry it's been waaaaayyyyyyyyy to long since my last post...I was living with one of "those" overpossesive types who couldn't stand this website. Anyways, that's the past. But I have something to share with you all:

    I met an attractive older guy in the club who kept coming to see me. He was very nice to talk to, down to earth, and apparently had money. Well, we've all heard the same lines of BS all day when it comes to " I'll support you blah blah blah blah come be with me...etc."

    Well, going COMPLETELY against my "no dating idiots in the club" policy, I went for it.

    And, it worked. He bought me:

    A car
    A year's rent for an apt. of my choice
    Everything that goes in the apt. (Tv's, computer, etc etc.).
    He pays me every other day in cash so I don't have to work, and is paying for the remainder of school...

    Can you beleive this?!! I'm still in "pinch me mode"...

    And he has no habbits, addictions, problems, or anything! So, I guess some of em are actually nice guys that stand by their word...

    I guess the moral of the story is to keep an open mind but always trust your insticts.
    I'd grab my trumpet and I'd do a stripper sound, like the old Louis Armstrong, real raspy. And the people would go nuts! Then I knew that the sexual, sensual, guttural sound, that throbbing sound, is where it's at.

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    Sweet. Good for you! You go! LOL
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    Good deal for you!
    Yes it's true, some guys that come in actually are true gentlemen, but with as many assholes we have to constantly deal with, it's sometimes hard to find those "real" men......
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    That's great... as long as it's what YOU wanted.

    You know that song Roxanne? I hate it! It doesn't talk at all about what she wants, just the guy trying to rescue her. I mean, some people like where they are at and don't see themselves as needing to be rescued.

    Things can change quickly.... so if this is what you want then my advice is to finish school as soon as you can and secure a job. A guy could leave in a heartbeat, and if that happens you need to know that you will still be happy and not resent that he took you away from dancing.
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    ^Goog point. I guess I was willing to go for it because

    A. I've done well with saving my money and keeping up my bank accounts in case anything would happen and

    B. I only have one more class before I get my BA.

    But yeah, I'm still trying to keep a level head and stuff and make sure to keep checking my "am i truly happy" guage, and so far so good . yay!

    Thanks for the replies!
    I'd grab my trumpet and I'd do a stripper sound, like the old Louis Armstrong, real raspy. And the people would go nuts! Then I knew that the sexual, sensual, guttural sound, that throbbing sound, is where it's at.

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    At last - a really good story! Haven't heard one like this in years. That's great, hold on to him and welcome to my life! Make sure you never give in to having sex with him in return for these gifts and keep your bf/gf separate if you have one. Let's see how long this lasts. I'm going 3 years now no probs. Looking fwd to the update.
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    Inspiring & wonderful!


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    Congrats sweety. It's very uplifting to hear a story like this.

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    Wow,that's great!But be careful with the guy,who knows what can happen down the road.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    That's great... as long as it's what YOU wanted.

    You know that song Roxanne? I hate it! It doesn't talk at all about what she wants, just the guy trying to rescue her. I mean, some people like where they are at and don't see themselves as needing to be rescued.

    Things can change quickly.... so if this is what you want then my advice is to finish school as soon as you can and secure a job. A guy could leave in a heartbeat, and if that happens you need to know that you will still be happy and not resent that he took you away from dancing.
    Heyy u put that song in my head now Lol,
    well done 4 finding a good guy x
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    oh good for you!
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    My boyfriend went as far as scanning EVERY THREAD I ever posted on to find dirt on me. So I understand "those" types. I posted about anal sex, about leaving OTC, about drinking and he held all that crap against me. Poop!

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    ^^^^ what a psycho! my ex always thought this website was a way for dancers to meet up with customers and do dirty things..... what an idiot!

    As far as the OP, congratulations! I always hear of guys like that, but have never seen it. If I was you I would still work on the side and stash some extra $$$
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    Do you have to see him every other day when he gives you money?

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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post

    As far as the OP, congratulations! I always hear of guys like that, but have never seen it. If I was you I would still work on the side and stash some extra $$$

    I agree. You dont wanna become dependant on this guy, as what happens when he knows you `need` him? He may start bargaining. Always remain independant.
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    Quote Originally Posted by charlygirl View Post
    At last - a really good story! Haven't heard one like this in years. That's great, hold on to him and welcome to my life! Make sure you never give in to having sex with him in return for these gifts and keep your bf/gf separate if you have one. Let's see how long this lasts. I'm going 3 years now no probs. Looking fwd to the update.
    i was under the impression this guy was her boyfriend...or is this guy just throwing money at you for no reason?

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    YOU GO GIRL!!! Try to safe some of that money he's giving you,since the apartment is paid for.
    Thanking my new money maker body to this lady.....
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    Update?
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    Is he married?
    What's the catch?

    Congrats for you, if it's the real thing, but I'm a skeptic. I can't help but think something is wrong with this picture.

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    is he like your boyfriend now? are you sleeping with him, or is he just a sugar daddy?
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    Quote Originally Posted by erotictonic View Post
    Is he married?
    What's the catch?

    Congrats for you, if it's the real thing, but I'm a skeptic. I can't help but think something is wrong with this picture.
    I feel like there's more to this story that we aren't hearing...
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    This just happened to me about six months ago and as soon as i say i am going to work he throws money at me, brought me a car computer pays for school two trips this year one with him other for me and my kids.

    He hates that i work.
    I should say we are dating now and he spoils me, but i am always honest with him and tell him i wont stop working yet. He has said at some point he is going to ask me to completely stop. now i go once a month. I love having him in my life not sure why or how to stop working its a security blanket for me.

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    ^Don't stop...every woman needs to be able to stand on her own two feet. If you do end up stopping at least make sure you have some of that money he gives you in savings. Savings he doesn't need to know about. I'm not saying it will end, but always have a plan b in life. I'm also not saying you can't use that savings on things for each other too, but always have a contingency.

    I knew a woman who was spoiled like this and at 40 when her husband left her for a 20 year-old, she had nothing. Not even a bank account in her own name. Sure she had a divorce settlement, but no skills to get gainful employment and very little friends since she had no work social circle. It was extremely difficult for her for several years and she will never see the lifestyle she had again, unless she marries rich again, which of course gets harder since now she is "too old" compared to the 20-year-olds.

    Make sure he keeps paying for that education so you always have a backup plan. Your education is one of the few things that no one can take away from you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by erotictonic View Post
    Is he married?
    What's the catch?

    Congrats for you, if it's the real thing, but I'm a skeptic. I can't help but think something is wrong with this picture.
    Me too I'm afraid. Golden Rule in life - "If it seems too good to be true - it most likely is".

    But hey - I mean - good for you if it works out - I'd be the first to be deleriously happy for you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by masala View Post
    This just happened to me about six months ago and as soon as i say i am going to work he throws money at me, brought me a car computer pays for school two trips this year one with him other for me and my kids.

    He hates that i work.
    I should say we are dating now and he spoils me, but i am always honest with him and tell him i wont stop working yet. He has said at some point he is going to ask me to completely stop. now i go once a month. I love having him in my life not sure why or how to stop working its a security blanket for me.
    Don't stop. Trust me from experience, every woman needs a "Just in case he's an asshole" fund.

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