lol i need to bring a notecard to work or send myself a text msg with these tips thanks paris i am using those tonight on a monday they are usually slow, but I am trying to work more often.




Last night I went up to EVERY guy seriously, I was on a mission! I made 240 the parking lot was iffy, but there happened to be a few guys in there. That's not bad for a monday when its the night thugs come in the most. Now on other nights I better make more than 240 lol.
awesome tips Paris. I like the trivia idea, brilliant! don't be afraid to feel like you are hustling them, you are there to make money. If they don't spend money on you then move on.
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A lot of times guys will ask me "would you like a drink?" and i would respond with "no i dont want a drink, i'd rather dance for you instead" I'm very firm and forthcoming. It works





i used to do that when i worked at a club where drinks for us were 9$ and the dances were 10. now where i work drinks are 7 and dances are 20.
be careful about doing this in earshot of other employees. Most clubs have a rule saying you are not allowed to turn down a drink because you should help the house. plus if the waitresses hear you say this they will be salty because it takes away a tip from them...
^^ Correct. Don't decline a drink in front of bar/wait straff; they will be dissapointed

Good thread!! I also do not want to fall into the "hustle" category. So many customers in my club complain to me about other girls just walking up and asking for a dance and they find my friendliness and willingness to sit and chat for a bit nice. However, sometimes I feel like I waste way to much time talking. Yes I actually enjoy it but I still need to make that money.I hate asking for a dance.....I just don't like being pushy. But I'm going to try a harder to keep the goal in mind and not worry about making " friend"...considering I'm not ever think about them again.
Why do u hate asking for a dance? It's my favorite part!!
I just met a new girl in my club and this is what happened. I came up to a random guy and talked with him for maybe a minute, asked for a dance, he took one. OK not bad, 1 dance is better than none LoL. So then she was on stage, he walked all the way from the bar, watched her on stage, tipped and went back to his spot by the bar. when she got off I told her to go over to the guy who just tipped her. She is new so I was being nice (it was slow too), so she went, talks to him for like 30 mins, then leaves. I come up to her and ask "how come he didnt get a dance from you?" She goes, "oh he didnt ask me, so I left". Uhhhmmm..... he is not supposd to ask, you ask THEM for dances. She shrugged her shoulders and goes " I know, but I dont ask, I feel like I'm desperate when I ask".. I stopped there, no more hustling secrets for you since you're too good to ask for a dance!!





if you feel like asking for dances is desperate, you are probably in the wrong profession. sheesh.
was she new to dancing or just new to your club? if she was new to dancing then i guess i could cut her some slack, but if it was just a new club then wow, faaaail.





Ok I guess its understandable if an 18 yr old new to dancing feels embarassed to ask for dances. I was under the impression that she had been dancing for other clubs. Im sure after a few weeks her skin will thicken up, especially after she realizes that you make money when you ask for dances.



For the guys who wanna keep on buying you drinks and talk talk talk talk- I usually tell these guys that alcohol makes me horny and if they buy me drinks they'll have to eventually come to the lapdance area. Doesn't matter how you word it as long as it get's that point across. Word it subtly or bluntly depending on the guy (or intuition). It works! If they're there to spend money they say, hey that's just fine and dandy!
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You could always tell them " Oh Sweetheart I don't have to be drunk to be attracted to you!" Especially if he insists on you drhking and you really don't want to. Or I always say " We are really only supposed to drink when you buy a bottle or are in VIP." It may be a small white lie and at the same time it lets you know if he's just wasting your time. 3 songs and if he's not buying ANYTHING excuse yourself. You are on the right track conversing though, you never want to be a "wanna dance" girl. Make demands don't ask questions. In the real world he's used to answering yes and no In the strip club world he wants you to chase him and push him into the direction you want him to go. " I should sit with you huh." Lets go play, it'll be the best dances of your life."
You will do great hun, just stay sober, confident and know you are the best one in the room for him to be with.
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