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    Default Aggressive Hustler scaring the customers!

    Theres a young girl (new, but has danced in the past) and shes killing our money! She waits by the door and literally GRABS customers as they enter, saying "Have a private dance, IM doing them, come on, have a dance"
    The customers are walking back out the door, and money has sucked on her shifts, which is making her MORE aggressive!

    She is also trying to stop custies getting dances with other girls. They pay the club for the 'room hire' and then give their ticket to the girl. Shes grabbing the guys as they pay and saying "IM doing your dance" when they actually wanted another girl, and one guy was quite rude to her about it.

    I lost a dance today, with a big tipper regular, as he was waiting for me to finish my stage, she was hassling him, and he left, with a message that he'll see me next week.

    The club is VERY low hustle, a lot of customers just tip for the stages, and dont get dances. (lots of pensioners come in on day shift) We never PUSH them, as spending $20 tipping daily is a big expense for some people, and to be honest, its nice to have people watching whie you work, rather than an empty club.

    When customers ask about the shows, all of the girls will say, "we are all available hon, its up to you" not "IM the only one doing dances" when theres another two girls right there.

    So how do we work around her?
    I doubt she'll last long anyways, but I cant have my money suffer from no customers in the place.
    I have my regulars, but they cant pay all my bills, I need the fresh meat :-D
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    Default Re: Aggressive Hustler scaring the customers!

    i would say something to the manager.

    girls like that don't just hurt your money, they hurt the club's money because guys don't stick around buying drinks, and might not even come back at all. the manager needs to have a talk with her about it.
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    I'd talk to her in front of a manager with all of the other girls backing you up. Explain to the manager that she is running the customers off by being too aggressive and by running the customers off, your losing money and will also have to leave. It's the only way to get her to stop or to get rid of her, I've had to do it and witness it several times.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Gemini_Syn View Post
    I'd talk to her in front of a manager with all of the other girls backing you up. Explain to the manager that she is running the customers off by being too aggressive and by running the customers off, your losing money and will also have to leave. It's the only way to get her to stop or to get rid of her, I've had to do it and witness it several times.
    This might make her feel like you are personally attacking her... Try talking to the manager, and asking him to say something to her. You don't want to be in the middle.

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    Quote Originally Posted by angelicat View Post
    This might make her feel like you are personally attacking her... Try talking to the manager, and asking him to say something to her. You don't want to be in the middle.
    thats what I was worried about. I dont want to make waves, Ive stayed out of the gossip and bitching so far, and I dont want to get involved. Im just hoping that the manager will say something to her. its only a matter of time before she starts saying that SHES the only girl working, or a customer complains, in which case the management will hear about it. I already had one guy ask me for a dance, in front of her, "your dances must be great, since you dont need to do the hard sell"
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    Talk to the manager about it. Actually, I would get a group of dancers together and have all of you go talk to the manager... maybe like 3 or 4. If you speak to her directly about it she probably will just think you all are being jealous and won't grasp what is going on.
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    Wow, I'm surprised a manager hasn't said anything to her already. Do they not see what's going on? I agree w the fact that she will probably just think you all are jealous, bc it sounds like, to some degree, her tactic is working for her in the short term. I would def have someone else, who is not a dancer, deliver the message.

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    The second she starts taking YOUR customers from you she's fair game for a beating in back of the building. Ok, probably not the best, most mature, and legal idea...

    Plan B: What everyone else is saying, talk to the manager and have all the other girls back you up. Don't worry if it feels like you guys are attacking her. What she does is just plain rude and fucked up and doesn't deserve a polite "talking to." If it were just you and the girls it might not stop her, but the manager stepping in should.
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    girls like that belong on the street not in the club sorry!
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    There's a girl at my club who does weird shit like that. But she's not aggressive so much as really, really annoyingly persistant. Like, if there's a guy she knows tips me a lot, she will sit with him all night, even though he's not tipping her. And I mean ALL NIGHT. I have no fucking clue why she does that when she's not making money. But she will track down all the girls' high-paying regulars and sit there for free, and she'll leave with no money...and so will we. I don't think she gets what we do, cause she's a little new, and I went to high school with her, and she's an absolute MORON. She thinks all we do is get drunk and sit with guys and bounce around trying to look giggly and cute. I really don't think she ever considers that she might have to work to get money. Then she talks about how she makes so little money she can't even afford to get a place that costs like $600 a month. Gee...I wonder why...

    And then we get pissed at our regulars, because she's so clingy and desperate that they say they feel bad asking her to go away. They'll just sit without tipping and suffer in silence for hours. Wusses.

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    Talk to a manager. It could end up being useful to have a few girls also talk to the manager, SEPARATELY, so that he'll realize it's a lot of girls suffering from the same thing at different times.

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    That's offensive. This girl is messing with your game now it's time for a short blunt dressing room chat. If it doesn't work I'd block that girls hustle at every turn. If she's new she's just over excited right now and needs to calm down. She probably thinks she's hustling great because no one's told her she's doing it wrong.
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    update: she has been 'fired' by management (but they are desperate for girls atm, so will prob hire her back when she says "Ill behave") for this.

    Thank goodness!
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    That's good to hear. Good to hear twice actually, thanks for the double post
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    Quote Originally Posted by sexy_celeste View Post
    update: she has been 'fired' by management (but they are desperate for girls atm, so will prob hire her back when she says "Ill behave") for this.

    Thank goodness!
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    we have one like this...gets mad if you take a customer she will skip around from custy to custy and if you are talking to someone and go to get on stage she will take them, you do that to her and she tells everyone you stole her custy. what do i do!!!?!?!?!?! im so stuck cause im not the bitch that just walks up to her wihle she is with the custy i was with and say something shitty. i try to butt back in but i just end up standing there like an idiot cause this bitch isnt gonna move.
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    ^ That's when you push her out of the chair/ off the custy's lap, take her spot, and resume normal conversation. Use her as a footrest maybe. Waaaait... That's what I would do, and I'm generally full of bad ideas.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BoxOfPandora View Post
    That's what I would do, and I'm generally full of bad ideas.
    excellent line
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    im def not able to do that, would ike to be able to though^^
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    Be nice girls, I am aggressive in a passive kinda way. =) I felt the need to voice in for the "aggressive " girl we are talking about as she is not here to defend herself. All the great hustlers are aggressive to a certain degree. =) I am one of them.

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    But subtlety is key. And not pissing off other girls, outright taking their money and scaring away the other half of their money is also a good rule to follow.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bettyboop09 View Post
    Be nice girls, I am aggressive in a passive kinda way. =) I felt the need to voice in for the "aggressive " girl we are talking about as she is not here to defend herself. All the great hustlers are aggressive to a certain degree. =) I am one of them.
    This girl JUMPED on guys as they enter, and half the time they just turn around and walk back out. This is before ANY money changes hands, they havent even paid entry/drinks etc. We lost ALOT of customers in the month she lasted.

    Assertive is fine, but aggressive to the point of making customers uncomfortable is not good business.
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