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    Question for the dancers - This question arose from two other threads:
    As a guy, if I was a male dancer,... I'm guessing that:
    80% of my female custies: I would entertain only because they paid me... 20%: some attraction, so I would enjoy dancing for them...
    10%: more attraction, so I would also want to give free extras to...
    5%: a lot of attraction, so I would also want to meet OTC...

    What are your percentages in these categories? I understand that women are more selective than men, so feel free to use percentages of less than 1%...

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    I've met some really awesome guys at the club, but not so awesome that I would actually date them. I am seriously picky. There's probably less than 1% that I would have ever been interested in dating. The rest are primarily fun customers with maybe about 8% being a PITA.
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    I'd say 95% I am not attracted to. 5% I might find attractive. I have only seen 1 OTC.
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    It would be under 1% for attraction.

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    of my customers:
    i like 90% of them
    i am fairly attracted to around 20% of them
    i am willing to date under 1% of them

    now if you include all the customers in the club, those numbers are pretty different. i don't generally like people who don't like me. so if they aren't getting dances from me, i probably don't like them either.
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    My answer would be irrelevant because I'm not stripping yet but I think the premise of your question might be a little off... some people enjoy dancing for others regardless of attraction or lack thereof. I would imagine not finding most of my customers attractive but can imagine enjoying the hell out of dancing for them all anyway.

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    95% is just for the money.
    5% maybe I might find some sort of attraction to (but to be honest it really is so rare)
    and 0% for extras or OTC.

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    I've only met one guy out of my whole career as a stripper that I would ever want to date.

    I didn't give him lap dances or even get him to buy a drink for me. It was almost like I didn't want our interaction to be "tainted" by the stripper hustle.

    So, I guess I would be attracted to FAR below 1% of my customers.

    And I would never find one I'd give "free" extras.

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    Default Re: Dancers: What Percent Do You Like?

    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    Question for the dancers - This question arose from two other threads:
    As a guy, if I was a male dancer,... I'm guessing that:
    80% of my female custies: I would entertain only because they paid me... 20%: some attraction, so I would enjoy dancing for them...
    10%: more attraction, so I would also want to give free extras to...
    5%: a lot of attraction, so I would also want to meet OTC...
    You know that makes 115% right?

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    I'm a hundred percent when it comes to attracted to the dancer dancing for me, and a hundred percent would date her, and a hundred percent would do her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    You know that makes 115% right?
    The 20% attraction categories overlap...

    Big circle - 20%: some attraction, so I would enjoy dancing for them

    Medium circle (inside the big circle) - 10%: more attraction, so I would ALSO want to give free extras to...

    Tiny circle (inside the medium circle (AND inside the big circle)) - 5%: a lot of attraction, so I would ALSO want to meet OTC...

    (80%) - No attraction
    (20% (10% (5% ) ) ) - Attraction

    See... I put a lot of thought into this classification system.

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    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    of my customers:
    i like 90% of them
    i am fairly attracted to around 20% of them
    i am willing to date under 1% of them

    now if you include all the customers in the club, those numbers are pretty different. i don't generally like people who don't like me. so if they aren't getting dances from me, i probably don't like them either.
    Her numbers overlap, too... Otherwise, they would add up to 111%...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Winged Dinghy View Post
    And I would never find one I'd give "free" extras.
    Female dancers are EXTREMELY selective...

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    ...your system is flawed if it does not account for influences such as a girl on her period, who is high, or a customer with a great dental plan. What would the equation look like then?
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    Female dancers are EXTREMELY selective...

    Um, no. They just don't want to work for free....
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    I have found maybe 10% of my customers/patrons of the bar attractive. I have never given anyone an extra anything ever, and never will. I have met one single customer outside the club, we went to the beach and got drunk. There have been times (3%) I have been tempted to meet some of the guys who want to take me out to dinner or shopping, but i've never done it.

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    100% of my custies: I would entertain only because they paid me I would not entertain any custies for free

    80%: some attraction, so I would enjoy dancing for them I enjoy dancing for custies that are polite and have no body odor

    0%: more attraction, so I would also want to give free extras to I would never give anyone free extras... or extras paid for for that matter

    .1%: a lot of attraction, so I would also want to meet OTC I've seen guys at the club that I thought were really hot, but I tend to avoid them because I don't want to get distracted and forget I'm there to make money

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    Default Re: Dancers: What Percent Do You Like?

    I can't use your categories, because I don't do extras for free or for money, but here are mine:

    85% I am completely indifferent. I do not like or dislike them. I don't find them attractive or unattractive. I forget them as soon as I walk away.

    10% I enjoy their company, but don't find them physically attractive. I remember their names and hope that they will come back to the club.

    4.98% I hate them.

    0.01% I find them physically attractive.

    0.01% They are so cool, that I make them one of my IRL friends and stop accepting money from them.

    0.00% I find them physically attractive AND enjoy their company.
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    I generally meet:

    75% cool people who get dances, don't try to grab me, and I dance for them without issue.
    25% people who piss me off by asking me for extras, trying to grab me lick me etc etc.

    In 7 years I have met ONE person OTC whom I am currently dating. But he's absolutely amazing.
    I have not, and will not EVER perform extra services, for free or for pay. Mediocrity = not a hooker.

    Within the 75% of people whom are good humans, I may find 5 people a year attractive. Assuming I meet 100 people a night, and work 4 days a week, that's 20,800 a year. If I find 5 a year sexually attractive, that works out to 0.024%.

    These figures are for work only, not the male population in general that I meet in "real life". When I work, my head is not in that sexual headspace.

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    Some of you have said you wouldn't do "extras" for money or for free. I think you're misunderstanding. "Extras" means sexual stuff not a normal part of a dancer's repertoire. If you won't do "extras" for money or for free, does that mean you're celibate?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Some of you have said you wouldn't do "extras" for money or for free. I think you're misunderstanding. "Extras" means sexual stuff not a normal part of a dancer's repertoire. If you won't do "extras" for money or for free, does that mean you're celibate?
    You're splitting hairs. Of course I am sexual with my partners. I do not perform sexual favours at work (including but not limited to: kissing, boob touching, crotch rubbing etc), aside from dancing, if that is classified as sexual favours.

    Outside of the club, I am not "Mediocrity", I am "Jane". Henceforth, I am not a dancer when I am not at work, so any sexual contact I choose to have with someone whom is NOT A CUSTOMER OF MINE, is not "extras".

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    Hmm.... Lets look at the stats.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    There's probably less than 1% that I would have ever been interested in dating.
    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    I'd say 95% I am not attracted to. 5% I might find attractive. I have only seen 1 OTC.
    Quote Originally Posted by lol1337a View Post
    It would be under 1% for attraction.
    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    of my customers...i am willing to date under 1% of them.
    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    5% maybe I might find some sort of attraction to (but to be honest it really is so rare) and 0% for extras or OTC.
    Quote Originally Posted by Winged Dinghy View Post
    ...I guess I would be attracted to FAR below 1% of my customers.
    Quote Originally Posted by TravelandStrip View Post
    .1%: a lot of attraction, so I would also want to meet OTC
    Quote Originally Posted by chris91 View Post
    ...0.01% They are so cool, that I make them one of my IRL friends and stop accepting money from them.
    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    ...If I find 5 a year sexually attractive, that works out to 0.024%.
    Well, I make that a fairly unanimous opinion from the dancers.

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    See...the problem is that there is a severe distinction between dancing for attractive people, and being attracted to them.

    I was definitely more of a 95% (not attracted)/5% (attracted girl for my first year of dancing.

    Second year of dancing and on, it's about 99.9% (not attracted) and the other .1% would be people I'm attracted to, but I still wouldn't hang out with them. Free extras? HAH. An emphatic 0%. I dance for a LOT of very attractive people. They smell good, are handsome, polite, etc. But I'm still not attracted to them.

    Jack...I think the key concept you're missing (and understandably, because the entertainment/sex industry looks on the outside like it's so much fun) is that this is a JOB. The second you realize you can make money off of merely doing ____ (whatever is a non-extra for your particular club) for X amount of money, you lose ALL interest in doing anything for free. Why would you do something for free when you can get paid to do it? Working in a strip club takes the sex out of sexuality for dancers (I speak very generally here--obviously every dancer is different).

    When I'm dancing for a customer, they see sex, and I see money. I might enjoy myself--of course! But the nice conversations I have with my customers and the dances I give them (no-contact club) just wouldn't happen if I weren't getting paid. I think many people can relate to this--it's like if you were to take your favorite hobby and make it into a business. Some people would still enjoy the hobby, but the majority would stop doing that hobby in their free time. Once sexuality (of a certain kind) becomes a job, you stop viewing it as recreational (within the club).

    Also, by becoming a stripper, you start realizing that people are attracted to your job and the fantasy you create...they aren't actually interested in you. Perhaps male strippers are more okay with this side of it, since they tend to be more sexually excitable. However, for me personally, it's an incredible turn-off. Like "yeah, buddy. Of COURSE you want "me". Flashing lights and pretty outfits and tits and ass--YEAH we're making a REAL connection here, aren't we?"

    Don't get me wrong--I genuinely do connect with a lot of my customers. I love people! I love what I do for them. I have some incredible conversations with them. And yet the job creates a divide that I have no desire to cross--between my personal life and my work life. I'd estimate that I want to hang out with about 1 out of every 10,000 people I see at the club--some extraordinarily low percentage.

    Does that make any sense? It's an extremely complicated issue about which everyone feels differently.

    I think you'd be very interested in reading up on the sociologist Arlie Hochschild*. She writes some really well-written pieces on emotional labor. Her worked proved an invaluable resource for me--helped me solidify and articulate some of the conflicting feelings I have about my stripping persona.

    *The Managed Heart: Commercialization of Human Feeling by Arlie Russell Hochschild. "I use the term emotional labor to mean the management of feeling to create a publicly observable facial and bodily display; emotional labor is sold for a wage and therefore has exchange value."

    "When feelings are successfully commercialized, the worker does not feel phony or alien; she feels somehow satisfied in how personal her service actually was...In either case, whether proudly or resentfully, face and feelings have been used as instruments..."

    Really fascinating stuff!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Some of you have said you wouldn't do "extras" for money or for free. I think you're misunderstanding. "Extras" means sexual stuff not a normal part of a dancer's repertoire. If you won't do "extras" for money or for free, does that mean you're celibate?
    I didn't misunderstand in the least. I do NOTHING that would be considered an extra ITC, and I DO NOT meet custies OTC. That leaves 0%. I don't really see how you made the jump to celibacy though. My personal life has nothing to do with my work. If I brought someone home with me from the club that would be different, and tbh, my husband has never set foot in my club.

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    Default Re: Dancers: What Percent Do You Like?

    It doesn't take that long to figure out which dancers might be available for extras, OTC etc. I have to admit that is always on my radar screen. Having said that, as Charlie mentioned, it is possible for dancers and customers to connect but with a clear understanding that said connection resides within her boundaries. I've had a lot of fun in both scenarios.

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