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    Dizzy So scared to strip again!

    I'm going back to dancing after a 3month hiatus. I am so scared that all the situations I'll face will stress me out, bring me down and start to poison my world. But on the flip side I miss performing so much! I miss entertaining men and couples and DUH I need money but it's more than that- I really enjoy doing this job well, I love dancing. What I do not love is sex for sale everywhere, dancers with problems blitzed out of their minds on drugs and alcohol, and men who only came to the SC to abuse and belittle the dancers. How do I stiffen up that upper lip?

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    Default Re: So scared to strip again!

    keep a strong attitude and maintain your morals... the club i dance in there are extras going on everywhere but i refuse to get involved with it and i told myself that before i started dancing and im sticking to it.

    stick to what you believe in and what makes you comfortable and dont let anything change that

    best thing ive come to realize in the club im not there to make friends im there to make money the girls talk shit about me being so quiet but honestly id rather stay to myself not get involved with their drama and keep it that way id rather them talk shit about me for being quiet because they honestly have nothing else to talk about because they dont know anything about me

    when your in the club you dont need to be yourself get your whole dancer persona and leave her at the club when you leave

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    Default Re: So scared to strip again!

    Quote Originally Posted by blueyedmiss18 View Post
    the girls talk shit about me being so quiet

    geez! they'll talk shit about anything!

    but yeah, I understand that anxiety. It's only been a week since I worked and I'm feeling nervous about going in tonight. I always have this sense of dread: what if I don't make money? What if somebody's an asshole to me? What if I get mugged on the way home? The thought of approaching strangers, being flirtatious and chatty with them, just makes me want to hurl sometimes. And I think, "I am just not up to it tonight."

    I try not to let those fears get to me. I acknowledge that I'm scared, and then I go in, anyway. I think about the parts that I do like--maybe I want to practice a new pole trick, or maybe I have a new outfit I want to show off. Or maybe I'll have a nice glass of wine when I start my shift. I find something that's for ME, and focus on that, rather than everything that could go wrong.

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    Default Re: So scared to strip again!

    I took some time off last year then was worried about going back, I just read loads of hustle hut then went back to a new club had a drink then got right back into it , it was like riding a bike don't worry your be fine hun x
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    Yay! Thank you! Just what I needed to hear. One thing I'm looking forward to is setting a good example for the other girls. I used to always have a bottle of liqour on me backstage and I've been sober for half a year now. People will remember me as the girl who never refused a swig of drink and never was without either. It's nice not to be that sloppy drunk anymore, I just still need to channel her into my "dancer persona" bcuz it is hard to make money as myself, I'm too honest!!

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    Default Re: So scared to strip again!

    Just jump back in. I have been in your shoes sooooo many times. That is the only way,don't over think it. Once you go back you will probably make a lot of money. Since you have had time off and are all fresh and raringSP? to go.
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