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    Almost Jaded- Almost reminds me of one girl I work with who's known my bf for about 12 years. She and her husband are swingers, and she's been trying to get me to fuck her husband (and she's gone from admitting to my man's cock to frantically denying it). Well, before all that and she thought she could still unload her husband onto me so she can my man. She's asked me to give him free lapdances and offered to pay the house cut like that was a good deal for me. Yeeeah... She also gave me a dollar once for a floor lapdance (a dollar buys 5-10 seconds). She does a lot for free and wonders why she doesn't make anything...
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    I know the type; I don't get the reference to me. Are you saying that MissMynxx might be like this girl at your club? I can assure you that's not the case, lol.

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    Default Re: Are boyfriends allowed in the club to watch while their gf is performing?

    Quote Originally Posted by Elvia View Post
    He could just go when she's not working. I don't think missing out on a 2 for 1 special to avoid ruining your GF's day at work is really such a tragedy.

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    Friends coming in to see would be cool to me, but that's because of how my friends and I are. Half the initial reason I became interested in dancing is because I would strip at friend-only parties for extra cigarettes when I was running low or to earn drinks when I couldn't afford to go in on buying my share. We dance with/on each other all the time and actually get a kick out of stuffing spare cash into each others' bras.
    But a significant other? They can watch me dance at parties or at home. I do NOT want them in the club during my shift, PERIOD. At parties, it's all in good fun- just friends who all know and trust each other having a raucous time together. In the club setting, though, it is not such. No matter what a custie says, a dancer has very little, if any, trust in them. I'm sorry, but it's a necessity to our staying safe. Hell, dancers can't even trust other dancers a sizeable amount of the time! If I can't trust the people that I'm seeing 40 or so hours a week, there's NO chance that a significant other can. And in my experience, seeing the person you care about in a very sexual situation with some one you don't trust is very distressing.
    Not to mention my own problems with it. Again, the trust issue comes up. Even if my SO could stay calm while I danced for others, I would be very uncomfortable myself watching them recieve dances and those flirty looks (no matter how real or fake) from another dancer that I didn't trust.

    Aside from all that, the most annoying part of it all to me would be this- IT'S MY JOB! I don't sit in and see how they do during presentations and meetings. Outside of a call during break or in emergencies, I don't bother them when they're trying to earn their paycheck. Don't sit in on me while I'm selling the pitch for dances. Do not distract me while I'm trying to earn my bread. No matter how calm or even fun an SO can be ITC, they are a distraction from doing our J-O-B.
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    If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by abcd View Post
    A rule like this could be a serious problem for a man who lives in an area without many strip clubs because it could deny a man the pleasure of going to a certain strip club club because his girlfriend works there. This is even more of a problem when a stripper works at several strip clubs (which can be common in some areas).

    This can be a problem even in areas with many strip clubs for a man who goes to strip clubs a lot and likes to go to different ones. It can also make a man miss out on various specials.
    Serious problem?

    For someone who is already dating a dancer, I'm not sure I follow. If 2:1 lap dances are really that important to him, he could just break up with her and be free to get all the dances he wants; however, the "various specials" he's getting at home are likely better than what he's going to find in a club.
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    It's RAMPANT in my club and drives me nuts. Usually 1 of 3 different scenarios:

    I go to sit on a guy's lap, bend down to talk to him, whatever....and he gets all nervous and freaked out "no, no, go away, my old lady works here"

    OR I give a guy a dance which he either accepts after I ask or asks for himself if I am walking by.....halfway through I have another dancer sitting in the chair next to us, staring and pissed off.....GUESS WHO!? Girlfriend.

    THEN there's the freaky ones who get off on watching their BF's get dances from their co-workers....but want to me to more than I am comfortable with.

    The bouncers also date the dancers alot, and so does management. There is one bouncer that I am not "allowed" to talk to when his GF is working. I needed him one night and he wouldn't speak to me. He went and got another bouncer to help me. SILLY! just fucking silly. What's the point of being there ???

    I have seen some MAJOR drama (fights!) go down too as a result of all the BF's in the club. Thank god I have never been a part of any of it, just a few uncomfortable situations.

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    Quote Originally Posted by abcd View Post
    A rule like this could be a serious problem for a man who lives in an area without many strip clubs because it could deny a man the pleasure of going to a certain strip club club because his girlfriend works there. This is even more of a problem when a stripper works at several strip clubs (which can be common in some areas).

    This can be a problem even in areas with many strip clubs for a man who goes to strip clubs a lot and likes to go to different ones. It can also make a man miss out on various specials.
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    THEN there's the freaky ones who get off on watching their BF's get dances from their co-workers....but want to me to more than I am comfortable with.
    Uh-oh - my situation has been called out in a negative light, lol. It never occurred to me that other dancers would find it odd or freaky that I support her in her jo, or that she enjoys watching me get dances from other women. As for the second part of the quote, that's another matter entirely that falls into a different discussion - but again, I never thought that another dancer would be uncomfortable giving me a dance just because she knows my SO likes to bring girls home. In my mind that was easier to blow off than the pervs or really insistant "normal" custies can be. Now I need to rethink things and maybe not spend so much time ITC (although really, I'm only there once or twice a week at MOST).

    Seriously though, I have a new POV to consider now. That's annoying in a nice way, lol.

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    Most of the "boyfriends" in the club where I work are either some drug dealer thats getting a piece of ass of off his best customer and is trying to get more customers or they're the girls pimp trying to girls to trust them by saying they're the girls boyfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    Serious problem?

    For someone who is already dating a dancer, I'm not sure I follow. If 2:1 lap dances are really that important to him, he could just break up with her and be free to get all the dances he wants; however, the "various specials" he's getting at home are likely better than what he's going to find in a club.
    The one at home gets old real quick; that is why we go to SC; new women all of the time.

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    I have the hardest time determining when (or if) you post with tongue in cheek, when you're being serious, and when you're being intentionally inflammatory.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pogocat View Post
    Most of the "boyfriends" in the club where I work are either some drug dealer thats getting a piece of ass of off his best customer and is trying to get more customers or they're the girls pimp trying to girls to trust them by saying they're the girls boyfriend.
    Do strippers have pimps? I thought only street call girls had them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyril View Post
    Do strippers have pimps? I thought only street call girls had them.
    Hookers masquerading as strippers do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post
    I have the hardest time determining when (or if) you post with tongue in cheek, when you're being serious, and when you're being intentionally inflammatory.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyril View Post
    Do strippers have pimps? I thought only street call girls had them.
    You are repeating yourself.
    Quote Originally Posted by Cyril View Post
    Do strippers have pimp as well?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    You are repeating yourself.
    I do not think anyone answered my question the last time unless I am mistaken.

    Thankfully Mediocrity answered my question this time or else I might have to repeat myself again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post
    It never occurred to me that other dancers would find it odd or freaky that I support her in her job, or that she enjoys watching me get dances from other women. As for the second part of the quote, that's another matter entirely that falls into a different discussion - but again, I never thought that another dancer would be uncomfortable giving me a dance just because she knows my SO likes to bring girls home.
    Oh No! I think you misunderstood me just a 'lil. I have absolutely NO problem with people who are into that sort of thing, as a matter of fact I have had friends who are into it and I don't think it's bad at all. I have absolutely no problem dancing for these kinds of couples......when all they want me to do is dance. Now....

    I'm talking about situations where they are asking me to touch the girl's crotch, put my face in it, take her boobs out of her shirt.....or rub his dick while I am giving her a dance. I just don't feel comfortable with those kinds of requests.

    Another good example is a couple that seemed pretty docile on the floor one night, got a few dances, bought me a drink, seemed like they just wanted to have fun. They convinced me to go to VIP. The minute we got back there, the guy turned into an aggressive asshole demanding me to "eat his wifes pussy so he could watch" I told him I wasn't gonna do it, so he said, "well then watch us" grabs her gead, takes his zippetr down and shoves her head down on his dick saying "suck it!" I RAN out of there, literally. They ended up getting kicked out.

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    Ah. Well, I feel a LITTLE better, lol.

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