Results 1 to 3 of 3

Thread: A little frustrated. Any advice??

  1. #1
    Veteran Member Ava Adele's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2007
    Location
    portland oregon
    Posts
    222
    Thanks
    4
    Thanked 38 Times in 20 Posts

    Default A little frustrated. Any advice??

    Hello out there,

    So ive been working at a particularly small club for about a year now. I left town and upon my return I started getting mostly day shifts and I was taken of my usual weekend night shifts. I figured this would change after being home for a few weeks but when it continued I spoke to the mgr bout it. She said although it had nothing to do with it, there were some girls that dont want to work with me because im snippy and not a team player. I found this to be really really odd considering the only confrontation ive ever had there in that whole year was with a dancer that basically said she didnt like working with me because i got more dances than her, then later on came up with some story abou thow i was saying mean things about her and she could hear me. Being as its such a small place and i dont even know what shes talking about it seems to me it was a excuse to be rude to me for the latter explanation. I even told her thats totally not how i am and i wouldnt do that.
    What really frustrates me is, I am so over the top nice to everyone there. Even the people that are not nearly as nice to me. I always have been . Just like any club there is gossip and so on . I do my best to not be a part of that and everything!
    I explained to my mgr i honestly didnt know what that was all about and figured that was the end of it. But now im still not getting my weekends back and i think its still a issue.
    Im so frustrated . What am i supposed to do? just go get less dances. And how am i not a team player. I do everyting im supposed to and give all the apropreate tip outs, im nice to the customers and other dancers. Ive even had bartenders and other dancers tell me how super nice i am.
    So someone makes something up and thats it?? i just dont get it.
    I just want my old schedule back and for it to settle down ..any advice?

  2. #2
    Veteran Member EricaErotica's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2008
    Posts
    521
    Thanks
    368
    Thanked 961 Times in 272 Posts

    Default Re: A little frustrated. Any advice??

    Is there anyway for you to find another club in your area?

    Unfortunately, it seems like the manager a your club is siding with the other dancer and not giving you the benefit of the doubt or at least the opportunity to smooth over this situation with the other dancer.

  3. #3
    Featured Member Winged Dinghy's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2008
    Location
    The dirty south
    Posts
    1,381
    Thanks
    1,942
    Thanked 1,993 Times in 605 Posts
    Blog Entries
    17
    My Mood
    Fine

    Default Re: A little frustrated. Any advice??

    I wouldn't trust the manager. It sounds like you're a nice girl and she's just giving you a line of BS. What it comes down to, I think, is that for some reason she doesn't like you, or she doesn't think you're up to being put on the night shifts.

    I had something like this happen to me once. I got hired at a club, worked a shift, and then the manager pulled me off stage rotation because "my tattoo didn't look good up there."

    This was total BS. I knew it was total BS. LOTS of the girls were WAY more heavily tattooed than I was. Like, we're talking half-sleeves.

    However. Once I started sucking up to the manager (tipping her out even though it isn't policy, doing other little favors), suddenly, my tattoo was acceptable and I got put back on the stage.

    I don't know if your situation is similar to mine. But it wouldn't hurt to keep working those day shifts and kiss the manager's ass and maybe she'll change her mind. And if you don't feel like it, just go to another club.

Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 20
    Last Post: 12-28-2011, 10:37 AM
  2. So Frustrated and Need Advice Please (escorts)
    By sbeezy305 in forum Other Work
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 04-22-2010, 07:06 PM
  3. Replies: 46
    Last Post: 06-02-2008, 04:57 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •