Hello out there,
So ive been working at a particularly small club for about a year now. I left town and upon my return I started getting mostly day shifts and I was taken of my usual weekend night shifts. I figured this would change after being home for a few weeks but when it continued I spoke to the mgr bout it. She said although it had nothing to do with it, there were some girls that dont want to work with me because im snippy and not a team player. I found this to be really really odd considering the only confrontation ive ever had there in that whole year was with a dancer that basically said she didnt like working with me because i got more dances than her, then later on came up with some story abou thow i was saying mean things about her and she could hear me. Being as its such a small place and i dont even know what shes talking about it seems to me it was a excuse to be rude to me for the latter explanation. I even told her thats totally not how i am and i wouldnt do that.
What really frustrates me is, I am so over the top nice to everyone there. Even the people that are not nearly as nice to me. I always have been . Just like any club there is gossip and so on . I do my best to not be a part of that and everything!
I explained to my mgr i honestly didnt know what that was all about and figured that was the end of it. But now im still not getting my weekends back and i think its still a issue.
Im so frustrated . What am i supposed to do? just go get less dances. And how am i not a team player. I do everyting im supposed to and give all the apropreate tip outs, im nice to the customers and other dancers. Ive even had bartenders and other dancers tell me how super nice i am.
So someone makes something up and thats it?? i just dont get it.
I just want my old schedule back and for it to settle down ..any advice?



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