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    Duh I make more money than my military boyfriend...

    So, I have been dating a good friend from high school for about a month. He is in the military and stationed in Georgia. As a dancer and model in LA, I literally make as much in 2 days as he does in a month. It doesn't bother me, and I love that he is both supportive of my career without seeking to benefit from it.

    Anyway, I want him to visit and it is more practical for him to come to LA than me go to Georgia. He can't afford a plane ticket though. Should I pay for his ticket, or just fly myself out to visit him?

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    Default Re: I make more money than my military boyfriend...

    I don't think it matters. Doesnt sound like hes trying to take advangtage if you have to fly him to you to make it easier on your work shecdual then so be it. Have fun.

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    Default Re: I make more money than my military boyfriend...

    Rather than paying for his ticket straight up, why don't you ask him if it'd be okay for you to help fund his trip? Have him pay for part of it (as much as you estimate he'd be able to).

    I think the principle of this is important. You need to keep the boundary up that your money is your money, and his money is his money. So phrase it in a very empowering (read: do not emasculate him) way-- like "do you mind if I help pay for your ticket out here, since you're so nice to come visit me?"

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