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    I am a casual visitor to only v upscale clubs in both Europe and the US for around 6 years - I am international businessman - and find big differences between the two that I find confusing and am looking for guidance. First of all touching the dancers in private rooms - In Europe this is common and the women often encourage it if they like you. In the US I can never tell if of is ok or not but I have never been told "no" to simple touching (never groping!)

    Second, in Europe it is very common that if a woman likes you that they will offer to go home with you. In the US I never have this expectation, but found recently in v upscale club that a dancer I was with was keen to see me and we ha e met up we deal times when I have been in town for paid engagements (and general fun at dinner and clubs) is this situation unusual in the US?

    Constructive guidance appreciated as I want to be a gentleman.

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    Quote Originally Posted by indiethinker View Post
    Second, in Europe it is very common that if a woman likes you that they will offer to go home with you.
    For free or for money?
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    Default Re: OTC meetings

    For Money, of course

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    Then they don't freaking like you, they are just prostitutes. You can touch the girls in plenty of places in the U.S., it really just depends on local law. In orlando for example you can't touch anything, but 30 mins away in tampa you can touch all you want.

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    Yes undertsood - "like" is a relative term - and of course I undestand the defn of prostitution - the point is, in upscale clubs in the US is it common to find dancers who sell - that is the point.

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    Default Re: OTC meetings

    Why not just call an escort?


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    Quote Originally Posted by indiethinker View Post
    Yes undertsood - "like" is a relative term - and of course I undestand the defn of prostitution - the point is, in upscale clubs in the US is it common to find dancers who sell - that is the point.
    No, it is generally not that common. At least not common enough that you should be approaching girls and asking about the possibility of OTC. If a gal is available for OTC she will let you know once she trusts you.

    It's really much easier to call an escort...
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    Thanks Yoda - sort of what I thought - btw I am not necessarily looking to take a dancer home or looking for escorts - was just a bit surprised (pleasantly) when in this case in the US recently the dancer made clear to me she was available - have not seen this before in the US.

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    prostitution is legal in many places in europe. it is illegal in almost all of america.

    thus, finding a stripper that's willing to go home with you in the united states is harder, and riskier for both parties involved.
    "If she wants to dance and drink all night, well there's no one that can stop her. She's going til the house lights come up or her stomach spills onto the floor. This night is gonna end when we're damn well ready for it to be over, worked all week long, and now the music is playing on our time. Yeah we do what we do to get by, and then we need a release!" - Against Me!, "Thrash Unreal"

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    ^
    Not to mention that some of us are likely to get very offended if you outright ask. As someone already said, the extras girls will let you know who they are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by indiethinker View Post
    Yes undertsood - "like" is a relative term - and of course I undestand the defn of prostitution - the point is, in upscale clubs in the US is it common to find dancers who sell - that is the point.
    Well you just sound pretty silly coming to this msg board and acting like prostitutes like you because they'll have sex with you for money.

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    i actually don't think its that uncommon. not everywhere, but in certain pockets of the countries (like florida) and also, some of the "upscale" club have this hidden otc culture which is saved for the heavy hitters. its still not all of the girls that do, but as much as a third of them will, so you have a 1 in 3 chances.
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    In Houston, you can find a few dancers willing to do extras in most of the upscale clubs. But, like JayATee, you can REALLY piss off a dancer if you assume that they all offer extras. I've seen the full spectrum in the same club - from dancers who don't want ANY touching at all to dancers that allow all kinds of contact and offer all kinds of extras.

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    depends on the area, the club, and the girl, but yeah you can find that stuff in the states

    however, your description of a strip club seems pretty tame. european guys are notoriously cheap here, even clubs like mine, because they expect a lot more than a touching dance (which most girls at my club will do). they expect sex, at least a handjob. they expect to touch pussy. i dunno what clubs you're going to, but they don't seem representative of the european experience if they don't involve that stuff.
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    ^^^

    A pretty sweeping statement on European levels of contact. I'd say that it's not representative of the UK at least.

    Phil.

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    Prostitution is pretty much illegal in this country.

    Very few women who are dancers in the U.S. need to meet OTC because we make pretty decent money in the SC's.

    Where I work as far as I know I'm not even supposed to be able to advertise or market myself to customers, (total bullshit) meaning phone numbers, coffee dates etc...no business transactions or barter, I can't even take credit cards on my own or even lunch for free.

    When I first worked in Canada I was shocked that the girls openly hung out with the customers for drinks after work.

    Totally freakin' unheard of.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Phil-W View Post
    ^^^

    A pretty sweeping statement on European levels of contact. I'd say that it's not representative of the UK at least.

    Phil.
    lol. i didn't consider the uk. i guess i meant the continent.
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    I have been propositioned in high end and dives about the same. They are out there everywhere. If you are spending a lot of money you are more likely to find them, whether you want to or not.

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    In regards to the OP's post - I have no idea first if you are Euro or American. Because the ideas about sex and sexual relations are VERY different in a lot of European countries, In America it's different as well.

    Obviously you did not take this into consideration.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    Then they don't freaking like you, they are just prostitutes.
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    Why not just call an escort?

    That is what is so nice about OTC verses escort. The dancer gets to pick (like) the John and the John gets to know the dancer before "dating". The John does not have to give a pimp his real name, phone number (home and business) and social security number and will not be listed in the pimp's book for the police to find.

    Both can pretend it is a date. With the best OTC money is not openly set or talked about up front. If it is the time spent together will not be good for the John.

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    Calling up an escort is a more logical way, but you get to know a dancer quite a bit better. Some actually will tell you in OTC is in the cards for you and her. Otherwise I'd just forget about 'dating' her in the USA. Maybe not so much in southern Ontario.


    I'd rather give her a key to my safe deposit box than give her my SSN and business phone.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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