With the economy lowering our earnings, I've encountered a LOT of guys looking to tip $1 or $5 in the private dances, where they once tipped $25, minimum. I know a lot of girls will come out and say something to the customer about it, but I'm really kind of uncertain about how to handle the situation.
I am almost NEVER rude to anyone, in the club or OTC, so I don't want to do that whole, "A buck? You've got to be kidding me." Cause even if it's calling him out, he'll think you're a bitch and might not tip anyways, plus he may go tell other guys shit about you.
And in NY, you can't ask for a specific amount of money because it's considered solicitation. So it's not like I can actually charge them. And I can't EXACTLY come out and tell them to tip me more. It just has to be implied, with no actual stipulation as to an exact amount. I also can't refuse to do the dance, even if they don't tip at all. Once they've bought the lap dance token from the club, I'm obliged to do it unless they get grabby or something like that. I just tell them, "the better the tip, the better the dance."
But how do I handle them when they whip out $1 or $2 or $5 at the beginning of the song? Do I need to be firm? Flirty? I'm not comfortable doing the whole sex kitten act and making them believe I'm going to do something I'm not, i.e. sex acts (which they do occasionally seem to expect in the private dances). I had one girl I work with suggest that when they whip out a single, do this whole flirty, "Oh, you can do better than that." So that's one idea. Any others?



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