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    Default Re: do you everr??

    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post
    I will never, ever understand why guys come to SC's just to bash the whole SC experience, strippers, and lapdances.

    Don't get it, when I hear things like

    "I don't like/hate strip clubs"
    "I don't like/hate lap dances"
    "This place is too expensive/the drinks are too much" (then stay and close the place down)

    Then when I ask them "Why did you come here then?" I get answers like

    " I was bored and needed to do something"
    " I just stopped in for a drink, really"
    " I don't know"

    I just can't even wrap my brain around it. I don't even try to understand anymore....too time consuming and smoke starts to rise out of my skull. I can't even deal with these people. The SECOND a guy starts bashing strippers, strip clubs or anything related I leave immediately.

    Just last night, there were two guys sitting by second stage, and within an earshot saying how "This place sucks", "None of these girls are hot" and other banter about how much they didn't like it there. 3 HOURS and 3 pitchers of beer later, they were still there. Not tipping, not getting dances, just drinking their beer and looking miserable. I even saw them do the "shoo away" hand motion to a really pretty dancer that approached them. I just.don't.get.it. I didn't even think about approaching their table either. FUCK no.

    I know this town isn't the biggest but there ARE PLENTY of other things to do. It's like they act like there's a gun to their head to stay at the club.
    i feel like THOSE are the guys that aren't there for the beers or lapdances, they're there for the ego boost that they get from shooing away pretty girls and feeling wanted they must not feel wanted anywhere else.
    LOSERS.i hate those types, the kind that think they're better and when you try to talk to them they don't even look at you even though you know you're loud enough and definitely pretty enough.

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    Default Re: do you everr??

    I'm always nice and usually give some kind of contact-- touching their hair, chest, whatever-- and tell them I'll check back in with them later.

    Being rude never pays off... it may make you feel better but thats it. A lot of guys give me the maybe later line and then 15 minutes later want a dance or complain half hour later that theyve been wanting a dance but ive been to busy with other customers to which i reply "you snooze you lose"

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    ugh i know what you mean.... the other night i heard half a dozen times, 'oh i know how this game is played.' my boyfriend brought up a good point though (bless him, his pretty little head is good for business also!). He suggested that next time someone says that, to reply, "I know you know how it is, that's why you're here, right?"

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    I also agree on the being rude thing.... It might make you feel better, but it's only going to hurt you in the long run. Just smile and say, 'well i just figured i'd check' and walk away. Don't roll your eyes as you're walking away, because someone will be looking at you. You don't want to jeopardize a sale over some asshole, right?

    If he says no, you can always reply with something along these lines, too. "Aww that's really too bad, I was feeling frisky and I was hoping I wouldn't have to wait for a playmate." aka i'm sorry you're such a cheapass, but it's ok - someone else can be the recipient of my sexual agression"I'm sorry you haven't found the right girl to have fun with yet, I'd love to have a chance to change your mind later." aka sorry you're such a tightwad, but if you decide to man up maybe i'll have time for you later.

    the big thing is, you get more bees with honey than salt. i always have a 'sweet' answer for guys like this, but i'm really thinking something more bitchy.... you get to feel a lil better, and you look classy at the same time.

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