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    What is smacking the ass about? I don't understand this stripping practice.

    Anyone have any insight as to why some do it and some don't? I notice they do it more on stage than in the booths, but one of the women I danced with last night did and I asked her and she had no idea.

    So I pose the question to the forum...

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    My ass is better than my boobs so I'm a spanker. I won't do it more than once or twice though; its like the clacking of the shoes, less is more IMO

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    Sometimes I do it in the booths too. Lots of guys really like it, especially if they are ass men. It makes the ass area jiggle a little, which they frequently compliment. The other thing is some men are just into spanking in general, but since I won't let them do it to me at least if I do it they can get a view of it.

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    Spanking can be like a punctuation mark. You can do it, but you really shouldn't more than once or twice. And 95% of guys that I've done that in front of (I only do it in private dances) always give definite positive feedback--either they vocalize it intelligently, or make those noises that mean the same thing. Most of us wouldn't keep doing it if we weren't getting some kind of encouragement.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DEE_K View Post
    Sometimes I do it in the booths too. Lots of guys really like it, especially if they are ass men. It makes the ass area jiggle a little, which they frequently compliment. The other thing is some men are just into spanking in general, but since I won't let them do it to me at least if I do it they can get a view of it.
    Ahhh yes the ass men. I'm NOT an ass man so this always perplexed me, but I think I get it now, thanks.

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    I think spanking is hot. I can't remember the last sexual partner I had where spanking wasn't a regular part of our play. Strippers that dig it are just that little bit hotter for me.


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    Quote Originally Posted by commanderadama View Post
    Ahhh yes the ass men. I'm NOT an ass man so this always perplexed me, but I think I get it now, thanks.
    Not just ass men enjoy spanking!. Nearly all men love it! It really suprises me to see these threads and I somewhat wonder if you are actually serious. I don't think I've ever dated a guy who didn't enjoy it to some degree.

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    I usually would do this in vip. Only I did not spank my ass. I would seductively crawl across there ass put my butt up and tell them to spank it. Of course you need to be a good judge of character that they wont grope or hit to hard. I am a bit into bdsm though, so who knows. Some guys would get an extra hour w/ me just because of that fact. We would just sit and talk about bdsm. Though guys were always very interesting and I am a switch so I know both ends rather well. Though besides the spanking I would never be a bottom with a customer.

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    Eh, I've done it once or twice. Never hard enough to make a noise.

    Then again I generally find loud attention-getting noises annoying. Shoe clacking makes me want to strangle whomever is onstage doing it. I work with a girl who does it incessantly, and slaps her own ass hard enough to make a mark. Dumb.

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    i'll do it lightly if i feel like it, but the full on slap makes no sense to me at all. actually, neither does the light one, but at least it doesn't hurt.
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    Quote Originally Posted by commanderadama View Post
    Ahhh yes the ass men. I'm NOT an ass man so this always perplexed me, but I think I get it now, thanks.
    Spanking isn't an ass thing, it's a sex thing. Like some girls might simulate masterbation or draw attention to their crotch in a dance, but that doesn't make the men who like it "vagina men" as opposed to something else. Not all men spank or specifically like it, even. But spanking is about sex, so that's what they think about if we do it right...and we definitely want the guys to be thinking about sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    Not just ass men enjoy spanking!. Nearly all men love it! It really suprises me to see these threads and I somewhat wonder if you are actually serious. I don't think I've ever dated a guy who didn't enjoy it to some degree.
    I'm serious because many of my friends & I were beaten as children. So spanking is a total turn off. IOW spanking totally kills the mood because spanking only has a negative meaning for us. I also never understood the girl licking her tit, but that never killed the mood.

    So now I know that apparently it turns some dudes on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    Spanking can be like a punctuation mark.
    It can also be an attention getter. Your dance can be hot, but the guys can be distracted by something else -- their buddy, the waitress, some other dancer working the room. You want their eyes on you, that's why you got on stage. So you make some noise. A spank does that. So does a shoe clack. (Of course, so does shouting "Hey!" at a custie -- someone did that in a club I'd worked at -- she was actually dancing in front of him and he was totally not paying attention -- I laughed so hard I had to go back to the DR until I got control of myself).

    But like they say, you should only do it once or twice, tops. Too often, it becomes annoying. If you need to work more than that to get men's attention, you just aren't doing it right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    Eh, I've done it once or twice. Never hard enough to make a noise.

    Then again I generally find loud attention-getting noises annoying. Shoe clacking makes me want to strangle whomever is onstage doing it. I work with a girl who does it incessantly, and slaps her own ass hard enough to make a mark. Dumb.
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    Make this post a sticky! Shoe clackers, or dancers that overdo the ass slapping routine strike me as an annoying nervous habit, as though they can't think of anything better to do. My 1st thought upon seeing/hearing this esp. the shoe clackers, would a wish for a veteran dancer/housemom to have a "woodshed talk" ( or equivalent) with her. I'm not phobic about spanking as OP, view good spanking act not overdone as merely another good frosting on multi-colored cake.

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    Who wants to see a dancer (or anyone else for that matter) spank herself. lol OTOH, if you are getting a couple dancers dancing, it's nice when one has been naughty. It's also nice as foreplay, but who wants to spank her all day long, it loses its appeal/ sexiness
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    it's playful and sexy! guys love it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Harleylynn View Post
    I usually would do this in vip. Only I did not spank my ass. I would seductively crawl across there ass put my butt up and tell them to spank it.
    I would pay money for this. (-:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Danielle_4370 View Post
    (Of course, so does shouting "Hey!" at a custie -- someone did that in a club I'd worked at -- she was actually dancing in front of him and he was totally not paying attention -- I laughed so hard I had to go back to the DR until I got control of myself).
    OMG

    There's an older girl that used to work at my club that was 4'8" if she was an inch. And her method of getting dances was to go around to every guy and say, "Want to get a private dance?" And if he said no, she leaned forward right into his face and said, "Why not" in this really forceful voice that wasn't really ever meant as a question. And the guys would get so freaked out they would go ahead and buy one. I used to laugh myself silly watching her do this, from guy to guy to guy.

    Sorry, your post just made me think of her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    OMG

    There's an older girl that used to work at my club that was 4'8" if she was an inch. And her method of getting dances was to go around to every guy and say, "Want to get a private dance?" And if he said no, she leaned forward right into his face and said, "Why not" in this really forceful voice that wasn't really ever meant as a question. And the guys would get so freaked out they would go ahead and buy one. I used to laugh myself silly watching her do this, from guy to guy to guy.

    Sorry, your post just made me think of her.

    I love it!

    As far as the spanking and/or clacking...Once or twice can be playful, sexy, whatever but to do it over and over is stupid, imo. I have done each of these things to get someone's attention as well. I do get a little peeved if I'm dancing in front of a guy and he's not paying any attention to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Evan86 View Post
    I love it!

    As far as the spanking and/or clacking...Once or twice can be playful, sexy, whatever but to do it over and over is stupid, imo. I have done each of these things to get someone's attention as well. I do get a little peeved if I'm dancing in front of a guy and he's not paying any attention to me.
    If they are at the stage and not looking (or not tipping), I just get down into a floor move right in front of them and say "Hey boys!" with a big smile. Not yelling, just loud enough for them to hear at the stage, in a flirty tone of voice. Then when they smile back (99% of the time) I hold out the side of my g-string and say "Have any love for the pretty naked girls?". I have yet for this method to fail. I think it's cuter than shoe clacking.

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    Just a silly little fetish come-on. Else it means nothing.

    Personally I don't care much for it, but I don't hate it either.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GI Barbie View Post
    My ass is better than my boobs so I'm a spanker. I won't do it more than once or twice though; its like the clacking of the shoes, less is more IMO
    That's why I do it. Plus it's for a little shock value. The expression on the guys face is priceless. Generally it's a pleasantly surprised look.
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    Best/hottest scene in the whole Californication series...Dani getting spanked:


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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Best/hottest scene in the whole Californication series...Dani getting spanked:

    Hmm I don't remember that scene, was that from the first or second season?

    BTW, you a fan of Dexter? He's my hero. LOL

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    Hehe see I knew that my approach was better then smacking my own ass 0:-)

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