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    Angry Back stabber

    I was suppose to go to work tonight (Sat.) but, my best friend (who I am also the matron of honor in her wedding) called m e out. After four drinks we went back to her house and calle dit night. I guess her fiance thought I was totally messed up after four drinks ( I never do drugs or experiment with stuff). I went to the other room to talk to my husband on my cell and came back to the kitchen to hang woth her and her fiance. I noticed my purse was open and my side pockect on the inside of my purse was unzipped and my gas money of twenty dollars was gone.(you know the pocket where you keep emergency cash or your keys) I enven said something to them both about it (Where is my $25 that was right here) My best fiend said maybe you spent it, but I said I only used my credit cardswhile we were out and that was my gas money. ( I paid her way all night). Now I don't know what to do because they won't fess up and I dont know if he took it secretly or she knew he took it and did not care or was too embarassed to say. (He has a really good job and is not broke). I ned advice before I do something dumb. See I would make sure I left twenty five bucks on their kitchen table the next time I left their house tomorrow or Monday to make sure that they knew that I knew that he stole from me. Ladies help me please before I lose my best frined of 10 years.

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    I hate to say this, but you are in a sticky situation. I would suggest seeing if it happens again, and if it does confront her.
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    Could the money have been taken while you were out and you just didn't notice until back at your friend's house? If you were holding your purse, you may not have noticed an open pocket until seeing it from another angle. I once had a smashed taillight for 2 days before I ever noticed it. Sometimes you just have to be at the correct viewing angle to notice something like that.

    I say, give them the benefit of the doubt, but also be cautious.


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    Best friend of 10 years? I would value the friendship over the $20. But if you're really that suspicious of them, then I would make sure that you protect yourself by keeping your purse within your sight at all times. And for when you don't, because you feel more at ease with them, move that emergency cash money place.

    As they say: "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."

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    I think that you should not say anything and keep a watchful eye out.
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    I have seen way too many women accuse people of taking something they lost when they were drunk. The simple fact is, 4 drinks in, you are not clear and sober about all of your actions that evening. But throwing accusations at a person you love should be reserved for a clear offense.

    Yes, it is possible they took it. But it is also possible you were drunk and lost it. Since she is your best friend, she deserves the benefit of your doubt. Would she be your best friend if it was more likely that she stole from you than you made a mistake? Let this go, in your heart and in your mind, so that you don't dislike her or him based upon $25 which he may or may not have taken.

    BUT... keep your eyes and ears open and see if there are other, unrelated reasons to question the boyfriend.

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    Default Re: Back stabber

    This sounds strange I used to live in an itty-bitty studio urban apt. and kept a coffee can with all my spare change in it and the dollars on the top right next to the front door.

    My bf at the time and his friend came over frequently.

    Look it is possible you may have misplaced the money but we know when shit comes up missing. Know what I'm saying?

    When you insist that you might be crazy or over reacting...you're probably not.

    I would say plant some twenty spots sometime and see if they disappear too.

    It might be worth it.




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    Thanks for all the response. It was just weird that it was ten ones, one five, and one ten. I did not missplace it becasue I had it on the way home from the beach. My husband thought that I should plant some money too. I really don't want her to come into my house anymore cuz I am scared other stuff might come up missing like jewerly or larger amounts of money.

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    get a small safe and only carry credit cards
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