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    I feel like I'm just nagging with questions, but here goes....

    So obviously I'm a newbie. I'm getting myself ready to audition, but I'm getting more and more nervous. I know you ladies have said that clubs will hire girls with stretch marks and other imperfections, but as a newbie with noticeable stretch marks on my boobs do you think I will be turned down by a high end gown club? I just don't want my expectations to reach to high and then crash if I'm rejected...

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    I have terrible, terrible stretch marks on my tits, cause they went from an A to a D in one summer, back when I was 14. No one has ever noticed, or if they have, they've never said anything. You have to understand, these clubs are dark. This isn't bright office-building fluorescent lighting. This is club lighting. No one will see. There are girls at my club with scars from C-sections, and you can't tell when you're downstairs. And all girls have stretch marks somewhere or another. I can't imagine a club that would turn you down because of that. They're not going to give you an examination with a magnifying glass before they hire you. Trust me. In a few months, you'll look back and laugh that you were so nervous about this.

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    Thanks. I'm just alittle more worried because the club I want to work at has a little brighter lighting than the others I've been to. I have been so uncomfortable in my own body for the past few years, and I finally got to the point where I love it again and I just don't want to crash and burn, ya know. But thanks for the confidence boost!

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    I've never met a girl who didn't have stretch marks somewhere. Don't worry. You are always your own worst critic. And dancing can really be the ultimate confidence boost. I used to hate my legs, so much so that once I hit puberty, I refused to wear anything above the knee. No skirts, no shorts, nothing. And I stayed that way till I started dancing. Now I am totally confident about my legs, and I wear short shorts all the time, and you know what? I get complimented on my legs more than anything else (except tits and hair).

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    Hiya,

    Good luck in your audition! I absolutely second what Firemaiden04 said, I'm sure you look great and no-one else will even notice. By the way, do you use fake tan? Just an idea because I do (out of a bottle) and sometimes I think my nipples hardly even show up through it... that could be a solution and make you feel more confident.

    If your location allows, don't place too much importance on getting into one particular club. I got shot down before I started at the one I'm in and guess what? I'm making money, working with much nicer people and having fun.

    You will do well I'm sure.

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    I don't think you have to be perfect, but you should be hot and confident. Be confident over anything else. Whatever makes you feel confident will help you shine!

    Its been said a lot here, but club lighting is very flattering. I am pretty, but the first and only time I had a real audition I was still all freaked out before, staring at myself in the mirror, noticing every time bit of cellulite, untoned skin, whatever.

    When I was actually auditioning I will never forget the first moment I sorta walked around the pole and then caught myself in the mirror on the back side of the wall. I BARELY could recognize myself! I was so fucking hot! lol

    So yeah, I say just be confident, feel sexy and get out there and do it! The worst that will happen is they reject u which I highly doubt. And if they do you can always fix whatever was wrong and do it again another time/place. But they won't reject you. lol just go for it! Good luck!



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    "They're not going to give you an examination with a magnifying glass before they hire you. "

    ^This is so true too. They basically took one look at me and then were like "Okay, get up on the stage so I can make sure you can move". I had put so munch effort into practicing looking good on stage and they only half assed paid attention to me. The manager was talking to the other girls and only casually watching me. When I was done they were like yeah, you're hot! It was so much easier and less scary than Id expected. I didn't even end up working at the place because it turned out that it sucked but I won't be too nervous to audition again.

    The way I feel is that even if they were mean to you and you were humiliated you could always run out the door and probably wouldn't have to see anyone from there again.



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    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    I have terrible, terrible stretch marks on my tits, cause they went from an A to a D in one summer, back when I was 14. No one has ever noticed, or if they have, they've never said anything. You have to understand, these clubs are dark. This isn't bright office-building fluorescent lighting. This is club lighting. No one will see. There are girls at my club with scars from C-sections, and you can't tell when you're downstairs. And all girls have stretch marks somewhere or another. I can't imagine a club that would turn you down because of that. They're not going to give you an examination with a magnifying glass before they hire you. Trust me. In a few months, you'll look back and laugh that you were so nervous about this.
    I was sort of thinking the same thing about the lighting, but I had a friend of mine go into a club the other night and he said that the blacklights made some of the girls' c-section scars look really noticable.

    That being said, I'm afraid that my scar on my stomach (surgery when I was days old) will be really visible and kind of a turn off. I'm not so worried about not getting hired, I'm afraid that my scar may 'scare off' potential custies...
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    Default Re: Am I aiming too high?

    I am bony and I still have stretch marks! I use the fake tan, it helps the marks become less noticeable. The guys that come out to the clubs are not all millionaires pair with killer looks and they are not looking for the same in us, trust me! a great attitude pair with a nice smile can go a long way. good luck sweetie!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Axiom View Post
    I feel like I'm just nagging with questions, but here goes....

    So obviously I'm a newbie. I'm getting myself ready to audition, but I'm getting more and more nervous. I know you ladies have said that clubs will hire girls with stretch marks and other imperfections, but as a newbie with noticeable stretch marks on my boobs do you think I will be turned down by a high end gown club? I just don't want my expectations to reach to high and then crash if I'm rejected...

    I don't think most clubs would reject a dancer for having stretch marks on her boobs. I mean, pretty much every boob bigger than an A cup has stretch marks. If that is your biggest physical flaw, then you are very lucky.

    That said, you need to prepare yourself for rejection if you are going to work in this industry. Even if you get hired, there will be many many men who reject you after you start working, even if you are the most beautiful, funny, smart, wonderful girl in the world. You have to be able to take it without crashing.
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