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    Mind Blowing Friends Coming to the Club

    I ran into a couple old friends at a bar the other night, and they already knew where I worked (smallish city word travels fast) and they both said they wanted to come see me dance. I'm not ok with that! Of course I didn't say that to them then, I just acted like it didn't bother me at all, but the truth is that it horrifies me.

    The first is a guy I've known FOREVER. We grew up together since we were kids. I actually slept with him awhile ago when my body was in much better shape (before kids) and that's probably why I'm so nervous about him seeing me now... (plus my bf would probably kill the guy if he knew but that's a whole different vein of drama)

    The second is a lesbian chick that's a really close friend of my boyfriend. I'm not exactly sure why I'm so nervous about her seeing me, but I am!

    To date I haven't ran into anyone in my friend circle or from my past. Now I have two that wanna come see me and it's the most nervous I've been since last summer when I first did auditions.

    I don't even know if I'm asking a question I'm just about to shit myself thinking of them coming to watch me dance. I just have this feeling that they think I'm gunna be a bad ass on the pole but in reality I'm not that great of a dancer. Hopefully they were just talking outa their ass and wont really come.. but I'm not sure!

    No wonder most dancers dance out of their hometowns. I'm terrified of people from my past seeing me!

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    I get soooo nervous when people I know show up, I acutalluy start to shake on stage. When people I know well show up, I have asked them to step outside while I dance because I feel uncormfortable, they are usually really understanding.

    There has been a time where a goup of guys show up that are in my 'group of friends'. I just had to suck it up and go on stage (I dont do any pole work, splits etc so I my stages are certainly nothing to be proud of).

    If you know them well enough, maybe you could ask them to step outside, or maybe you could send another dancer over to distract them while you go on stage?

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    ^^ Those are two very good ideas. Especially with the dude friend, I'm sure another chick giving him attention would succesfully distract him from my stage set lol. He's the one I'm mainly concerned about.

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    I had previously stuck the bananas and cucumber in my cooter, yes.

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    People I know come into my club all the time, and it's never bothered me. I'm not doing anything I'm embarrassed about or ashamed of. I actually love when my friends come in to see me, and I LOVE being onstage then. I really love my stage sets, especially since I started learning all the pole tricks. I'm really proud of my stage sets, cause I feel wicked sexy up there, and I just want to share that with people. I wouldn't give any of my friends a serious lap dance, though. That WOULD be weird.

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    I have no problems with friends seeing me at work. For me, it's my job. I do what I do how I do it. If it doesn't impress them, too bad. I'm not there to impress my friends. I'm there to earn a living. As long as men are turned on to me and I make money, I'm happy. If its a slow night, so be it. I have no control over that so there's no reason to be ashamed.
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    I had a bunch of guys that I use to work with come in and see me. It was really awkward for me on the inside but I didn't let it show on the outside. Plus I hustled the shit out of all of them so I'd say it was worth it. When you come in to my work place, it's equal opportunity and you're a customer now - no longer someone I know. If I want to "hang out" with you as "buddies" I'd do that outside of the club.
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    The only thing I'm truly ashamed of is that I'm not a better pole dancer lol!

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    I would actually just tell them that maybe they could drop by for a bit, but you'd rather they don't hang around because it might mess up your hustle.

    I HATE it when people I know come into the club. SUCKS! I'm not ashamed of dancing or anything, it just makes me super self-concious and fucks up my hustle. I suddenly feel like the REAL me and not the sexy goddess I pretend to be at work.

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