Results 1 to 14 of 14

Thread: First night tomorrow!

  1. #1
    Newbie iRequiem's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2009
    Location
    NYC
    Posts
    8
    Thanks
    6
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default First night tomorrow!

    Hey ladies! I've been lurking & info-gathering for a few months now. I finally got the nerve to audition tonight! I had everything prepared - shoes, gown, hair, make-up, ID. The only thing I wasn't prepared for was that there was no pole! Haha. I auditioned on this small balcony on the second floor looking over the main floor & above a bigger stage with another stripper & without poles.

    Thanks to you beautiful ladies, I had a good idea of what to expect. Everything went really well & I got hired! I'm just sitting in front of my laptop, getting myself aquainted with the packet of do-this-and-you'll-get-fined dos & don'ts they gave me. First day starts tomorrow. Wish me luck & that I don't trip too often in those 6-inchers!

    Remy

  2. #2
    AudreyLeigh
    Guest

    Default Re: First night tomorrow!

    Awww ... to be new again.

    Hope you read up in the Dollar Den too! Save that money and good luck.

  3. #3
    Newbie iRequiem's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2009
    Location
    NYC
    Posts
    8
    Thanks
    6
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: First night tomorrow!

    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    Awww ... to be new again.

    Hope you read up in the Dollar Den too! Save that money and good luck.
    I'd gladly trade places with you I almost lost my lunch in all my newbie-nervousness.

    I have been through enough threads in Dollar Den to learn that I have to be smart with my money. I'm so grateful to have a place like this to come to & learn from everyone's experiences.

    Thank you!

  4. #4
    AudreyLeigh
    Guest

    Default Re: First night tomorrow!

    This place is great. I wish I had it when I was new! I had already been dancing a few years when I found it.

    I didn't even want to be a dancer - I needed a job and a male friend said "Why don't you be a stripper?". I had never even been to a club! I told him I don't look like a stripper! I thought they all looked like barbie (thanks tv) and I was 5'8". 110lbs and a 32AA... lol. I was a horrible looking newbie stripper when I started! lol... at least you were able to learn here before you start!

  5. #5
    Newbie iRequiem's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2009
    Location
    NYC
    Posts
    8
    Thanks
    6
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: First night tomorrow!

    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    This place is great. I wish I had it when I was new! I had already been dancing a few years when I found it.

    I didn't even want to be a dancer - I needed a job and a male friend said "Why don't you be a stripper?". I had never even been to a club! I told him I don't look like a stripper! I thought they all looked like barbie (thanks tv) and I was 5'8". 110lbs and a 32AA... lol. I was a horrible looking newbie stripper when I started! lol... at least you were able to learn here before you start!
    That's so funny because I'm 5'4 110lbs and rocking the 32AA as well. I'm looking forward to being able to afford breast augmentation and eating as well. Oddly enough, as self-conscious as I am about my chest, under all that light & music, I'd forgotten about my insecurities. I actually felt confident!

    Despite the havoc eating away at my every nerve right this instant, I can tell that this business is going to be a great learning experience for me.

    ::runs to projectile vomit before work::


  6. #6
    AudreyLeigh
    Guest

    Default Re: First night tomorrow!

    ^^ I said the first thing I would do is buy boobs - I made enough... I just didn't "need" them like I thought I did. I finally got them after almost 3 years. I love em now.

  7. #7
    Newbie iRequiem's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2009
    Location
    NYC
    Posts
    8
    Thanks
    6
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Update Days 1,2,3

    Day 1 was a Tuesday. I got to the club a little past 7 & waited for the housemom to get in to make sure all the necessary paperwork was done. When she got there we went over all the stuff I'd filled out yesterday & it turns out that the manager forgot to sign off on my ID & SS card to verify that it was real. I'd left my SS card back home because all the lockers were already taken & I wasn't about to risk losing it. The manager wasn't picking up his phone and without his siggy, I couldn't work. So I had two options - come back tomorrow with the card or go home & get it. Now I wasn't about to waste a perfectly good night of potential money making so I treked back home (which is a 45 min train ride each way) just to grab that stupid card.

    I get back a little after 9, everything got okay-ed. Housemom did a once over & had the make-up guy (who was deliciously gay & funny) slap on some fake lashes (which was a first for me lol) The girl that was next in line to get her make-up done was so sweet & let me cut in real quick. We had a quick chat while make-up guy worked his magic on me. It turns out that she had only been at the club for a couple months, she reassured me that I would get used to the environement very quickly & that it was a great place to work. What a nice girl she was. Knowing that not too long ago, she had been were I was standing & was still happily there, really calmed me.
    I then was sent off with the manager to explain how things worked. And shortly after I was on my own to figure it all out. I got my first dance with an older Asian gentlemen & OMG my nerves! My legs were like jelly! Poor guy got the very first newbie dance. Haha. The rest of the night was pretty slow, even for a Tues. night. I managed to sell a couple more dances & even found my First Cute Customer who was a pleasure to talk to. There was also a drunk gentleman from Dublin who repeatedly told me how sweet & gorgeous I was & kept going "Omg...omg...omg..." while I danced for him. Lol.

    The end of the night was coupled with a bit of stripper drama in the dressing room & an extremely kind Russian dancer who told me not let the drama get to me, that it all gets easier with time & that if I needed anything I can always ask her. I wonder if she knows how expectionally grateful I am for her being so understanding & helpful to a newbie like me.

    All in all, my first night went as well as I could've hoped even if I didn't leave with much.

  8. #8
    Newbie iRequiem's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2009
    Location
    NYC
    Posts
    8
    Thanks
    6
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default

    Days 2 & 3 was pretty great for me, so it rounded out to be a really awesome first newbie week.

    It turns out that the only dress I bought didn’t meet the club regulations, & being that I was quite broke I was in a bit of a bind. It’s not like I could just walk around the club in nothing but my g-string. Luckily there was a pretty blonde who overheard, immediately lent me two dresses & said to return it to her whenever. She was a little bit thicker & taller than me so the red dress didn’t fit but the sparkly black one was a winner. She just saved my life.

    Day 2 was a Friday so it was expectedly pretty full. I was still working out my newbie nerves of walking up to people. I found my first drunk weirdo perve of the night. He told me how he used to work in this industry for years, how sexy he thought I was & how he’d love to take me out & show me how amazing in bed he was. Umm…no…Next! What makes some people think that they can just come up to me in my place of work, tell me how they’ll show me a good time & I’d just follow them home so that I’d let them bone me? I wonder if it actually works cause there seems to be a constant supply of these pricks roaming about. Oh well just part of the job, I suppose.

    Pretty non-eventful for me the first couple hours. I sold my first 2 dances of the night to a Chinese man whom I’m not quite sure was all there in the head but he was pleasant enough to chat with. Apparently his friends took him to a strip club one night & he got hooked. He was definitely not VIP potential as he told me that for $100, you could be given a good time in a Chinese “massage parlor”.

    The third dance of the night went to a grade school teacher who worked in the Upper East side. He was the one who approached me & said that he simply had to have a dance from me. It was so nice to be asked for a dance after hearing no over & over.

    12:15 am: I hit my jackpot. I caught a middle-aged bald man eyeing me so I smiled & immediately introduced myself. We’ll call him John. John was a real estate developer from PA & had a thing for Asians. I did a dance for him & then proceeded to chat him up a bit before mentioning VIP. I offered to not charge for the dance if he wanted to go up to VIP. It was an easy sell. He wanted to do the ½ hour & he ordered a bottle of champagne for us.

    John and I proceeded to talk about travel (apparently he’s been to a ton of places), his real estate developing business, my gymnastics background, our mutual love of working out & his fetish for Asian girls. He was quite easy to talk to but he was also quite touchy. He kept kissing my neck & hugging me, which I was okay with but once he did catch me off guard & kissed my nipple. I immediately pushed him away & told him it wasn’t allowed. I need to learn to be more firm. He also ended up extending VIP to an hour which was great for my ego. At the end of the hour, I gave him my work email address so that he could keep in touch if he was ever in town & wanted to see me at the club again. It was a pretty nice first VIP experience. He even left a gracious tip. I hope he comes back.

    The night ended with me selling 3 dances to a nice man who had the most interesting name but it escapes me at the moment. It sounded very similar to Narnia though…

    Day 3 was Saturday & there were a ton of bachelor parties lined up. I need to learn how to work groups. The first dance I sold was to a member of the first bachelor party. I lucked out, approaching the first guy without a girl in his lap. He just happened to love petite girls. He was nice to talk to & we did 3 dances. I would have loved to have done VIP with him but I somehow think that getting a guy to leave the his friends & the party to go upstairs is a tougher sell than I can manage at this point.

    The next bachelor party was of 22 men. They were escorted upstairs to have dinner. Myself & a couple other girls go upstairs to entertain them, and I end up on the bachelor’s lap. He was a big guy who owned a trucking company & had some supposedly pretty important people at the party. [I would look it up but I didn’t really commit their faces to memory.] We’ll call him Bob the Ass. First I asked him if he was excited to be getting married, his reply “Nope, not really.” He then asked me what he “got” in VIP. I asked him to clarify & he said “Would you blow me?” No, Bob I wouldn’t blow you in VIP. He apologizes for being rude & said he had too much to drink before. I do a lapdance for him & the best man throws in two other dancers into the mix. Bob the Ass kept trying to grope me continuously throughout the dance. This was a first for me & I kept grabbing his hand to keep him away. He tries this on one of the other dancers & she slapped him. Serves you right, Bob. He tells the other dancers to leave, quite rudely & said that he only wanted me. I stay for a few more minutes before Bob had to go to the bathroom. The best man askes me much the dance was, & I said $20. In hindsight I should’ve charged much more. Oh well, lesson learned.

    I go downstairs to work the room some more. I sell some more dances. I meet a nice guy in his twenties who teaches Korean yoga & was a bit of a metrosexual. We’ll call him Kevin. I do a dance for him & had him pegged as a limited buyer. I go upstairs to rest a bit. I see a dancer named Serena go on main stage, she’s got great rhythm, insanely flexible & puts on an amazing show. I decide to find Kevin as he was the second cute guy of the week [ironically the First cute guy of the week had the same name as well] I would tell him this to flatter him & so I could use him as a lap while I enjoy the show Serena was putting on.

    Kevin wasn’t too interested in the show, I think he might’ve had his eyes on the big screen watching the highlights. I tell him about the name coincidence but of course he doesn’t believe me. We talk about names & how we each got ours. His mother picked his from a character based on Days of Our Lives. My mother let her cousin pick mine since she didn’t speak a lick of English. I figured I might as well try to sell him VIP since we were having fun talking. And he actually goes for it! We do the ½ hour VIP & he buys a bottle of Pinot Noir. (I get 10% commission on the bottles I sell in VIP but I don’t think I necessarily have to sell a bottle so I probably won’t push it next time as I’d rather have the customer spend it extending VIP & have the money go to me instead.)

    Kevin was really cool to talk to at first, but he tries to kiss me on the mouth. I inform him that this is against the rules. He respects that & I think he tries to get cute with me [but really it came off a little weird & ass-like] he then tells me that I can’t kiss him or rub the back of his thigh. He sees the money I had rubber banded to my ankle & takes it. I playfully wrestle him for it [but really I wanted to stick my stiletto in his ass & see how he liked being fucked with]. He overpowers me & jokingly says thank you for the money. I let him hold onto it while keeping a hawk eye over his hands. He proceeds to smell me [yes smell me] & tells me how he loves girls who smell like flowers or something edible. Apparently I smelt like popcorn & he nicknames me Orville Redenbacher. He smelt me for a while & told me not to talk. He also liked to slap my ass. That’s fine by me, buddy. Whatever floats your boat. We leave after the ½ hour is up. He puts it on his credit card & I receive my payment in Funny Money from the club. Funny money sucks cause the club takes $2 from every $20 I made. Dammit.

    [Oddly enough both my VIP guys loved my natural AA cups, it's a strange but nice boost to my confidence as this is something I'm extremely self-concious about]

    I sell a couple more dances before calling it a night. I was there for nearly 11 hours. Time to hang up the stilettos.

    As I waited on the train to go home, Ipod in tow, I noticed I started dancing to the music. I stop myself. This had been happening since my first night. An Indian guy notices this & sits in front of me on the train. He askes me if I was a dancer, so which I asked what kind he meant. Apparently his previous ex’s were professional dancers as well & I was moving kind of like they did, swaying to the music, slipping my feet in & out of my shoes & stretching [I was just readjusting the gel insoles in my shoes, buddy] I tell him that I’m just a bartender because I didn’t feel like inviting more conversation about what I did. The entire time we talked I kept thinking I should be getting paid for this. LOL.

    I really appreciate this forum & the wealth of information it's been. I don't think I would've made it out alive this week without you wonderful ladies. Thank you so much!

  9. #9
    AudreyLeigh
    Guest

    Default Re: First night tomorrow!

    Damn girl! You pay close attention at work! Well, like with "John" in the VIP - it only takes ONE person to make your night - always remember that.

    "Bob" sounds like Daniel the Lawyer Sat night... the 30 year old who looked like an 18 year old and didn't know that a belt is to hold your pants up. I had to ask how his pants stay up when he has them buckled halfway down his ass. He kept asking about what he gets in the VIP so I very loudly (VERY loudly) said "No Daniel, I will not blow you in the back room!"... which is funny because after I said that he bought an hour in the VIP. lol... go figure.

    Yay for you - sounds like you are doing quite well at this - keep up the good work!

  10. The Following User Says Thank You to AudreyLeigh For This Useful Post:


  11. #10
    Featured Member Winged Dinghy's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2008
    Location
    The dirty south
    Posts
    1,381
    Thanks
    1,942
    Thanked 1,992 Times in 605 Posts
    Blog Entries
    17
    My Mood
    Fine

    Default Re: First night tomorrow!

    Thanks for the detailed posts--they are quite interesting and probably helpful for other new girls, too.

    Congrats on your successful week!

  12. The Following User Says Thank You to Winged Dinghy For This Useful Post:


  13. #11
    Member
    Joined
    Jan 2009
    Posts
    25
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts

    Default Re: First night tomorrow!

    yes, please post more! how are you picking up dance moves, thats what i'm most worried about. i go to investigate a club with a friend tomorrow.

  14. #12
    Senior Member inThePine's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2009
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    178
    Thanks
    21
    Thanked 24 Times in 18 Posts

    Default Re: First night tomorrow!

    Wow sounds like you lucked out with the girls in your club, it's awesome that one of them lent you a dress and everything. Very useful info for us noobs. I can't wait to start, I even dreamed last night that I was working in a strip club. I wasn't making any money, but I was enjoying myself. And it's up to me to change the part about not making money.

  15. The Following User Says Thank You to inThePine For This Useful Post:


  16. #13
    Newbie iRequiem's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2009
    Location
    NYC
    Posts
    8
    Thanks
    6
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: First night tomorrow!

    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    Damn girl! You pay close attention at work! Well, like with "John" in the VIP - it only takes ONE person to make your night - always remember that.
    I definitely keep reminding myself of that, esp when the beginning of the night is crazy slow. I started to type in everything I can remember about the night on my phone while waiting for the train.

    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    "Bob" sounds like Daniel the Lawyer Sat night... the 30 year old who looked like an 18 year old and didn't know that a belt is to hold your pants up. I had to ask how his pants stay up when he has them buckled halfway down his ass. He kept asking about what he gets in the VIP so I very loudly (VERY loudly) said "No Daniel, I will not blow you in the back room!"... which is funny because after I said that he bought an hour in the VIP. lol... go figure.

    Yay for you - sounds like you are doing quite well at this - keep up the good work!
    LOL! Maybe I should've tried that. Next time.

  17. #14
    Newbie iRequiem's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2009
    Location
    NYC
    Posts
    8
    Thanks
    6
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: First night tomorrow!

    Quote Originally Posted by rubysydney View Post
    yes, please post more! how are you picking up dance moves, thats what i'm most worried about. i go to investigate a club with a friend tomorrow.
    There's no pole to do pole work off of so mostly it's just me slowly wiggling back and forth on the main stage. When it's early & quieter, I typically watch the dancers who've got better rhythm than me & try to memorize some stuff I can mimic. There's not much to be made in stage tips so I just try to look sexy & like I'm enjoying myself.

Similar Threads

  1. Audition tomorrow night
    By Asijah in forum Newbie Board
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 01-24-2010, 04:09 PM
  2. this cold needs to be gone by tomorrow night
    By britt244 in forum Body Business
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 12-13-2007, 11:17 AM
  3. tomorrow night!!! ...
    By anelia in forum Newbie Board
    Replies: 4
    Last Post: 08-16-2006, 02:37 AM
  4. Auditioning tomorrow night!
    By Ilovetodance in forum Newbie Board
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: 07-12-2006, 10:50 PM
  5. tomorrow is the night
    By velvet in forum General Board
    Replies: 27
    Last Post: 11-06-2003, 03:59 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •