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    This question probably shows a fundamental lack of understanding of friendship, female sexuality, and fun. But I'll ask it anyway.

    Club I go to has 3 stages, 2 of them adjoining. Yesterday I watched as an ex-stripper (used to work at the club but not in months) came in in street clothes with a man, presumably her boyfriend. She was chatting with various strippers and then sat at the stage. The 2 dancers went over to her and they all began doing stuff. Eventually ended up with all 3 of them on stage in a big naked pile.

    Now, I can see a financial incentive for the 2 dancers to do this -- although, I would argue, they were mostly doing it for fun, because they were ignoring the guys at stage while having fun with this girl, and didn't appear to intentionally be putting on a les show.

    But put those 2 aside, there was no financial incentive for the 3rd girl to do it. No one was tipping her, and unless you knew her from way back when, you wouldn't know she was an ex-dancer anyway. Also, her boyfriend sat there looking off into space as if he were bored to death...so didn't appear to be turning him on either.

    So do the 3 things I list in the 1st sentence explain this scene?

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    My guess? She liked stripping and was still close friends with the girls at the club but probably quit to respect the wishes of the boyfriend. Hence the playing around on stage to relive some "glory days" while the boyfriend was there. He probably wasn't bored, but was likely thinly concealing worry over her choosing to returning to stripping.


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    ^ Yeah, it's a glory days thing. Also, she probably feels sexy when she can interact with the strippers on a more intimate level than the other female customers. Was anyone else in the club at that time? Even though she wasn't putting on a show for her boyfriend, she might have been gaining attention from other customers/management.

    I think it's an exhibitionist thing, but complicated by the fact that she used to be a stripper (and probably misses it).

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    Post-lunch crowd, not too many people there. One old guy standing about 3 feet from them leering, a couple of people at each of the 2 dancers' stages, a few people scattered in the room. I've seen "faux les" shows where there is a cluster of guys standing around hooting and hollering and scattering bills, and this was definitely not that.

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    They were just having a good time for the sake of it! That does happen in clubs sometimes!

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    As you said, it was during a quite period of the day, so the girls just decided to have some fun on stage. Prolly wasn't much stage tip money to be had anyway.

    I've seen this happen several times.

    Hell I've seen some of the most inane things happen on stage during a slow say shift from a girl just taking a nap in the corner, to the dancers going up on stage and doing the chicken dance or the electric slide.

    Btw - just because a bunch of dancers/ex-dancers got undressed on stage doesn't necessarily mean that it was overtly sexual.
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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    Btw - just because a bunch of dancers/ex-dancers got undressed on stage doesn't necessarily mean that it was overtly sexual.
    Things occurred that were overtly sexual -- I did not describe because I didn't want to detract from the main point.

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    I thought your main point was to ask if what you saw fit with your notion of female friendship, sexuality and fun.

    If a bunch of dancers got up on stage with an ex-dancer and took her top off and just playfully rolled around with each other is one thing. If they performed sexual acts on stage, wouldn't that be something of note relative to your question? (Btw - I'm not asking you to decribe in detail what went on. Don't need the play by play.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    I thought your main point was to ask if what you saw fit with your notion of female friendship, sexuality and fun.

    If a bunch of dancers got up on stage with an ex-dancer and took her top off and just playfully rolled around with each other is one thing. If they performed sexual acts on stage, wouldn't that be something of note relative to your question?
    Well, exactly...she stood up and started kissing dancer 1. Dancer 1 pulled her shirt & bra off. Dancer 1 laid down and custy started rubbing her pussy. Dancer 2 came over and joined in (couldn't exactly see how). Both pulled custy on stage. Took her clothes off. For next 2 songs various combinations of pussy rubbing, breast groping, full-body kissing, and lots and lots of giggling.

    Then clothes went back on and custy went back to her boyfriend.

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    Well I wasn't there. What you saw may have been real, but I can say that there can also be a lot of performing and theatrics that can go on in a SC setting and what you think you saw may have just been for show.
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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    Well I wasn't there. What you saw may have been real, but I can say that there can also be a lot of performing and theatrics that can go on in a SC setting and what you think you saw may have just been for show.
    I'm not saying they were having sex. They weren't paying attention to any customers or anyone else. They were just rolling around having a little naked fun.

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    ^ Yeah, but in a performative business, 99% of that is done to turn on or somehow affect the people watching. Despite what it looks like.

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    ^^I agree. Sometimes, men respond to dancers more when they're NOT paying attention to the men then when they are. After all, if you knew they were going after your attention, would you have been thinking about it enough to post about it here?

    Maybe the dancers were using the ex-dancer as a prop to gain some extra attention on a slow point in the day (when they would need it the most). Maybe the ex-dancer was more then willing to help out to relive her "glory days" or just because she wanted to help out. Maybe both, maybe neither.

    But you have to admit, if it wasn't for customer attention, don't you think they would have taken it into the dressing room?

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    ^ Exactly.

    You can tell when shit is authentically going down by the customers'/dancers' willingness to take the interaction someplace private.

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    I feel like we're devolving into my "fantasy vs. reality" thread, which was not my intent at all.

    In my initial post I said "put aside the motives of the 2 dancers" -- I understand that, in some sense, everything a dancer does in public view at a club can be construed to be for entertainment (and thus money) purposes. I don't necessarily agree with that, but let's not argue it.

    That's why I focused on the girl behind Door # 3 and her motivation...which was most certainly not money. Some have answered, and thanks for that.

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    ^ Again, it's impossible to know, but it's either because 1) she's an exhibitionist, 2) she's an exhibitionistic bisexual/bicurious woman, or 3) because she's an exhibitionist who misses stripping.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^ Again, it's impossible to know, but it's either because 1) she's an exhibitionist, 2) she's an exhibitionistic bisexual/bicurious woman, or 3) because she's an exhibitionist who misses stripping.
    4) She stripped for many years (this I know) and has no problems being naked in a strip club, so when her friends started having fun with her she went with it because she was "back in her element" and having fun.

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    ^...because she misses stripping. Isn't that what I said?

    This has happened to me before, and I realize that there is a 'fun' element to all of this (of course! strip clubs are intended to be fun!). But I think the underlying reason behind it is a bit more complex.

    After all, one of the cool parts about stripping that often gets overshadowed on this board is the camaraderie that exists between strippers. Yes--it's fun to play around with your stripper friends. But the underlying motive is always either money or exhibitionism. If she were just 'having fun' in the simplistic sense, she'd probably hang out with her stripper friends outside of work instead of in the middle of one of their stage sets.
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    Or she was hoping to help her friends out. If putting on a sexy les show potentially boosts her friends' income, why wouldn't she want to play along? I've gone to other clubs as a customer and had friends give me free lapdances as a means to drum up bizness... often times it works! Plus it's fun for me




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    2 stories. I know both of them well enough to believe them, not SS.

    1 - my stripper friend spent a few weeks "breaking in" her friend by doing double shows with her all the time. One night she went in civilian clothes to the club when her friend was working and ended up onstage naked -- and she tells me it was for the reasons some of you state, she wanted to help her friend earn money. I believe her and it fits.

    2 - another stripper friend told me she had been stripping for a couple of years but her sister and sister's friends didn't know. They all went to a club and the secret-stripper ended up getting on stage and getting naked -- "shocking" her sister and all her friends. She wanted to be "outrageous" for her friends. But I also offered her my psychological opinion that since she wouldn't/couldn't tell her sister what she had been doing for 2 years, this was a way to act out what she does, to show her sister without directly telling her. She thought that was an interesting theory.

    MOSTLY, when stuff like this happens and custies participate, I don't think many are analyzing it deeply at a time -- they're just in a club and having fun and going with the flow.

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    I sorta did the same type of show when I was at the club one night in street clothes and my friend was on stage. It wasn't quite what you described (I wasn't on stage with her or anything) but she was nervous and it made her more comfortable to have me there, and the guys loved it so she made extra $$. We had fun, the guys watching had fun, and there was more money. It was win win for everyone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    I sorta did the same type of show when I was at the club one night in street clothes and my friend was on stage. It wasn't quite what you described (I wasn't on stage with her or anything) but she was nervous and it made her more comfortable to have me there, and the guys loved it so she made extra $$. We had fun, the guys watching had fun, and there was more money. It was win win for everyone.
    By the way. Let's say you have identical twins who are both 8/10. The 8 who goes from stripper clothes to naked moves to a 9. The 8 who goes from civilian clothes to naked gets a 10! Maybe an 11.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    4) She stripped for many years (this I know) and has no problems being naked in a strip club, so when her friends started having fun with her she went with it because she was "back in her element" and having fun.
    If you already know the answer, than why post the question? Heh.
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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    If you already know the answer, than why post the question? Heh.
    Everyone here helped me figure it out. (:

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    By the way. Let's say you have identical twins who are both 8/10. The 8 who goes from stripper clothes to naked moves to a 9. The 8 who goes from civilian clothes to naked gets a 10! Maybe an 11.
    Ugh. You're right, but I hate this. For some reason, the girl who isn't supposed to get naked will ALWAYS be more attractive to onlookers than the strippers. Grrrr....

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