In about 3 weeks, my boyfriend's mother is coming down from CT to visit. She will be staying with us for a week. We've been together 6 years now and she knows I quit teaching to go back to school. She -thinks- I've been substituting for the last 4 years and has no idea I'm stripping. I'm taking the summer off from school, so I"m working nearly every weekday right now. I don't really see a way of "hiding it" from her while she's here. I mean, I leave with bags of clothes and shoes, with my make-up and hair all done. Not to mention the hours I leave don't exactly say I'm teaching summer school. At this point, I've decided telling her is the best option. So, I'm not really asking if I should or not. What I want to know is "how" the fuck do I go about doing that? I mean, we've always gotten along and she's pretty open minded, but still... you can NEVER tell how people will react or what their misconceptions are. I'm debating having my boyfriend tell her on the day he picks her up (he's taking the day off, I'll be at work). Is that a cop-out or do you think it's acceptable to have him do it? I think my biggest worry is that she will tell his father. They are divorced and his father lives close, so we see him much more often. His father tends to rant about strippers on occasion. Like, he will say things about his siblings needing to raise his niece better lest she "end up dancing on a pole" with "no respect for herself". Shit like that. I don't need for him to start giving me "talks" about it. Maybe I should ask her not to say anything? Or does that make me sound "guilty" of something? ....... FEH! "inlaws"![]()



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