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    I was in a bikini club not more than a month ago. Of course most men notice a dancers chest or butt. I happen to looking at one sitting next to me and I noticed how beautiful dark brown eyes. is that normal? and do any other guys actually notice stuff like that or as usual just chest and ass.

    This isn't the first time I have said something like this. I have on occasion told a few that they have a beautiful smile.

    I know most men always think that dancers are sluts and are easy and etc. just because they dance.

    would you be flattered or insulted just because someone noticed something other than your chest, butt or any other part of the dancers body.

    if someone you considered a customer said that would you give them a your number just because they said that.

    In my opinion its a bad idea period to give out your number. you never know just what there actually like. whats you outlook on this?

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    I would be flattered, but I tend to hear that a lot anyways. I have very beautiful blue eyes. A guy can be attracted to a girl in many various ways. Don't worry honey that you didnt notice her tits or ass first.
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    Default Re: telling a dancer she has beautiful eyes

    Personally, I notice a guy's hands first.

    Everyone has their own personal areas that they're attracted to, or has their own special/interesting traits others are attracted to.

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    Exactly, the things i notice first are the guys eyes or there face area. Im weird but people notice different things about other people first. Its no biggie, and dont worry that you are not a total perv. Hugz.
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    I look for breasts. I know that's unusual, but don't judge me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sergifed91 View Post
    I was in a bikini club not more than a month ago. Of course most men notice a dancers chest or butt. I happen to looking at one sitting next to me and I noticed how beautiful dark brown eyes. is that normal? and do any other guys actually notice stuff like that or as usual just chest and ass.
    Sorry to break it to you, but yes, there are some who do.


    Quote Originally Posted by sergifed91 View Post
    ... would you be flattered or insulted just because someone noticed something other than your chest, butt or any other part of the dancers body. ...
    You are still talking about complimenting a dancer's physical beauty. Most dancers will have heard compliments of every kind about their beauty. Kind of comes with the job.

    Still, insults and vindictive coments are also fairly common within a SC, so in my opinion genuine compliments will tend to be well received.

    Want to a better chance of actually flattering her? Tip her $20 and tell it's just because of how nice her eyes are, then just walk away.


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    ... if someone you considered a customer said that would you give them a your number just because they said that. ...
    Bwahahahaha ... you're not serious right?


    Quote Originally Posted by sergifed91 View Post
    ...In my opinion its a bad idea period to give out your number. you never know just what there actually like. whats you outlook on this?
    Duh.
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    Default Re: telling a dancer she has beautiful eyes

    "You have really nice eyes" is the standard "Im different from other guys, honest!" opener, i'm sure they hear it a lot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by *~Angel~* View Post
    Exactly, the things i notice first are the guys eyes or there face area. Im weird but people notice different things about other people first. Its no biggie, and dont worry that you are not a total perv. Hugz.
    LOL ... *~Angel~* this thread and your post reminded me of a humorous qoute:


    According to a recent survey, men say that the first thing
    they notice about a woman are their eyes.
    And women say that the first thing they notice about men is that they're a bunch of liars.

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    LoL so true... But we try to ignore that part if they are totally hott lol.... haha, that made me laugh hard.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    "You have really nice eyes" is the standard "Im different from other guys, honest!" opener, i'm sure they hear it a lot.
    Quoted for truth. I hear this soooooo often. Honestly, it's more original to tell me you like my T&A at this point.

    I can appreciate the "unique compliment approach," but it's somewhat sickening how many guys think that the "you have beautiful eyes" or "what's my favorite part of a woman's body? Why of course...her eyes" responses are unique. Strip clubs are so dark that I can't even take this seriously anymore.

    I know, I know. I'm cynical.

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    cynical or not. I like people who are honest. I don't like people who are afraid of hurting my feelings or getting me upset. I personally like honesty and It goes along way with me. Than lying and worrying about hurting my feelings or getting me mad. If i do get my feeling hurt or get mad. Oh well! i'll get over it. thats my outlook.

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    Yeah...when the club is 2 steps from pitch dark and I have 4 lbs of dark makeup around my eyes, I find it difficult to believe that they can actually see what color they are (blue).

    I'm like yezzz, lookee at the pretty black holez in my faec. Entrancing, neh?

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    ^I have definitely been able to see eye color (light blue vs dark blue vs green vs brown) in clubs. The eye makeup (especially eyeliner) definitely helps, but when I've used a "beautiful eyes" line it has been honest whether oft repeated to the girl or not. I also have a very hard time providing an untrue compliment; I've had dancers say something to the effect of "I'm too fat", and, if they are, I just don't say anything.

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    I've decided when I'm in Vegas at the end of the month to compliment a dancer on her knees. My friend brings home celeb mags from the dayspa she manages and in the pics showing the stars on the red carpet or stumbling out of the trendy nightclubs most of these "hot" stars have some seriously fugly knees. They should botox their knees once in awhile.

    Comparatively my knees are 10s and I'm and old, fat PL.
    So I'm on a quest now to find compliment-worthy knees in LV SCs.

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    On the topic of eyes. Is it just me who feels the worst thing in a strip club is to go into the private room for a lap dance only to find the girl spends six minutes staring through you with dead, glazed eyes?

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    I love love love when someone notices something other than my tits or ass!! Especially if someone compliments my eyes (maybe it's just bc I think my eyes are my best quality I don't know). That will totally make me sit down and talk to someone every single time. The first dance I ever gave one of regs he said that I wasn't allowed to look anywhere but his eyes bc he said my eyes were just so amazing he wanted to just stare at them. He has turned out to be one of my favorite ppl! Guys who compliment something other than my body lets me know they're probably cool ppl.

    As for the phone number... a few of my regs have it. The rest not a chance in hell. I have to really know and trust someone before I will give them my number, and no, one compliment about my eyes will not get my number out of me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CuriousB View Post
    On the topic of eyes. Is it just me who feels the worst thing in a strip club is to go into the private room for a lap dance only to find the girl spends six minutes staring through you with dead, glazed eyes?
    That dancer is repulsed by you. Now the dancer that looks lovingly into your eyes, she is also repulsed by you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Yeah...when the club is 2 steps from pitch dark and I have 4 lbs of dark makeup around my eyes, I find it difficult to believe that they can actually see what color they are (blue).

    I'm like yezzz, lookee at the pretty black holez in my faec. Entrancing, neh?
    Why do you obscure your eyes? Shouldn't you accentuate them?
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    A girl's eyes (and face in general) can be just as attractive as her tits or her ass, so it's not necessarily a ploy if a guy compliments them. It wouldn't be believable at all if it wasn't possible. If your boobs and/or behind are really nice, though, I will probably be more interested in looking at them. But I wouldn't be lying about your eyes if they were also nice and I complimented them. I am not going to ignore your face just because you are naked (or almost).

    Agree though that such compliments can be false. If you have great tits and you are facing me topless, it's might be incongruous to comment on your eyes. I'd probably have to comment on your tits first.
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    This is not dating it is at best "dating". Sorry I can't stop "".



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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    I love love love when someone notices something other than my tits or ass!! Especially if someone compliments my eyes (maybe it's just bc I think my eyes are my best quality I don't know). That will totally make me sit down and talk to someone every single time. The first dance I ever gave one of regs he said that I wasn't allowed to look anywhere but his eyes bc he said my eyes were just so amazing he wanted to just stare at them. He has turned out to be one of my favorite ppl! Guys who compliment something other than my body lets me know they're probably cool ppl.

    As for the phone number... a few of my regs have it. The rest not a chance in hell. I have to really know and trust someone before I will give them my number, and no, one compliment about my eyes will not get my number out of me.
    Is there a special way to say this without making the girl laugh at me?
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    ^I know Earl, but if I'm gong to comment on her tits and her butt I may just as well compliment her eyes, number or no number. Such a wag.
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    ^I know Earl, but if I'm gong to comment on her tits and her butt I may just as well compliment her eyes, number or no number. Such a wag.

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    ^ Que?
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    btw - here is a similar thread you may find of interest...

    "Customer Compliments"
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=131412
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