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Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be
^I'm gonna say, from a customer's point of view, that if we have the urge to compliment you (in a tasteful way, tasteful being defined by the atmosphere of the particular environment), we should just do it. You can feel it's real, fake, or otherwise (and so can we), but if it's part of the experience that makes it better for us, it seems relatively harmless.
And I will just say, Charlie and Jay, you have beautiful "I"'s.
I always hear this, too. I actually don't have much T & A (sorta like my Bratz doll avatar), so I usually hear comment about my face. This is not unusual. Actually, the bouncer told me that when I wasn't working, some guy came in and asked for the girl with the "eyes"....he them remembered my name and told him lol. Yes, very descriptive...the girl w/the eyes lol.
To answer your one question, HELL NO I wouldn't give my number to a customer that I liked bc he said that I have nice eyes.
First thing I notice about a women is size. This is because if she's over a size four she's invisible to me and thus I don't notice anything else. Dismissed. LOL
If she's visible to me, then I notice hair first. Then it depends on whether she's walking towards me or away. If she's facing my then I check out her face. If she's walking away from me I check out her ass.
So it's frame, hair, face then ass for me.![]()
I find this funny because I'm a chick, and I don't even know what size I am. You're a guy, and you can actually pick out which girls are size 4's and less? Something about that seems soooo weird.
I wonder what the origins for you size fetish are. Like where your need for small women comes from. I don't understand it. Reminds me of skinnyfans.com, TBH.
/end threadjack.



ha, reminds me of a time when i was at hooters and my friend mistook our host as the waiter. she was offended and said she doesnt need to wear as much make up as her, has a better figure, yada yada yada...i told her "yeah and you've got bigger eyes than her". her reaction ->. i think she was expecting us to say she had bigger breasts than the waiter (which she did). hooters sucks by the way. crappy/expensive food and catty employees
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first thing i notice about a girl is her hair. im into brunettes/redheads. then i notice their legs/ass. i like them curvy but not thick. their legs/ass have to be shapely, smooth and not toothpicks. next thing i notice is their face. i love girls with pretty/cute faces and not super overdone with makeup. believe it or not im not a guy who likes boobs. a girl can be flat as a wall but if she's got all of the above, then to me she is smoking hot. oh and tattoos are cool with me also, but not a necessity.
^ I looove flat-chested girls! People think I'm crazy!![]()
hahaha. Yes I suppose I'm shallow on this point but I think everyone else is too. The OP, if I read correctly, thought it was weird that he noticed eyes first.
But IMO everyone chooses potential mates via shallow criteria (ie things the person has no control over). Many women I like dismiss me out of hand because I'm not 6 foot tall and I "suffer" from male pattern baldness. Which is their right. I even had a woman tell me she wouldn't date me because she couldn't wear heals with me because we were the same height. LOL
Although you are correct to call it a fetish as my sexual interest in women over that size is non-existant. We can be friends, like a man, but I never have been and never will be romantic with a women above that size. I even find the thought revolting, so yeah, I'm a strange dude.
Bottom line is that I think people should like what they like and accept no substitutes.
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PS. I went to skinnyfans, I do not like them that skinny.
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Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be
^^^ Not to mention that anyone whose been with woman for any length of time knows that she likely has a wardrobe for that varies from her "skinny jeans" to her comfort clothes - especially for certain times of the *ahem* month.![]()
If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.
I think blue eyes and black hair or green eyes with brunette hair are both very sexy. My Indy ATF was the latter. I don't miss the drama but I do miss her otherwise.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.




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