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    Default Re: telling a dancer she has beautiful eyes

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    ^ Que?
    ¿Que? No habla Espanol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    btw - here is a similar thread you may find of interest...

    "Customer Compliments"
    Very interesting.
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    If I tell you you are the most beautiful women I have ever seen I mean it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    ¿Que? No habla Espanol.
    Wasn't sure what language you were speaking. But you obviously know "que". Nice try.
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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Yeah...when the club is 2 steps from pitch dark and I have 4 lbs of dark makeup around my eyes, I find it difficult to believe that they can actually see what color they are (blue).

    I'm like yezzz, lookee at the pretty black holez in my faec. Entrancing, neh?
    Im curious as to why you and so many other dancers wear so much makeup which obsecures their eyes and eye color. I really enjoy beautiful eyes and I notice many of the girls who dance wear makeup that hides them. Ive known a dancer for years that has the most piercing beautiful blue eyes and she wears makeup which totally hides them. We have talked about it a number of times and she said if I came in at the end of the night she would take off all her makeup for a few sets of dances. She works a really sparadic schedule and we haven't ever both been there late at night to make it happen, but it is on my wish list. Sorry to get so deep, but I have often wondered if all that eye makeup so many dancers wear is to obscure who she really is as eyes are often refered to as a window into ones soul.

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    I feel your pain; if you should acquire what you seek you will know true and constant discomfort.
    You saying pulling a stripper would be a bad thing?
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    Why do you obscure your eyes? Shouldn't you accentuate them?
    I was being facetious. I do accentuate my eyes.

    The reason dancers wear (generally) a lot of eye makeup is so that our eyes don't look washed out in club lighting. There is a good reason for it.

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    Is there a special way to say this without making the girl laugh at me?
    Actually no. It was that he was actually genuine that made the difference... and you know what? I laughed at him anyway, and then he bought 2 triples from me and proceeded to have me sit on his lap and do nothing but talk so that he could look into my eyes.
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    Default Re: telling a dancer she has beautiful eyes

    ^I'm gonna say, from a customer's point of view, that if we have the urge to compliment you (in a tasteful way, tasteful being defined by the atmosphere of the particular environment), we should just do it. You can feel it's real, fake, or otherwise (and so can we), but if it's part of the experience that makes it better for us, it seems relatively harmless.

    And I will just say, Charlie and Jay, you have beautiful "I"'s.

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    I always hear this, too. I actually don't have much T & A (sorta like my Bratz doll avatar), so I usually hear comment about my face. This is not unusual. Actually, the bouncer told me that when I wasn't working, some guy came in and asked for the girl with the "eyes"....he them remembered my name and told him lol. Yes, very descriptive...the girl w/the eyes lol.

    To answer your one question, HELL NO I wouldn't give my number to a customer that I liked bc he said that I have nice eyes.

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    First thing I notice about a women is size. This is because if she's over a size four she's invisible to me and thus I don't notice anything else. Dismissed. LOL

    If she's visible to me, then I notice hair first. Then it depends on whether she's walking towards me or away. If she's facing my then I check out her face. If she's walking away from me I check out her ass.

    So it's frame, hair, face then ass for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    You saying pulling a stripper would be a bad thing?
    Yes, if that is the determining factor for someone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by commanderadama View Post
    First thing I notice about a women is size. This is because if she's over a size four she's invisible to me and thus I don't notice anything else. Dismissed. LOL

    I find this funny because I'm a chick, and I don't even know what size I am. You're a guy, and you can actually pick out which girls are size 4's and less? Something about that seems soooo weird.

    I wonder what the origins for you size fetish are. Like where your need for small women comes from. I don't understand it. Reminds me of skinnyfans.com, TBH.

    /end threadjack.

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    ha, reminds me of a time when i was at hooters and my friend mistook our host as the waiter. she was offended and said she doesnt need to wear as much make up as her, has a better figure, yada yada yada...i told her "yeah and you've got bigger eyes than her". her reaction -> . i think she was expecting us to say she had bigger breasts than the waiter (which she did). hooters sucks by the way. crappy/expensive food and catty employees .

    first thing i notice about a girl is her hair. im into brunettes/redheads. then i notice their legs/ass. i like them curvy but not thick. their legs/ass have to be shapely, smooth and not toothpicks. next thing i notice is their face. i love girls with pretty/cute faces and not super overdone with makeup. believe it or not im not a guy who likes boobs. a girl can be flat as a wall but if she's got all of the above, then to me she is smoking hot . oh and tattoos are cool with me also, but not a necessity.

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    ^ I looove flat-chested girls! People think I'm crazy!

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^ I looove flat-chested girls! People think I'm crazy!
    I agree with the caveat that they have robust niblets.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^ I looove flat-chested girls! People think I'm crazy!
    I love girls who love flat-chested girls!

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I find this funny because I'm a chick, and I don't even know what size I am. You're a guy, and you can actually pick out which girls are size 4's and less? Something about that seems soooo weird.

    I wonder what the origins for you size fetish are. Like where your need for small women comes from. I don't understand it. Reminds me of skinnyfans.com, TBH.

    /end threadjack.
    hahaha. Yes I suppose I'm shallow on this point but I think everyone else is too. The OP, if I read correctly, thought it was weird that he noticed eyes first.

    But IMO everyone chooses potential mates via shallow criteria (ie things the person has no control over). Many women I like dismiss me out of hand because I'm not 6 foot tall and I "suffer" from male pattern baldness. Which is their right. I even had a woman tell me she wouldn't date me because she couldn't wear heals with me because we were the same height. LOL

    Although you are correct to call it a fetish as my sexual interest in women over that size is non-existant. We can be friends, like a man, but I never have been and never will be romantic with a women above that size. I even find the thought revolting, so yeah, I'm a strange dude.

    Bottom line is that I think people should like what they like and accept no substitutes.
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    PS. I went to skinnyfans, I do not like them that skinny.
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    ¿Pulling? If that means "date" no. If that means date yes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I find this funny because I'm a chick, and I don't even know what size I am.
    How do you shop for clothes if you don't know your size? Anyway size does not matter; what matters is the ratio of hips to waist and bust.
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    The reason dancers wear (generally) a lot of eye makeup is so that our eyes don't look washed out in club lighting. There is a good reason for it.
    It is show business, it's called stage makeup.

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    Quote Originally Posted by commanderadama View Post
    First thing I notice about a women is size. This is because if she's over a size four she's invisible to me and thus I don't notice anything else. Dismissed. LOL
    Yes... we're all aware.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    How do you shop for clothes if you don't know your size? Anyway size does not matter; what matters is the ratio of hips to waist and bust.
    It is show business, it's called stage makeup.
    Every store has different sizing charts. At Abercrombie, you can be an anorexic 14-year old and still be a size 2, for example.

    Anyway, I buy most of my clothes from Goodwill (you have to look hard to find the nice stuff )

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    ^^^ Not to mention that anyone whose been with woman for any length of time knows that she likely has a wardrobe for that varies from her "skinny jeans" to her comfort clothes - especially for certain times of the *ahem* month.
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    I think blue eyes and black hair or green eyes with brunette hair are both very sexy. My Indy ATF was the latter. I don't miss the drama but I do miss her otherwise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post

    Anyway, I buy most of my clothes from Goodwill (you have to look hard to find the nice stuff )
    LOL I can't quite bring myself to hit Goodwill but with the economy TJ Max and Ross have some good deals worth checking out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I was being facetious. I do accentuate my eyes.

    The reason dancers wear (generally) a lot of eye makeup is so that our eyes don't look washed out in club lighting. There is a good reason for it.
    Oh. That's the opposite of saying you can't tell what colour they are. Moderators should not confuse the other posters. Tsk. I still think you have a rockin' avatar.
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