







Agreed. I made this point in the other thread Earl posted a link to above. You are dancing and stripping and walking about in lingerie. It's not nice to notice tits and ass OTC but ITC we are supposed to. On the other hand, if it's not polite to talk about your boobs or your butt until you strip for us in the private area (where I think it would be weird not to - while we are fondling them) then all that's left are your eyes, smile, hair and cloths. Voice? Perfume? Skin? I think "figure" would be allowed considering the place. You want to know how you are doing, don't you? It's a strip club - the behaviour in there is not the usual.



I love the hair. If i compliment it is usually hair, eyes, or mouth. I am the guy that will wait until you get comfortable with me before i ask to touch the hair ( and it wont be during a dance). Havent been denied yet, but i am sure i will before i am done. My last dancer was just okay below the head but the hair, eyes and mouth and of course Conversation kept me for 5 hours. I might look away from the face once or twice during a dance but very seldom.












Try them on. I know my sizes but I still have to - like Charlie61 says, sizes vary between countries and brands (and also different cuts, colours, patterns etc. suit different people).
LOL - now you're going to give them complexes about their WHRs.
They aren't always on stage - they work the room too.




Getting back to the eyes......I was trained in life to look a person in the eyes. It is still awkward for me to have a (or some) partially naked or fully naked women 'with' me and I'm doing my best to maintain eye contact. lol (silly me)
On another note, they say the eyes are a gateway to ones soul. I think you can 'read' the eyes and 'know about the person'. With that said, a beautiful pair of eyes (for me) is worth more than other physical features.





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Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be























Like Earl says - you weren't trained on how to behave around women who are eagerly displaying their bodies. In a SC you can look elsewhere some of the time - it's the reason they are dressed that way. But it's a contradictory situation. Behind the "rantasy" they are real girls, so they will naturally like you to treat them the same way they would like you to treat them OTC. However, they are also marketting the male fantasy, so n order for them to make money you have to check them out all over. They want both, but it has to be compromise.




lol who gets trained? It was a little tongue in cheek. Decorum does not go out the window when you are in an alternative setting. And you're right, I was not trained how to behave around women who are eagerly displaying their bodies, (that's why I have the self control to resist them <if I want>, unlike others).![]()





^Per other threads, I think some of the dancers are going to take issue with OTC automatically meaning a "happy ending". Haven't had an OTC experience myself, so I am purely speaking (well, typing) from what I've read elsewhere on the board.




And all this time I thought they wanted to be talked lowly too, looked down upon, hit, and all that other demeaning stuff. Maybe that is why I have lots of luck 'dating' strippers, treat them like they deserve to be treated.![]()
OTC does not mean IRL (in real life), which is the term I think you are going for.





Wow, so anyone that is dating a stripper is torturing himself to death? Are you yet another woman hater? Why is it torture to date a dancer?
There are a lot of girls both married and in relationships on this board. Somehow I think their SO's might seriously disagree with you.
/end thread jack.
Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be
^I think the scenario is more a customer dating a dancer, not relationships with dancers in general. I could be wrong though... and your point may still be valid in either case.
^I sound like I'm a gay English teacher from the way I type.





I would only worry if you weren't paying attention to them honestly, but that's just me. Spoken compliments aren't necessary imo. I can tell if you're into just by how you look at me, and the best way to show your appreciation is by tipping me.
Again, this is just my personal opinion.
Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be





Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be
^I think that's what causes the death by a thousand cuts. The customer coming to terms with his previous obsession now dating him, but being the obsession of others still. And all the other stuff. Just my point of view though. Not meaning to talk for Earl or what he was trying to convey.
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