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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    Actually no. It was that he was actually genuine that made the difference... and you know what? I laughed at him anyway, and then he bought 2 triples from me and proceeded to have me sit on his lap and do nothing but talk so that he could look into my eyes.
    I couldn't do that. I like the way a girl's eyes go with her tits. That's a facetious way of saying I like the whole package.

    You have expensive eyes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by vmurphy252 View Post
    ^I'm gonna say, from a customer's point of view, that if we have the urge to compliment you (in a tasteful way, tasteful being defined by the atmosphere of the particular environment), we should just do it. You can feel it's real, fake, or otherwise (and so can we), but if it's part of the experience that makes it better for us, it seems relatively harmless.
    Agreed. I made this point in the other thread Earl posted a link to above. You are dancing and stripping and walking about in lingerie. It's not nice to notice tits and ass OTC but ITC we are supposed to. On the other hand, if it's not polite to talk about your boobs or your butt until you strip for us in the private area (where I think it would be weird not to - while we are fondling them) then all that's left are your eyes, smile, hair and cloths. Voice? Perfume? Skin? I think "figure" would be allowed considering the place. You want to know how you are doing, don't you? It's a strip club - the behaviour in there is not the usual.
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    I love the hair. If i compliment it is usually hair, eyes, or mouth. I am the guy that will wait until you get comfortable with me before i ask to touch the hair ( and it wont be during a dance). Havent been denied yet, but i am sure i will before i am done. My last dancer was just okay below the head but the hair, eyes and mouth and of course Conversation kept me for 5 hours. I might look away from the face once or twice during a dance but very seldom.

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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    Yes, if that is the determining factor for someone.
    It seemed Earl was talking about consequences. I don't get it. No it's not a determining factor. You think I live in those places?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    ¿Pulling? If that means "date" no. If that means date yes.
    Still not helpful Earl. Pulling means getting a number or taking home. I don't know the difference in meaning of "date" and "'date'".
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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    How do you shop for clothes if you don't know your size? Anyway size does not matter; what matters is the ratio of hips to waist and bust.

    It is show business, it's called stage makeup.
    Try them on. I know my sizes but I still have to - like Charlie61 says, sizes vary between countries and brands (and also different cuts, colours, patterns etc. suit different people).

    LOL - now you're going to give them complexes about their WHRs.

    They aren't always on stage - they work the room too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Every store has different sizing charts. At Abercrombie, you can be an anorexic 14-year old and still be a size 2, for example.

    Anyway, I buy most of my clothes from Goodwill (you have to look hard to find the nice stuff )
    Vanity Sizing, bane of the modern world.

    Measurements of 34,24,35 is generally considered a size 4 with a max height of 5'7"

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    Getting back to the eyes......I was trained in life to look a person in the eyes. It is still awkward for me to have a (or some) partially naked or fully naked women 'with' me and I'm doing my best to maintain eye contact. lol (silly me)

    On another note, they say the eyes are a gateway to ones soul. I think you can 'read' the eyes and 'know about the person'. With that said, a beautiful pair of eyes (for me) is worth more than other physical features.
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    Quote Originally Posted by commanderadama View Post
    Vanity Sizing, bane of the modern world.

    Measurements of 34,24,35 is generally considered a size 4 with a max height of 5'7"
    Where did you get that from? I wear girls size 12 and Im 34 23 34.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    I couldn't do that. I like the way a girl's eyes go with her tits. That's a facetious way of saying I like the whole package.

    You have expensive eyes.
    Depends on what you're into. He's not the norm, obviously. I'm just saying complimenting me on something other than what I very much have displayed will always get my attention.
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    (you have to look hard to find the nice stuff)
    Not in the "clubs", that is why I love them so.

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    Still not helpful Earl. Pulling means getting a number or taking home. I don't know the difference in meaning of "date" and "'date'".
    A "date" is an exchange of money for sex; a women on the street asked if me if I want a "date". As opposed to a date to the prom.

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    Quote Originally Posted by glambman View Post
    Getting back to the eyes......I was trained in life to look a person in the eyes.
    PL stripper relationships are not real life. The sooner PLs get it the better it will be for all of us. Strippers get and they get it quick and will never let a PL forget it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    Depends on what you're into. He's not the norm, obviously. I'm just saying complimenting me on something other than what I very much have displayed will always get my attention.
    Yes, that would be a reason why I'd compliment eyes or hair. But if a dancer has her boobs inches from my face I think she'd worry if I didn't say something nice about them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by glambman View Post
    Getting back to the eyes......I was trained in life to look a person in the eyes. It is still awkward for me to have a (or some) partially naked or fully naked women 'with' me and I'm doing my best to maintain eye contact. lol (silly me).
    Like Earl says - you weren't trained on how to behave around women who are eagerly displaying their bodies. In a SC you can look elsewhere some of the time - it's the reason they are dressed that way. But it's a contradictory situation. Behind the "rantasy" they are real girls, so they will naturally like you to treat them the same way they would like you to treat them OTC. However, they are also marketting the male fantasy, so n order for them to make money you have to check them out all over. They want both, but it has to be compromise.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    Like Earl says - you weren't trained on how to behave around women who are eagerly displaying their bodies.
    lol who gets trained? It was a little tongue in cheek. Decorum does not go out the window when you are in an alternative setting. And you're right, I was not trained how to behave around women who are eagerly displaying their bodies, (that's why I have the self control to resist them <if I want>, unlike others).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    Behind the "rantasy" they are real girls, so they will naturally like you to treat them the same way they would like you to treat them OTC.
    Point of order; OTC means a paid "date"/lap dance/champagne-VIP room experience out of the club with a "happy ending". If a PL is dating a stripper that is not what I call OTC; I call that a death by a thousand cuts.

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    ^Per other threads, I think some of the dancers are going to take issue with OTC automatically meaning a "happy ending". Haven't had an OTC experience myself, so I am purely speaking (well, typing) from what I've read elsewhere on the board.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    Behind the "rantasy" they are real girls, so they will naturally like you to treat them the same way they would like you to treat them OTC.
    And all this time I thought they wanted to be talked lowly too, looked down upon, hit, and all that other demeaning stuff. Maybe that is why I have lots of luck 'dating' strippers, treat them like they deserve to be treated.


    OTC does not mean IRL (in real life), which is the term I think you are going for.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    Point of order; OTC means a paid "date"/lap dance/champagne-VIP room experience out of the club with a "happy ending". If a PL is dating a stripper that is not what I call OTC; I call that a death by a thousand cuts.
    Wow, so anyone that is dating a stripper is torturing himself to death? Are you yet another woman hater? Why is it torture to date a dancer?

    There are a lot of girls both married and in relationships on this board. Somehow I think their SO's might seriously disagree with you.

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    ^I think the scenario is more a customer dating a dancer, not relationships with dancers in general. I could be wrong though... and your point may still be valid in either case.

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    ^I sound like I'm a gay English teacher from the way I type.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    Yes, that would be a reason why I'd compliment eyes or hair. But if a dancer has her boobs inches from my face I think she'd worry if I didn't say something nice about them.
    I would only worry if you weren't paying attention to them honestly, but that's just me. Spoken compliments aren't necessary imo. I can tell if you're into just by how you look at me, and the best way to show your appreciation is by tipping me.

    Again, this is just my personal opinion.
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    ^I think the scenario is more a customer dating a dancer, not relationships with dancers in general. I could be wrong though... and your point may still be valid in either case.

    If they're dating aren't they past customer and dancer? Unless we're talking sugar daddy's.
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    ^I think that's what causes the death by a thousand cuts. The customer coming to terms with his previous obsession now dating him, but being the obsession of others still. And all the other stuff. Just my point of view though. Not meaning to talk for Earl or what he was trying to convey.

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