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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    Point of order; OTC means a paid "date"/lap dance/champagne-VIP room experience out of the club with a "happy ending". If a PL is dating a stripper that is not what I call OTC; I call that a death by a thousand cuts.
    I meant the way they and all other women would like to be treated by all men, not just patrons, OTC. Perhaps I should have said IRL

    Death - how so? If he gets to date a stripper, then is he a PL? He won!
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    Quote Originally Posted by glambman View Post
    And all this time I thought they wanted to be talked lowly too, looked down upon, hit, and all that other demeaning stuff. Maybe that is why I have lots of luck 'dating' strippers, treat them like they deserve to be treated.


    OTC does not mean IRL (in real life), which is the term I think you are going for.
    Yes, thank you, IRL. I'm new. You missed my point: I was talking about the contradiction between what girls like IRL and what strippers want ITC. Their IRL wishes conflict with their ITC wishes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    I would only worry if you weren't paying attention to them honestly, but that's just me. Spoken compliments aren't necessary imo. I can tell if you're into just by how you look at me, and the best way to show your appreciation is by tipping me.

    Again, this is just my personal opinion.
    Good point. If you can tell I'm not looking out of poiteness, the compliment is implied. But do you like it if the patron does compliment them - during an LD when they are about in the centre of his vision anyway?
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    Quote Originally Posted by vmurphy252 View Post
    ^I think that's what causes the death by a thousand cuts. The customer coming to terms with his previous obsession now dating him, but being the obsession of others still. And all the other stuff. Just my point of view though. Not meaning to talk for Earl or what he was trying to convey.
    Like he goes out of his way to do that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    Good point. If you can tell I'm not looking out of poiteness, the compliment is implied. But do you like it if the patron does compliment them - during an LD when they are about in the centre of his vision anyway?
    I certainly do not mind compliments lol (what girl does). I work very hard on my body, and I also spent quite a bit of money on my breasts so it's always nice when it's appreciated/admired.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    Good point. If you can tell I'm not looking out of poiteness, the compliment is implied. But do you like it if the patron does compliment them - during an LD when they are about in the centre of his vision anyway?
    Obviously not answering the question directed at JAY, but, when I am getting a dance, my eyes are constantly going back to her eyes/face. I definitely look at her body, but if I am getting nothing from her eyes/expression, there is not likely to be any additional dances. I've even been with someone for several dances, and I'll catch her doing the looking in the mirror thing, and I lose my, um, focus.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    Yes, thank you, IRL. I'm new. You missed my point: I was talking about the contradiction between what girls like IRL and what strippers want ITC. Their IRL wishes conflict with their ITC wishes.
    I don't know about that, IRL women are always trying to hook guys so they can take their money and his house/ cars. ITC women are only trying to take the custie's money away from him, saying (and sometimes doing) anything. See, it doesn't seem that different, IRL and ITC they just want the greens. lol

    I think they (IRL and ITC) have to be put into perspective: are your work wishes the same as your personal wishes? See, two different but not contradictory set of rules.
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    Quote Originally Posted by glambman View Post
    I don't know about that, IRL women are always trying to hook guys so they can take their money and his house/ cars.
    You're hanging out with the wrong women...
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    You're hanging out with the wrong women...
    But I used a lol at the end of the paragraph.


    And even then, tis true <not all of the enemy though>. And no, I don't voluntarily hang out with them, they don't take no well <like RoboStrippers>. lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by vmurphy252 View Post
    ^I think that's what causes the death by a thousand cuts. The customer coming to terms with his previous obsession now dating him, but being the obsession of others still. And all the other stuff. Just my point of view though. Not meaning to talk for Earl or what he was trying to convey.
    Well said but it goes beyond his date being the "obsession of others"; although being the "obsession of others" is a big part of why a stripper is so desirable as a date.

    Now that I think of it any man/woman relationships is a death by a thousand cuts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    Well said but it goes beyond his date being the "obsession of others"; although being the "obsession of others" is a big part of why a stripper is so desirable as a date.

    Now that I think of it any man/woman relationships is a death by a thousand cuts.
    Yeap... that's the answer I expected lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by vmurphy252 View Post
    Obviously not answering the question directed at JAY, but, when I am getting a dance, my eyes are constantly going back to her eyes/face. I definitely look at her body, but if I am getting nothing from her eyes/expression, there is not likely to be any additional dances. I've even been with someone for several dances, and I'll catch her doing the looking in the mirror thing, and I lose my, um, focus.
    Clarify that last sentence? You mean you look at her tits when she's not looking at you? That is being focused. Hey I just look at the whole girl, which you aren't allowed to do really IRL - gotta look mostly at faces. ITC I don't do the opposite, i.e. look everywhere else but her eyes, I'm just allowed to look at all of her while I'm talking to her. I like the whole girl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by glambman View Post
    lol who gets trained? It was a little tongue in cheek. Decorum does not go out the window when you are in an alternative setting. And you're right, I was not trained how to behave around women who are eagerly displaying their bodies, (that's why I have the self control to resist them <if I want>, unlike others).
    Not saying there's no decorum- just different decorum to the IRL situations you are brought up to deal with. Er, if you are not trained to be around naked women I don't think it will make them easier to resist. Wasn't implying that you need special training for that anyway. It's just that the rules are more relaxed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by glambman View Post
    I don't know about that, IRL women are always trying to hook guys so they can take their money and his house/ cars. ...

    I think they (IRL and ITC) have to be put into perspective: are your work wishes the same as your personal wishes? See, two different but not contradictory set of rules.
    Wasn't talking about money. I was talking about the difference between talking to a girl at a bus stop and talking to a girl who was just shaking her ass in your face on stage in a g-string and is now talking to you wearing a negligee over that g-string and heels and wants to dance on your lap naked.

    Who's work wishes are the same as their personal wishes? A lucky few. Some of them strippers, but not all strippers. I was talking about how girls like to be looked at and spoken to etc. ITC their business interaction conflicts withtheir naturally preferred interaction. Because their business is to cater to male fantasies, which we all know women don't normally like to act out except on special occasions.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    Clarify that last sentence? You mean you look at her tits when she's not looking at you? That is being focused. Hey I just look at the whole girl, which you aren't allowed to do really IRL - gotta look mostly at faces. ITC I don't do the opposite, i.e. look everywhere else but her eyes, I'm just allowed to look at all of her while I'm talking to her. I like the whole girl.
    Focus = erection. Guess I need to work on euphemistic language.

    I like the whole girl too, but it revolves around the eyes for me, and what they are expressing (not arguing about the REALITY of what they're expressing; acting is part of their job).

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    Quote Originally Posted by vmurphy252 View Post
    Focus = erection. Guess I need to work on euphemistic language.

    I like the whole girl too, but it revolves around the eyes for me, and what they are expressing (not arguing about the REALITY of what they're expressing; acting is part of their job).
    Nope, reread that post and I still don't get it. You're gonna have to draw it for me.
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    ^Not drawing my erection on this forum. Not gonna happen.

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    ^Besides, I'd have to scale it down for those of you with 17" monitors.

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    ^I meant a diagram. Of the previous post. Your erection doesn't have to be to scale.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    Where did you get that from? I wear girls size 12 and Im 34 23 34.
    Hmmm, I distinctly remember you stating you were a 0 in another thread. Do you just like disagreeing with me?



    I rounded bust up and hips down. So basically when I say 4 or less, I mean a woman between 5' and 5'5" who's bust is 34 or less, waist is 25 or less and hips are 35 or less. With me less is more.

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    ^^^ A girl's size 12 is roughly the equivalent of a woman's 0.

    When I first got into the sex industry, a mentor once told me "most guys have no idea what measurements really mean. They just think it's impressive when you start rattling off numbers". This has proven to be more true than I realized at the time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by commanderadama View Post
    Hmmm, I distinctly remember you stating you were a 0 in another thread. Do you just like disagreeing with me?

    http://www.usatourist.com/english/ti...ens-sizes.html

    I rounded bust up and hips down. So basically when I say 4 or less, I mean a woman between 5' and 5'5" who's bust is 34 or less, waist is 25 or less and hips are 35 or less. With me less is more.

    Celebrity examples of "my types" are Ellen Page, Emmanuelle Chriqui, Audrey Tautou & ATF Audrey Hepburn.

    No. It's simply that you don't know what you're talking about. When I have to wear women's sizes I wear a 0 or 00. When I can find girls clothes that fit they're a sz. 12. Many women wear more than one sz since clothing is cut differently. To base a woman's attractiveness on her pants size is absurd.
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    Honestly, there aren't many compliments that will flatter me at work...I hear so many of them over and over...they go in one ear and out the other. Eyes, hair, back, smile, tits, stomach, ass, legs, feet, intelligence, personality, humor, dance moves...blah, blah, whatever...I'm still not going out with you, asshole.

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    ^ Harsh, but that's what it boils down to for me, too. I've seen it all. Only man I'm going home with is Benjamin.

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