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    I don't notice one thing about the dancer; my eyes just scan the whole package, but my eyes tend to gravitate towards her ass and thighs.

    The most oddball compliment I ever gave: I went up to this dancer on stage to tip her and told her that she had a very sexy forehead. She said, "What?" Then I said, "Your high forehead is a sign of intelligence; that's very sexy." She laughed and said, "I've never heard that one before."

    Hey, that was a sincere compliment, and yes, I was totally wasted at the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andy08 View Post
    I'm still not going out with you, asshole.
    All PLs should remember it is a business.
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    ^ Harsh, but that's what it boils down to for me, too. I've seen it all. Only man I'm going home with is Benjamin.
    It is a business so dancer's should understand when a PL wants value for his Benjamins a value that is honestly agreed upon.

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    ^ Yes. No lying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^ Harsh, but that's what it boils down to for me, too. I've seen it all. Only man I'm going home with is Benjamin.
    Well, Franklin was a lecherous bastard. He was one of our most interesting Founding Fathers in my opinion. He spent most of the War of Independence banging hot French women. And the irony is that, based upon his pictorial representations from those days, he wasn't anything to write home about looks-wise.

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    And the irony is that, based upon his pictorial representations from those days, he wasn't anything to write home about looks-wise.
    He has the look dancers want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^ Harsh, but that's what it boils down to for me, too. I've seen it all. Only man I'm going home with is Benjamin.
    I've never given a compliment in order to get something out of it or as a run up to asking a dancer out. Most customers give them and don't expect anything out of it.

    The most common denominations for dancers to have is the $1, $20, $5 and $10. So, you could say that dancers go home with:

    Washington
    Jackson
    Lincoln
    Hamilton

    I don't think many dancers actually go home with Benjamin.

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    Was that what's behind the compliment in terms of the OP? I didn't think that's what he was getting at.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SteveSmith View Post
    I've never given a compliment in order to get something out of it or as a run up to asking a dancer out. Most customers give them and don't expect anything out of it.

    The most common denominations for dancers to have is the $1, $20, $5 and $10. So, you could say that dancers go home with:

    Washington
    Jackson
    Lincoln
    Hamilton

    I don't think many dancers actually go home with Benjamin.
    Okay, if you want to get super technical here, then yes: there are more of the others in the bunch than Benjamins. Didn't realize anyone would actually analyze such a statement that was obviously intended to be humorous.

    And clearly, in my answer, I was referring back to the OP, who was wondering if dancers were more inclined to give their numbers to customers who give them compliments such as "I like your eyes." My answer was No. Clearly.

    (I can't believe I'm actually taking the time to clarify this, but there you go.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Okay, if you want to get super technical here, then yes: there are more of the others in the bunch than Benjamins. Didn't realize anyone would actually analyze such a statement that was obviously intended to be humorous.

    And clearly, in my answer, I was referring back to the OP, who was wondering if dancers were more inclined to give their numbers to customers who give them compliments such as "I like your eyes." My answer was No. Clearly.

    (I can't believe I'm actually taking the time to clarify this, but there you go.)

    My comment was meant to be humorous, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SteveSmith View Post
    The most common denominations for dancers to have is the $1,.. So, you could say that dancers go home with:

    Washington
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    Quote Originally Posted by SteveSmith View Post
    My comment was meant to be humorous, too.
    Mmm-hmm. Suuure. Steve be back trackin' now....


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    I'm sure some compliments are sincere...but given the place and context, I don't take them personally. Strip clubs are about lust, sex, and fantasies...so its not really about "me". I stay as detached as possible... My work is one part of my life and my "life" is another, and 'never the twain shall meet'. Besides, most strip club guys are drunk, high, trying to get laid, or just plain misogynists...so I don't have much respect for them, anyways.

    I may come off as pretty harsh at times, but I spend enough time at work smiling and lying and just "letting things go"...this is one of the few places I can be totally honest as a dancer. Sorry to any of the gals I ever offend...the guys...eh, you deserve it. lol.

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    ^ Definitely not offended! I feel the same way, after all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andy08 View Post

    I may come off as pretty harsh at times, but I spend enough time at work smiling and lying and just "letting things go"...this is one of the few places I can be totally honest as a dancer. Sorry to any of the gals I ever offend...the guys...eh, you deserve it. lol.
    Fer'get'a'bot'it. Those of us who know forget soon after we get in the door and most will never know. That is why this thread started in the first place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andy08 View Post
    I'm sure some compliments are sincere...but given the place and context, I don't take them personally. Strip clubs are about lust, sex, and fantasies...so its not really about "me". I stay as detached as possible... My work is one part of my life and my "life" is another, and 'never the twain shall meet'. Besides, most strip club guys are drunk, high, trying to get laid, or just plain misogynists...so I don't have much respect for them, anyways.

    I may come off as pretty harsh at times, but I spend enough time at work smiling and lying and just "letting things go"...this is one of the few places I can be totally honest as a dancer. Sorry to any of the gals I ever offend...the guys...eh, you deserve it. lol.

    You and Earl_the_Pearl would make a lovely couple.

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    You and Earl_the_Pearl would make a lovely couple.
    I have never meet anyone on this board but I do get along with women just like them. We have what the other needs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andy08 View Post
    I'm sure some compliments are sincere...but given the place and context, I don't take them personally. Strip clubs are about lust, sex, and fantasies...so its not really about "me". I stay as detached as possible... My work is one part of my life and my "life" is another, and 'never the twain shall meet'. Besides, most strip club guys are drunk, high, trying to get laid, or just plain misogynists...so I don't have much respect for them, anyways.

    I may come off as pretty harsh at times, but I spend enough time at work smiling and lying and just "letting things go"...this is one of the few places I can be totally honest as a dancer. Sorry to any of the gals I ever offend...the guys...eh, you deserve it. lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    No. It's simply that you don't know what you're talking about. When I have to wear women's sizes I wear a 0 or 00. When I can find girls clothes that fit they're a sz. 12. Many women wear more than one sz since clothing is cut differently. To base a woman's attractiveness on her pants size is absurd.
    It's no more absurd than men who like big tits. How do I not know what I'm talking about? How else should I express my disinterest in "bigger" women? Or how should someone I've never met descibe themselves to me? Women know what dress sizes are in and that big girls aren't desirable. Now my tastes are a bit extreme, but can we agree that it's my right to have them?

    Besides, Zero is my hero, so I'd probably buy dances from you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by commanderadama View Post
    It's no more absurd than men who like big tits. How do I not know what I'm talking about? How else should I express my disinterest in "bigger" women? Or how should someone I've never met descibe themselves to me? Women know what dress sizes are in and that big girls aren't desirable. Now my tastes are a bit extreme, but can we agree that it's my right to have them?

    Besides, Zero is my hero, so I'd probably buy dances from you.
    Don't do me any favors.

    It's men that don't have a clue as to what size women are was my point dear.
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    ^Seems he'd be doing himself a favour. Wasn't "zero" the size that was newly introduced only a few years ago, for especially small and thin women? I recall a newspaper column at the time denouncing it as an affront to larger women, like it's the small woman's fault what size she is or she starved herself to that size.
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    Quote Originally Posted by commanderadama View Post
    First thing I notice about a women is size. This is because if she's over a size four she's invisible to me and thus I don't notice anything else. Dismissed. LOL
    I definitely see what you're saying about some men preferring women with big boobs, etc. etc. and comparing it to your situation.

    In the future, perhaps a more PC way of stating your preferences would be to say that you prefer "petite" women, instead of saying that you will dismiss the 'invisible' women who don't fit into a very specific size range. I think your preferences would be better received if you put it like that. Then again, perhaps you simply don't care how you come across to people. Shrugs.

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    ^CA said above that he can still be friends with other kinds of women. He meant they are invisible only in terms of romance and sex. Maybe "petite" sounds better, but it still means the same thing, so I'd say there is something wrong with PC people if they are sensitive about that. Perhaps you could say it sounds more polite and less definite. However, CA was telling us what sizes he personally likes. What size women a particular man likes shouldn't put anyone out.

    I don't care about how I come across to PC people. The fact that I even have to change how I speak means that they are the intolerant ones. Politically Correct isn't the political ideology I subscribe to, so why should I talk like I do?
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    I've heard from more than a few dancers that when I compliment them on their looks, they give it more credence because I'm a woman. At first this seemed strange to me, and I didn't believe it, figuring that they were just saying it to be nice or to get me to buy dances.


    ?? for the ladies here:

    Is it true?
    Do you put more credibility to a (sincere) compliment given to you by another woman than a man? Especially if you know the woman is gay? Would that matter?


    OK....I've maxed out my allotment of questions for the day!

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    OK....I've maxed out my allotment of questions for the day!
    Ha! You have no allotment Your insight as a knowledgeable female customer is always appreciated as far as I am concerned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    ^CA said above that he can still be friends with other kinds of women. He meant they are invisible only in terms of romance and sex. Maybe "petite" sounds better, but it still means the same thing, so I'd say there is something wrong with PC people if they are sensitive about that. Perhaps you could say it sounds more polite and less definite. However, CA was telling us what sizes he personally likes. What size women a particular man likes shouldn't put anyone out.
    Personally I think the exactness was what was throwing people off. Most men don't know what a size 4 looks like at all.

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