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    I was on stage and I was dancing for a guy and he had like 3-5 dollars out I wasnt looking to hard but I know it was at least 3.. then another guys a semi regular ( not really a regular, just some nasty young guy that always trys to get a date or anything with anyone) came up to tip me.. there was like 3 people in the club.. and I was still dancing for this guy and he looked over at the other guy and said UGHH and walked off with out tipping me!!! the guy wasnt close to him or anything.. was just waiting and so I looked like that was rude for a sec. then I went and danced for the creepy guy.... but I didnt go over to the table where they guy walked off.. I wanted to go over there and tell him off or ask him why did you do that! you werent getting a private dance, and no one invated your space, I didnt even look at the other guy! what would you have done?


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    Unless he's a regular champagne customer of yours he's got no friggin right to get jealous. He sounds like a stalker anyway you probably did yourself a favor.
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    You cant please everyone. His loss.

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    Ignore it. It sounds like being an ass is in his nature. I wouldn't worry about it.
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    ignore it. dont bother telling him off, its giving him attention and time that he wants that he doesnt deserve, even if its negative attention. focus your energy on the customers that are less crazy/stalkerish and who spend money on you without getting jealous.

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    thanks everyone =)


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    Haha I wouldn't dance for him in the future, just out of spite!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meea View Post
    Haha I wouldn't dance for him in the future, just out of spite!
    Huh? Money is money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by echomadison View Post
    Huh? Money is money.
    you're right

    I guess I'm one of those hold-a-grudge-forever types....

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    I would probaby give him one chance to redeme himself but if he was an ass I would just walk away..


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    Quote Originally Posted by Meea View Post
    you're right

    I guess I'm one of those hold-a-grudge-forever types....
    But IMO he didnt really do anything "wrong", he was just being impatient.

    So it wouldnt make any damn sense to not get dances from him out of spite. You would just be spiting yourself, really.

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    I think he did do somethig wrong he went up there and didnt tip me after I danced just because some other guy was waiting for me.. from a distance.. it was Rude and a slap in the face..


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    Quote Originally Posted by babybambi08 View Post
    I think he did do somethig wrong he went up there and didnt tip me after I danced just because some other guy was waiting for me.. from a distance.. it was Rude and a slap in the face..
    So if next week he came in and wanted a 5 dances, you wouldnt do it because according to you he was "wrong" in not tipping you? How many people a night watch you and dont tip you? Im sure quite a few, there are always those douchebags who watch for free.

    Im not saying what he did was right but it was not, by far, the worst thing someone could do. And if you turned down dances later just because he hurt your feelings then that is just not smart.

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    Oh, echomadison, you're the voice of reason in this crazy world, ruled by emotions


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    I didnt sayI wouldnt give him another chance.. I said I would.. Id probably say that he hurt my feelings and make him pay me more


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    Quote Originally Posted by babybambi08 View Post
    I think he did do somethig wrong he went up there and didnt tip me after I danced just because some other guy was waiting for me.. from a distance.. it was Rude and a slap in the face..
    Did you approach the guy while he had his $3 up on the stage for you, dance in front of him, then after you were done, he took the $3 back?! If so, yeah, thats messed up.
    In the future, I would advise you to take the tip they have up first, then do your little dance for them before you move to the next person.
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    ya he had the money out first.. usually after I dances they pull out more money (80% of the time).. so I dont get the money first..


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    Jealous guys are the most annoying!!!!!! Sometimes I try to turn that annoyance into a payoff ("I'd rather sit with you than talk to these other guys, but they pay me really well for my company, and I *am* here to work!") but most of the time I just get really annoyed by those guys. I once had a guy who got jealous when a customer put his tip in my g-string and rose out of his seat like he was gonna fight the guy! Path-et-ick.

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