




Ok, what are we discussing here? That over 50% of marriages end in divorce, or that there is a higher rate for SC patrons & dancers? Or that marriages in general are bound to fail? The threadjack was all over the place.
I'm confused.




me confused too![]()
I think Earl wants more convincing that he has made the correct life choice to remain a permanent bachelor.
Earl, it's fine! Really! Marriage isn't for everyone. No one is judging you for deciding to stay single. (with the possible exception of your mother)
Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!




















I'm divorced with three grown children. I paid my last support check in July. I'm just saying it is not necessary for a man to be married; I am not afraid of being alone as long as I can get a few hundred dollars together for a "date". Of course I could date women my age for free as there are an abundance of them.





^^^ Okay, on a more serious note...
IMHO it is a logical fallacy to assume that visiting SC's is what causes a marriage to end.
My belief is that if a marriage is ended when a guy is visiting SC's, than there is more to it - dishonesty, insensitvity, selfishness, financial irresponsibility, adultary, etc. Plenty of guys are able to enjoy the entertainment of a SC without jeapordizing their marriage.
If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.





What if he decided to eat lunch at Hooters twice a week, or visited the local watering hole with the hottie bar tender on a regular basis?
Is it those places that caused an issue with his marriage, or is it more about his behaviors and character flaws that are leading to the demise of his marriage? If he's lying about where he is, spending money irresponsibily and/or ignoring the wishes of his spouse, than those are issues beyond simply visiting a particular establishment.
If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.





Hooters perhaps buy if the wife knew he was going to the local watering hole and had eyes for the beer-lady for sure.
SC are not in the same class as Hooters or the local pub. You and I may not see anything wrong with them but much of the moral brigade does and 99 and 44/100% of wives do.





Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be





Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.
"If you're good at something, never do it for free." The Dark Knight
"you conjunctively engender an intoxicating combination of wicked, wholesome & insanely intelligent" - a friend describing me
Blessed Be
I would have absolutely no problem if my husband decided to use his "spending money" at SCs on a regular basis. I enjoy going myself, and I trust him enough to know he would never cross the line. I know plenty of other women who feel the same way I do. I don't see a SC habit causing marriage my marriage to fail. Nor do I see a SC habit causing any marriage to fail unless it was related to underlying issues (mistrust, cheating, lying, etc).
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Earl, I still think that you're assigning the blame in the wrong place.
IMHO, it has not been my experience that the married women I've known have an issue with SC's per se.
When they have an issue, it is with their husband's behavior; what he's is doing and how he's doing it.
If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.









stanly is probably still reading the original thread.
It was quite entertaining.
My opinion about marriage is that it is bad business for both men AND women.
I love my partner of 17 years, but honestly if I had it to do all over again, I'd prefer being single again. I'll admit it - I'm lazy, selfish and I like to chase after young dancers. Is that so wrong???
Don't answer that.![]()





I enjoy having a good time, I like the laid back atmosphere (at least at the ones I go to), and I can appreciate another woman's body. No, I am not bisexual, but women's bodies are beautiful.
The second question you pose, I have no idea. It would certainly be rare to find a husband who wouldn't mind going to a male strip club with his wife. My husband wouldn't mind me going, although I have to say I find male strippers repulsive for the most part.
Having said that, I really don't think the two situations really compare.
An issue for some, maybe. But as long as he's not getting extras its not much different from getting aroused by watchin porn, going to the pool, or even brushing past a hot girl in the grocery store. Getting aroused by someone other than your wife should not be a crime, its human nature. Its how you chose to act on your arousal that could make or break your marriage.





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