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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    In the US of A 1/2 of all marriages will end in divorce. I wonder what the rate is when the man visit SCs?
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    This is actually a completely false statement. This is something divorce lawyers and school guidance counselors say to make you feel better. The percentage of marriages ending in divorce is a varying number depending on age, gender, and number of previous unions. For instance the older you are when you get married, the higher success rate you will have.

    That 50% is for all marraigs it is higher for some groups as those that get married in their 20s as warned about.

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    Ok, what are we discussing here? That over 50% of marriages end in divorce, or that there is a higher rate for SC patrons & dancers? Or that marriages in general are bound to fail? The threadjack was all over the place.

    I'm confused.

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    me confused too

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    Default Re: How can I visit clubs thread jack.

    I think Earl wants more convincing that he has made the correct life choice to remain a permanent bachelor.

    Earl, it's fine! Really! Marriage isn't for everyone. No one is judging you for deciding to stay single. (with the possible exception of your mother)


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    Quote Originally Posted by A_Guy View Post
    Ok, what are we discussing here? That over 50% of marriages end in divorce, or that there is a higher rate for SC patrons & dancers? Or that marriages in general are bound to fail? The threadjack was all over the place.

    I'm confused.
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    me confused too
    We were told to start another thread if our posts were not helping stanly
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    Next time I'm there I'll think about how many of you seem to feel burned out and used. Someone convince me why I shouldn't feel this way.
    Will we ever see stanly again?

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    Quote Originally Posted by *~Angel~* View Post

    Exactly if he doesnt want to be in a relationship he will have to stay single. I mean what girl his age wouldnt stick around if he wanted nothing more then sex, i mean they are not getting any younger lol.
    A women my age is lucky if she gets sex period. Their biological clock has stopped ticking and their womb is dead. I still make sperm fresh daily, my sperm is much younger then any female's eggs; that is the way god wants it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    Again for the 100th (and last time) just bc you have a shitty view of relationships and women doesn't mean everyone should or does. Stop telling other ppl not to get married, or not to get involved in LTR's based on YOUR experiences.
    When did I ever tell other ppl not to get married? I did it myself once. You have me confused with commanderadama.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris View Post
    I think Earl wants more convincing that he has made the correct life choice to remain a permanent bachelor.

    Earl, it's fine! Really! Marriage isn't for everyone. No one is judging you for deciding to stay single. (with the possible exception of your mother)
    I'm divorced with three grown children. I paid my last support check in July. I'm just saying it is not necessary for a man to be married; I am not afraid of being alone as long as I can get a few hundred dollars together for a "date". Of course I could date women my age for free as there are an abundance of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    In the US of A 1/2 of all marriages will end in divorce. I wonder what the rate is when the man visit SCs?.

    My guess would be around 50%.
    If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.


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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    My guess would be around 50%.
    OK what % after the wife finds out hubby spent $$$ to lust after young hot women.

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    ^^^ Okay, on a more serious note...

    IMHO it is a logical fallacy to assume that visiting SC's is what causes a marriage to end.

    My belief is that if a marriage is ended when a guy is visiting SC's, than there is more to it - dishonesty, insensitvity, selfishness, financial irresponsibility, adultary, etc. Plenty of guys are able to enjoy the entertainment of a SC without jeapordizing their marriage.
    If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.


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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    . Plenty of guys are able to enjoy the entertainment of a SC without jeapordizing their marriage.
    With the wife knowing? It may be OK to go once a year bachelor party type thing but not with any regularity. Women hate their husband spending money on other women. Especially young nek'ed women.

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    What if he decided to eat lunch at Hooters twice a week, or visited the local watering hole with the hottie bar tender on a regular basis?

    Is it those places that caused an issue with his marriage, or is it more about his behaviors and character flaws that are leading to the demise of his marriage? If he's lying about where he is, spending money irresponsibily and/or ignoring the wishes of his spouse, than those are issues beyond simply visiting a particular establishment.
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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    What if he decided to eat lunch at Hooters twice a week, or visited the local watering hole with the hottie bar tender on a regular basis?
    Hooters perhaps buy if the wife knew he was going to the local watering hole and had eyes for the beer-lady for sure.

    SC are not in the same class as Hooters or the local pub. You and I may not see anything wrong with them but much of the moral brigade does and 99 and 44/100% of wives do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    When did I ever tell other ppl not to get married? I did it myself once. You have me confused with commanderadama.
    Saying 1/2 of all marriages end in divorce was a positive thing than? Definitely a good point to bring up to someone considering marriage!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    With the wife knowing? It may be OK to go once a year bachelor party type thing but not with any regularity. Women hate their husband spending money on other women. Especially young nek'ed women.
    Bull shit. There are lots of women who don't give a damn.
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    I would have absolutely no problem if my husband decided to use his "spending money" at SCs on a regular basis. I enjoy going myself, and I trust him enough to know he would never cross the line. I know plenty of other women who feel the same way I do. I don't see a SC habit causing marriage my marriage to fail. Nor do I see a SC habit causing any marriage to fail unless it was related to underlying issues (mistrust, cheating, lying, etc).
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    Saying 1/2 of all marriages end in divorce was a positive thing than? Definitely a good point to bring up to someone considering marriage!
    I stated a fact not an opinion. BTW what happened to ? Perhaps his fiancee cough him posting to Stripper Web.

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    Earl, I still think that you're assigning the blame in the wrong place.

    IMHO, it has not been my experience that the married women I've known have an issue with SC's per se.

    When they have an issue, it is with their husband's behavior; what he's is doing and how he's doing it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Axiom View Post
    I would have absolutely no problem if my husband decided to use his "spending money" at SCs on a regular basis. I enjoy going myself.....
    Why do you enjoy female strip clubs? That right there makes you unlike most women.

    How many men would not mind their wife going to male strip clubs mush less enjoy going to them?

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    stanly is probably still reading the original thread.
    It was quite entertaining.

    My opinion about marriage is that it is bad business for both men AND women.
    I love my partner of 17 years, but honestly if I had it to do all over again, I'd prefer being single again. I'll admit it - I'm lazy, selfish and I like to chase after young dancers. Is that so wrong???

    Don't answer that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post

    When they have an issue, it is with their husband's behavior; what he's is doing and how he's doing it.
    Can we talk man to man? You and I know what men are doing in SCs; they are getting sexually aroused; that is enough of an issue in its self.

    I know men that are in relationships with dancers and they don't like it when there men go to SC without them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    Why do you enjoy female strip clubs? That right there makes you unlike most women.

    How many men would not mind their wife going to male strip clubs mush less enjoy going to them?

    I enjoy having a good time, I like the laid back atmosphere (at least at the ones I go to), and I can appreciate another woman's body. No, I am not bisexual, but women's bodies are beautiful.

    The second question you pose, I have no idea. It would certainly be rare to find a husband who wouldn't mind going to a male strip club with his wife. My husband wouldn't mind me going, although I have to say I find male strippers repulsive for the most part.

    Having said that, I really don't think the two situations really compare.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    they are getting sexually aroused; that is enough of an issue in its self.

    An issue for some, maybe. But as long as he's not getting extras its not much different from getting aroused by watchin porn, going to the pool, or even brushing past a hot girl in the grocery store. Getting aroused by someone other than your wife should not be a crime, its human nature. Its how you chose to act on your arousal that could make or break your marriage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post

    My opinion about marriage is that it is bad business for both men AND women.
    I love my partner of 17 years, but honestly if I had it to do all over again, I'd prefer being single again. I'll admit it - I'm lazy, selfish and I like to chase after young dancers. Is that so wrong???
    Marriage is excellent for the women she holds all of the cards.

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