
Originally Posted by
Gia2608
So I realize that I don't have a blog going but a lil background. I have just gotten back to dancing after a year and a half hiatus. There's this one girl at my club who appparently thinks she's a good hustler by being really what she thinks is cut throat. I don't mean she sits with my guy when I'm on stage, I mean she comes over and forces her way in between myself and I guy that I'm sitting with tonight by pretending she's saying good bye. Of course, I don't mind her saying bye to someone so I scoot back a little, but she proceeds to grind on him and show him her boobs. Then she asks if he wants a dance. He says no because he was just about to dance with me (just refilling the bevvy so I'm waiting but chatting). She won't stop grinding on him and won't take no for an answer until they finally go and he buys 1 dance from her. Forgot to mention that the whole time she was talking shit about ME- that he should dance with her because she's so much hotter than me (she's not. she is skinnier than me, but I have grade A ass, tits, face and I do have an outgoing personality, always carry on funny convo and listen because in my mind I understand what type of experience a man wants to have when they enter those doors) and this girl, while she is cute, is definitely not as traditionally pretty and had a TERRIBLE attitude, always complaining and talking shit about everyone!
My question is this: Am I sooooo far out of the loop that guys don't come to the club anymore looking for actaul entertainment and a good time?
Now, I let her actions slide this time, but really do you find it attractive when a girl puts down other dancers to make a buck or does it take away from the atmosphere?
Honestly, I wouldn't be writing this if she had said " Honey, I'll rock your world" but she said " You don't want a dance from her, I'm so much hotter" and obviously the guy liked me.
Interjection please. Sorry so long. Sorry for typos, I hate laptops.
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