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    So i'm new to the whole club thing, and I just don't understand some of the lingo about contact, what full contact vs high contact vs medium contact etc etc whats the deal? could someone give me a rough guide?

    also more than once and at more than one club the girls always grab my hands and initiate contact with them(by no means a complaint ) but i just dont know how far to take it, i avoid the thong area and they seem ok with that. but whats the deal there?

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    No one really does "full contact". High contact generally refers to the customers ability to touch the dancers in areas like directly on the breasts, butt, and legs. Low contact means that if the customer's hands might be able to touch the side of the dancers body. Most clubs are low contact or no contact unless you get into areas like Vegas, San Francisco or some parts of Florida.

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    i avoid the thong area and they seem ok with that. but whats the deal there?
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    Full contact usually refers to a martial art type of sparring where the idea is to render your opponent unconscious. I guess you can call what happens in Paterson and Irvington New Jersey clubs as full contact also.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nospacesinmyname View Post

    also more than once and at more than one club the girls always grab my hands and initiate contact with them(by no means a complaint )
    Are you a male dancer or do you dance at a gay club?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    Are you a male dancer or do you dance at a gay club?


    I do not I mean when I'm getting a LD

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    Quote Originally Posted by nospacesinmyname View Post
    i avoid the thong area and they seem ok with that. but whats the deal there?
    The thong area is home to a ravenous kitty.
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    Here are some threads you may find of interest ...

    "What do you consider low, medium, high contact?"
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=88850

    "Low contact? High contact?"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=67246

    "What is medium contact? What is high contact?"
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=37078

    "Question: How do you define contact levels?"
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=111074


    You mentioned that you let the dancers grab your hands and lead the way. That's a good way to go. Otherwise simply have a quick convo before the dance to get an understanding what the contact rules of the club and dancer are.
    If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.


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    Quote Originally Posted by nospacesinmyname View Post
    i just dont know how far to take it...
    You could always ask the girl where you can touch

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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post
    Here are some threads you may find of interest ...

    "What do you consider low, medium, high contact?"


    "Low contact? High contact?"


    "What is medium contact? What is high contact?"


    "Question: How do you define contact levels?"



    You mentioned that you let the dancers grab your hands and lead the way. That's a good way to go. Otherwise simply have a quick convo before the dance to get an understanding what the contact rules of the club and dancer are.
    thanks for the assist, seems nobody is exactly sure what any of the contact levels mean, as for the dancers grabbing my hands I wouldn't touch otherwise, It my be my dime but its still their body


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    nospace..: If you are taken by the hand, you can ask for a guided tour to eliminate confusion on your part. As a customer, I agree completely that it's the entertainer's body and the customer should always remember that fact. A description of contact varies by greatly by region. Have Fun!

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    Quote Originally Posted by nospacesinmyname View Post
    It my be my dime but its still their body

    Find out how much body you can get for your dime. Don't be shy you would be amazed what can be had for a dime.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rockie View Post
    I agree completely that it's the entertainer's body and the customer should always remember that fact.
    I agree completely that it's the customer's money and the entertainer should always remember that fact.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    I agree completely that it's the customer's money and the entertainer should always remember that fact.
    true enough, but I'm not going to the club to get the most for my money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    Find out how much body you can get for your dime. Don't be shy you would be amazed what can be had for a dime.
    Fine, but that still means a customer should have the courtesy to inquire rather than just assume.


    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    I agree completely that it's the customer's money and the entertainer should always remember that fact.
    What point are you trying to make? Ultimately you can't buy what's not for sale.
    If you can't win. Make the fellow in front of you break the record.


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    Quote Originally Posted by nospacesinmyname View Post
    true enough, but I'm not going to the club to get the most for my money.
    If you happen to get with the right dancer, she may gently lead the way and you could end up getting a lot more for your money than you realized.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    No one really does "full contact".
    Uh think again....

    My St. Louis clubs,

    50% of privates are 100% contact
    100% of privates are 98% contact
    5% of privates are 105% contact

    98% of stages are 98% contact
    5% of stages are 100% contact
    Have not yet seen the stage that is 105% contact..I imagine that would probably get the girl fired.

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    ^I thought I was good at math, but now I'm not so sure. I don't remember genital math from high school...

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    Quote Originally Posted by vmurphy252 View Post
    ^I thought I was good at math, but now I'm not so sure. I don't remember genital math from high school...
    Do you prefer word problem format?

    All St. Louis girls give everything but the kitty in private dances. Half give the exterior kitty too. And one out of ten kitty girls give the interior kitty, too. What percentages of girls give each?

    Only 1 of every 50 St. Louis girls refrain from near-full-service contact on stage. 1 of every 20 give kitty contact, too. But no St. Louis girls give interior kitty contact at stage. What are the percentages of each?

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigmarv View Post
    If you happen to get with the right dancer, she may gently lead the way and you could end up getting a lot more for your money than you realized.
    quite right

    but what I'm saying is I don't go to the club to spend money wisely, it both defeats the purpose and is counter-intuitive to spending money wisely in the first place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Do you prefer word problem format?

    All St. Louis girls give everything but the kitty in private dances. Half give the exterior kitty too. And one out of ten kitty girls give the interior kitty, too. What percentages of girls give each?

    Only 1 of every 50 St. Louis girls refrain from near-full-service contact on stage. 1 of every 20 give kitty contact, too. But no St. Louis girls give interior kitty contact at stage. What are the percentages of each?
    So girls are blowing guys or fucking them at the tip rail? That FS to me.

    Never understood why guys want to stick their fingers into some strange girl's bajingo when a) it likely isnt pleasurable to her and b)93478374 other dudes have had their crusty fingernails in there too.

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    ^Is that an exact count?

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    My observation is that, at least in Texas, the more you spend, the more contact you are permitted... So, if you are still a hands-off "gentleman" by the 3rd or 4th dance they will initiate high contact in order to keep you interested.

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    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung View Post



    What point are you trying to make? Ultimately you can't buy what's not for sale.
    I'm saying dancers should not offer and take money for what is not for sale.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    And one out of ten kitty girls give the interior kitty, too.
    At 105% that better be a penis. In several New Jersey clubs a private dance is not necessary for FS. Times are hard; be hard my friend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    So girls are blowing guys or fucking them at the tip rail? That FS to me.
    No no I didn't mean that...I was purely speaking within the realm of "contact", not "sex" -- take out the word "service", full contact would be 100% surface area, near-full-contact would be 98% surface area.

    As to what earl said, I wouldn't know, that is beyond the rubicon for me.

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