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    Smiley so I finally told my mom

    that I started dancing about 2 months ago.. she didnt say much.. just what I would expect.. she just said she doesnt want me to do it forever.


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    Default Re: so I finally told my mom

    Very cool.

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    Default Re: so I finally told my mom

    I know.. she is kinda pushy at times- what mom isnt .. but she is always like this..


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    That's awesome. Good for you!

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    Default Re: so I finally told my mom

    I didn't think I would tell my mom, but the guilt of keeping the secret was making me crazy. When I told her she was pretty much like, "ew" and "just don't drop out of grad school"

    I figured that was a pretty good response!

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    wow you all are so lucky. my mom found out due to a difficult situation with my sister and her SO...
    my mom called me crying...she was so upset. I told her I did it for a week, and then quit. It was an outright lie, but she was so happy to hear it that I haven't told her. So she doesnt know anymore. No reason for her to suspect anyways since I graduated with my teacher's license.
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    I told my mom last September that I had been dancing for almost 5 years. She told me that she'd known that I was in the industry but had no idea that I was dancing. She was totally cool and understanding about it. Ever since I told her, I found that it is a little easier for me to make money because I don't feel guilty while I'm at work anymore (which sounds very odd)

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    Default Re: so I finally told my mom

    It doesnt sound odd.. I feel its easier too.. and I can sleep better.. Ive have like 10 dreams my parents found out, not by my choice and they ended bad lol...


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    Wow! I bet that felt like a big load off your shoulders.. I finally told my mom about a month ago after dancing for about a year and a half. Even though I do not live with her and haven't for years, it still felt like a huge burden was gone!

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    My mom found out from the bank that I had my car loan at (someone saw my file and you know small town gossip) that was a nightmare! She wasOk with it eventually (although never quite ahppy about it). She was really proud when I quit and I told her I was thinking about going back (even though I already have) and she begged me not to). Good thing she lives 1,300 mi away!
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    Congrats on telling your mom! I think being honest when you are in this industry is extremely important. Plus, normally people are more understanding if you tell them rather than trying to hide it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gia2608 View Post
    My mom found out from the bank that I had my car loan at (someone saw my file and you know small town gossip) that was a nightmare! She wasOk with it eventually (although never quite ahppy about it). She was really proud when I quit and I told her I was thinking about going back (even though I already have) and she begged me not to). Good thing she lives 1,300 mi away!

    MAN I would be supper PISSED if someone just rated me out like that.. especial since its not there business. my bank things Im a bad ass waitress lol hahaha


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    We all have something in our lives that we can tell our parent about. I cannot tell anyone that I visit stripper web even just to my friends. This is my dark secret.

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    Quote Originally Posted by babybambi08 View Post
    MAN I would be supper PISSED if someone just rated me out like that.. especial since its not there business. my bank things Im a bad ass waitress lol hahaha
    I tried to sue them on a confidentiality breach but it never panned out. It was all good, my Mom is really young and liberal but Dude, New England is soooooooooooooooooooooooooo conservative so I can't beat it out of her!
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    Default Re: so I finally told my mom

    I just cant believe they did that.. I mean it doesnt matter if your family or not.. I would tryed to sue to.. sorry it didnt work.. but I hope you got to change banks.. But again that might not be a good idea.. its kinda good to keep the same bank..,maybe you could keep that one open and just open another one..


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