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    Duh Motor Mouth

    So after a conflict with a customer that I had last night, that later turned into a conflict with a co-worker..... I have come to realize that my mouth is ruining my hustle.

    Last night, although pretty slow, could have been a great night for me, but I ruined it. I talk way, way, way too much. I start these conversations with customers that get sometimes heated and it totally ruins the vibe. And it's all MY fault, too. I talk during dances right when a guy is into me. I also stop between dances in the VIP and start talking, when the guy wants me to keep dancing. What the fuck is WRONG with me??? I need some tough love here....someone tell me to shut the fuck up!!!!!! I am bringing myself down as a dancer, and hindering my earning potential.

    I am one of those people that talks alot when they are nervous. I have been trying to cut down my drinking at work, and have been doing a great job at that, but my $$ has suffered. Since I am not as buzzed as usual, I am a little more nervous, hence the motor mouth. When I am buzzed I actually talk less....I know that sounds weird.

    Have any of you ever had this problem, and overcome it? How did you do it??

    I don't want to go back to drinking alot, I have been doing such a good job. If I can just overcome this talking thing, it'll be perfect.

    Please do not respond with "Well if you have to drink, maybe this job isn't for you" That is a whole other conversation, it's way old and I have been through it many, many times, sorry. I am not ready to stop dancing right now, and like I said, I want to hear from people who have had a similar problem......and how they solved it.

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    Try meditating before work and doing yoga/pilates. It sounds like you just need to learn how to slow down and be quiet.
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    Might sound weird, but practice and focus on "speaking" with your eyes and your smile. When you're in a dance and get the urge to talk, try to 'coo' (kinda like a soft 'mmm') or giggle softly (but not too often!). Get into the music and stare deeply into their eyes at intermittent points.

    When you're on the floor and in hustle mode, speak slower and more suggetively. Perk your boobs up when closing the sale so that they are just responding to the 'tone' of your voice and the visual cues of posing your body seductively.

    In VIP, get them to talk about themselves. Ask questions which will further what THEY have to say and try to limit adding your own similar story or just give shorter versions of a similar story. That way, you can sit and stroke their arm gently between dances or lean in closer to hear them talk.
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