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    get married?

    I used to have this big dream wedding.. but It kinda crashed when my longest relationships crashed too..
    and I used to say Im never getting married, and I dont want to get married.
    But really I just dont ever want to get divorced.
    My mom has never been married and she says she doesnt want to get married.. she is still going threw a break up after a 15 year relationship.. they were pretty much married anyways..


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    Default Re: do you want to?

    Not looking to.

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    Getting married or having children does not appeal to me one bit! I come from a broken family so maybe that has alot to do with the way i feel.

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    I never have seen the point. Maybe for tax and insurance purposes? I remember many years ago I took a sociology course. The textbook said that various studies have found that men are happier once they get married and women are less happy. I have a man that I want to be with for life, but I don't feel any need to formalize the relationship. If he wants to go, then I'd rather have him gone than hanging around making us both miserable.

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    Default Re: do you want to?

    I'll follow George Carlins advice on the subject (RIP George)

    "If I get the urge to get married; I will seek out some bitch I can't stand and buy her a house."

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    It depends. If I met the right guy I'd consider. It would have to be an equal partnership from the get go. By that I mean no women only bridal shower, or changing my name, or expecting me to do the housework (or childcare if we were to have children). That's probably why I'm still single, but I'd rather be single than with a guy who expects me to be his maid. Big weddings don't really appeal to me either. I'd rather elope and later have a party than spend money inviting people I haven't seen in years (or people I've never met but have to be invited).

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    yes I would def. say it would have to be equal.. I would have a women only bridal shower.. but Id have a BAD aSSSSS bachlorett party! STRIP CLUB here I come haha lol..
    I dont know why so many people are Obsessed with big weddings.. Id rather it be small, and close.. its about you and your hubby or whatever.. not everyone else..


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