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    Hey everyone! I stay in Atlanta (Strip Club Capital) & I'm going to start dancing at one of the best clubs in the Atlanta area!!! But I have a few concerns. I just made 18. I'm down here on my own especially since I'm legal and I need to make my own money. But I am very pretty I carry myself very well. light skin tall 5'8, hazel eyes, flat stomach nice booty! But I'm not the BEST dancers. I can shake my booty and look sexy and stuff. But thats as far as it goes. When I do dance though I get tired very easily? What can I do to improve that. And I dont have any hustling techniques for when I start.

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    As far as hustling technique, read around the other threads in hustle hut and pick it up as you go. You def. need to have a good attitude toward the guys and you'll be all right. Don't worry about getting tired and not knowing how to dance- most girls don't when they start you'll get conditioned and learn from the other girls. Good luck
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    Try doing household chores in your shoes it will help train and tone you muscles. some as simple as vacuuming or doing laundry will help u build stamina. you get tired cause you are using so many major muscles when you dance.

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    Remember to stretch before and after work! Really well!! And if you're attempting pole dancing focus on your arm stretches and look into getting Arnica for bruises.

    And as far as stage dancing, my advice for starters is to move slower than you normally would. Some newer girls wanna dance as fast as they would in a normal club but that just isn't as sexy as when you slllooowww it down. And just watch the other girls. Try not to copy them exactly but definitely play around with what you learn from watching them. It amazes me how much stripping really is it's own style and art. I would love to travel more and see if different areas differ in the style.

    Around here stage dancing is much much different from lapdancing though. Honestly, I found lapdancing much harder and intimidating. Grinding is really popular here but I HATE it. So at first I would just try and mesmerize them with my butt or boobs until I learned more. It's hard to type about dancing, but I have a few "special" moves I do now with lapdancing. I learned a couple of them from girls, some from customers suggestions actually, and was able to make up my own after awhile! If you're in a lapdance area you can glance over occasionally and see how the other girls are doing it. Just try not to be obvious and stare at the other girls lol. (I try to avoid grinding unless the guy requests it. Honestly I hardly get requests for it, though, and I much prefer a more creative routine lol)

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    First off, don't dance fast. Dancing really slow is one of the best secrets to stage tips and snagging lap dances from your stage shows. I personally have some medical problems and I keep a bottle of water at the stage entrance at all times. If I need to I take a sip of water, and I've never heard complaints about it, so try that as well. You might want to take a class or watch some videos to pick up floorwork, which can be helpful to know if you are tired.

    As for hustling, read here in Hustle Hut and then I strongly advise investing in DancerWealth. You could always invest in DancerWealth right off the bat, which I would suggest if you can afford it.
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    Dance slow. If you're out of breath after a dance you were dancing WAY too fast.

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    Yeah vacuum in your shoes! That definitely helped me, plus one time my roomie came home and found me in my pj's and stripper shoes....fun explaining times!

    I'm in SC, not far from you - good luck honey!!! Do good, if you need any help just ask!!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnie86 View Post
    Try doing household chores in your shoes it will help train and tone you muscles. some as simple as vacuuming or doing laundry will help u build stamina. you get tired cause you are using so many major muscles when you dance.
    That's very good advice. I still rock new stripper shoes around the house when doing chores to break them in. Hair pulled back, gym clothes, no makeup, apron on top scrubbing pots. I should web cam it for the true perverts!
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    Dancing slow wont work in ATL especially in a black club. If you getting tired get to running to get your stamina up. And also that club is a wanna dance club. Quick convo and ask the guy if he wants a dance if he doesnt keep it moving but still be nice. Dont drink too much.

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