Oh my! After a modest Monday, Thursday turned out to be absolutely spectacular with over 3K from one gentleman in VIP, not including the one lucrative lapdance I did before he arrived, and then Friday I earned over $1800...and I wasn't even wearing any jewellery with my gown that evening! I have had my $200 nights and I have had my thousand dollar nights, but every time I go in to work (about 3-4x a week), I make sure I am always on time to earn respect from the managers and so I don't miss any opportunities, so I have always walked out with a profit. I don't complain about petty things, I am no drama, I have fun, and I am absolutely friendly but professional. Management does notice these things and have personally expressed their appreciation of it. I am a fashion-model type, natural B cup and natural everything else (except for highlights), I don't bother to tan, so a dancer doesn't necessarily have to look one specific way to win people over. In exactly 15 days since I first began dancing, I have earned over $6,000, but most importantly, the respect and the attentive recommendation of my managers and hosts to their top clients.
I am really truly thankful for this. I had no idea how dancing would all turn out for me, but one thing for certain is that it definitely is a VERY individual business. You can't measure your chances by another dancer's chances or experience. I don't ask anyone how their night went, and if anyone asks me, I always tell them that how I did is not an accurate measure of how they will do or should be doing because all dancers are so different and custies will be looking for different things at different times...and although they certainly want to employ a variety, sometimes certain clubs will value a certain type of dancer over another, especially if their clientele shows preference for that particular dancer.
I really feel that if you walk in that club and give 110% of yourself in your presentation and communication and physical effort, without having too much of a greedy turnoff hustle, but not being a doormat either, people will eventually notice and really want to invest in being entertained by you.
It also is immensely helpful to be courteous to all staff and customers particularly during slow moments and not go around scowling like some girls do, which is not attractive at all. Someone is always, always watching. If my heart weren't in it, I wouldn't be doing it, and it shows.
Try not to complain to the management or housemum about any slow nights, because I've seen girls do it and be written off as lazy and incompetent. The management really doesn't want to hear it. Those girls get little to no sympathy afterwards if they are late or if they make a mistake out on the floor, especially when their complaint volume starts outnumbering the money they are bringing in. Management cannot and are not responsible for making customers interested in you. Only you can do that. Just take slow nights with grace and try again next time. Everyone has their highs and lows, but you can experience many more highs if you carry yourself wisely and treat your job with respect, even while others don't seem to be doing their part. Sometimes it helps switching to a club that might be better suited for you. Use your intuition. Once you find the right club, be the very best you can be, every time you show up. In this high-speed, highly-selective world, if you slack for one moment, you'll only get trampled.
Stay positive and things will turn out for the best. I really hope this helps many of you!



Oh my! After a modest Monday, Thursday turned out to be absolutely spectacular with over 3K from one gentleman in VIP, not including the one lucrative lapdance I did before he arrived, and then Friday I earned over $1800...and I wasn't even wearing any jewellery with my gown that evening! I have had my $200 nights and I have had my thousand dollar nights, but every time I go in to work (about 3-4x a week), I make sure I am always on time to earn respect from the managers and so I don't miss any opportunities, so I have always walked out with a profit. I don't complain about petty things, I am no drama, I have fun, and I am absolutely friendly but professional. Management does notice these things and have personally expressed their appreciation of it. I am a fashion-model type, natural B cup and natural everything else (except for highlights), I don't bother to tan, so a dancer doesn't necessarily have to look one specific way to win people over. In exactly 15 days since I first began dancing, I have earned over $6,000, but most importantly, the respect and the attentive recommendation of my managers and hosts to their top clients.
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