i am taking a break from the club i work at that allows touching (requires it), because i took the job not knowing that part and was totally unprepared for it. i finally talked to one of the nice managers about it and he said he understood and said it didn't used to be a touching club but then things changed, etc. he said i could come back anytime i want to.
i don't want to go back until i have some skills with setting
boundaries with the customers regarding the touching. how do you even
tell the customers what is allowed and what isn't?? if its a touching club,
does that mean they are allowed to touch your breasts automatically? they
seemed to expect it at this club, it seemed "full contact" was expected, just not the g-string area. i'd prefer that they definitely not kiss me anywhere. (keep them far enough away that they can't bite me - i'm scared of that.)
in many ways it seems safer than the other clubs
that don't "allow" touching, because the security is greater, so i think this
club is probably my best bet in this area if i want to keep dancing.
do you have any practical tips on what to say to a customer
when we go to the back room, just what to start out with - do i say these are the "rules" or what?? i want to be clear and strong, but still sexy enough. help!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!



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