Ladies, whats ur take when you see young 18-23 good looking custies...do u avoid them bc u think they have no money and go for the middle aged chubby guys?

Ladies, whats ur take when you see young 18-23 good looking custies...do u avoid them bc u think they have no money and go for the middle aged chubby guys?

Being a chubby guy in his late thirties I find this question to be very offensive. I would like women in this field can appreciate a man in his thirties like a fine wine. I have quite a bit to offer other than being hot.
Ladies, the good thing is that the only reason I am chubby is because had a severe back injury. I normally like to maintain a low body fat when I am mentally and physically capable.




eh. i avoid them because they don't usually like me. but...
some of them do spend a fuckload of money, just on other girls.
they aren't as likely to get dances (they often never have, and have no idea what a dance is really about), but they are more likely to tip well onstage. when i'm onstage, i go to the young guys first and more.
when they do get dances, they're a lot more likely to give tips. and usually bigger tips.
middle aged guys are more likely to have a wife, kids, mortgages, car payments, credit card bills, etc. some spend money. a lot are cheapasses. and a lot have the money and just come in to tease us.
personally, i prefer the guys in their late twenties to mid thirties.
hot guys also seem to be more likely to like average looking dancers, at least in my experience. less attractive guys either like the 10s or the 4s. if that makes sense.
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I flirt like hell on stage (they tend to tip fairly well at the stage and appreciate the attention), but otherwise avoid them unless they flag me over. If they flag me over and are spending money, not trying to set up a date, then they are awesome.
I focus on the middle-age/older businessmen. They like me, appreciate that I am fairly intelligent, are generally more realistic about their expectations (don't try to date me as often), have more money, and I usually find them more interesting.
To summarize, if you are a good custy with cash, I could care less if you are a greek god or hideous. You'll be my fav person for a while. It's our job to make you feel special for the evening (when you are spending of course).![]()





I talk to everyone that comes in the club... it doesn't really matter to me and I don't think I've actually dated or been attracted to a guy in that age range since high school.
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unless they tip me well and appear to want to spend on me, they are low on my list. However, after i have hustled the other customers I will go to them.
Also, I will go to them if im in the mood to quickly sell table dances to several people instead of spend a long time trying to convince one older chubby guy to spend his retirement fund on me.





Depends on their behavior. If they appear to be decent and respectful and they're tipping I have no issue with them. If they're being assholes and trying to pick me up and acting like they're too good to tip me then I ignore them completely.
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The younger guys tend to misread signals much more often, especially if they're attractive and used to getting lots of genuine attention from girls outside of the club. They don't get that we aren't really into them; they don't get that it's just business. If they're in a group, especially on the weekend, a lot of the time it's hard to get them to spend money in front of their buddies, because they're actually really insecure and embarrassed about their friends seeing them get a dance from one of us. Usually, we'll have to wait until most of them are drinking a lot and don't care anymore. And 95% of the time, when I have a guy getting grabby in the back room, it's a really young, hot guy who genuinely thought I was going to screw around with him because "we had chemistry."
Bachelor parties tend to be very different, though...I can get bachelor parties to spend a ton, without any expectations of extras.



, i forgot i was on a stripper web site.....I do have this skill down pretty good though.
Although, i do feel being able to put a dancer at ease, makes for a better night for all, unless you are at a wanna dance club. I take more time from the dancer but it is easier money.......wait unless having to entertain my ass with bullshit and have a couple of drinks with me is harder than going to a bunch of different table and getting 15-20 dances from different people. I wouldnt know i am not a dancer, but i can speculate.



So you're assuming that all middle aged guys are chubby and bad looking?
To answer your question, yes, I do ignore the younger guys. It is not because I think they have less money (some of them come to club come fully prepared with several hundreds) but it's that attitude of self-entitlement that really turns me off. Many of them expect free time from us, better dances, or they even ask for free dances (when they DO have the money to afford it!) because they think they are oh-so-special because they're young and cute.
9 times out of 10 I go for the older nicer and more appreciative gentlemen, regardless of their looks.










For me, 18-25 is a last resort customer. I'm 26. It makes me feel creepy. No way in hell would I dance for an 18 yr old.





even if you are polite, there are some days when i am just not in the mood to have long conversations. Sometimes i just feel to exhausted to be my charming witty self. Even if the customer is a nice guy, there are some days when it is difficult to be entertaining for an extended period of time; this requires more improvisation and intelligent conversation involves brainpower. The wanna dance approach is second nature... i have a few really effective lines and i spit them out mechanically (of course i dont look mechanical when i do this) sell a few dances and move on. Physically this is more exhausting, but its easier mentally. Usually I only get like this when I am overloaded with school work or, during the summer, I have been doing way too much at my day job. Last week, between my day job and dancing, I worked a total of 65 hours. Needless to say, I was very braindead and was just not an interesting person to talk to for more than a few minutes. Therefore i took the wanna dance approach, because spitting out the lines was easy and i just made my dances hot enough that people wanted to buy more. Last week was very atypical though.... my schedule is not usually so hectic.




Well, my club is 21+, so no 18yr olds to deal with thankfully. However, the young guys (in my mind 21-25/26) are the ones i tend to avoid unless they either call me over for a dance, or I can see they are being very respectful.
I find they tend not to be worth my time. I can either put up with their shit for a couple dances where i have to spend the whole time keeping their hands off me, or I can go to the 30+ guy, make the same money giving only 1-2 dances (they tip me well), and have a much more pleasant time.
Plus, the young guys tend not to like me.





This TOTALLY reminded me of something! I was in Wyoming and danced for this guy who had just turned 18... his boss brought him into the club and bought all of his workers dances from me - and three for the 18 year old. Anyhow, this 18 year old looked like that 16 year old kid from the movie "Real Genius"! I kid you not! Yeah... that was sort of creepy. Real nice kid though and he'd never had a lap dance.
Mitch of Real Genius... except the customer had sandy blond hair.
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^^^ Most of them don't even start getting interesting until they hit 35... not that being interesting has to do with looks.
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in san diego, there's a lot of younger military guys that want to spend money, but not big money. i'll dance for them, but i'd rather dance for an older guy.... the younger ones are always trying to pick you up, it seems.
I had one guy on friday get pissed off and say, "If you were cool you'd come hang out with us after work." When I told him I had to go take care of my 12 week (nonexistant) puppy, he replied that I didn't.... lol I told him obviously he hadn't taken care of a puppy before. Turns out he was a dog trainer for the army, and he got all pissed off.
See how much bullshit that was? You don't get that nearly as often from an older guy.





yea ive gotten bullshit from young military guys too. On tuesday one came in. I danced for him and then he was like "wait its not two for twenty" and i responded "no, one for 20, just like all of these signs everywhere say and like i told you 5 min ago." Then he pulled out some form of military identification and was like "see i really was in the military. You cant do me this one favor by giving me 2 for 20?"
Ive also gotten equal bullshit from older guys too though. The young guys are just cockier about it.
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