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BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?








It would be nice bc yes he would understand my job and the hours i work.
unfortunately the male dancers ive gone out with really were tools lol!
My ex was a male stripper and we got along famously... until he stopped :/
^^^ I'm curious, why do you think that is? Only if you care to share, of course.
I know one woman who is a (now retired) dancer who married a male dancer. I know, one example doesn't say much, but there's very few venues for male dancers around here.
Ooh now I'm worried I came off wrong. I have lots of male stripper friends who are wonderful guys and would make excellent husbands.
Of course I don't mindAlthough, in his particular case I think a lot of his insecurity was masked when he was dancing. We were young and like minded at the time and we probably both needed a lot of validation in different ways. The reason I feel that may have been his motivation (and I may be opening pandora's box here) is that his next events were depression followed by infidelity. He convinced me to stop dancing shortly after he did. So to summarize, I think his stripping career served more as a mask for his insecurity rather than a symptom of a personality defect. Does that make sense? I'm sorry, I'm having a hard time articulating today.
Oh no, I don't think you came across in a negative way at all. I was just curious as to why that changed things in your dynamic. And yes, I think what you said made perfect sense, and I know you weren't lumping all male dancers together under the same motivations or anything.
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