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    I'm sorry if I'm going against any rules here...I'm a bit slow when it comes to these forums.
    Anyways...I'm new to stripping and strip clubs in general (I've only been to 2 in my life time, once when I was 16 and once only for a minute)
    I'm 18 yrs old and go to community college
    I still live with my mother
    I live in San Francisco
    I want to be a stripper because I want to move out and eventually transfer to a 4 year university and I don't have the funds to do so
    My main fear about stripping is that the line between dancing and prostitution is very fine...i don't want to be caught up in performing extras to make ends meet
    I'm a virgin! I want to save myself for marriage....well hopefully for as long as possible
    I've never had a serious boyfriend
    I think that I've got some moves down because I use to dance and cheerlead, but I'm not sure if I'm worthy enough to work in nice clubs
    I don't want to work in clubs that are filthy and resembles a brothel
    I don't really know where to start...everything seems so confusing
    Anyways here are some *scandalous* pics of me!
    Feel free to critique me and tell me what I need to work on looks wise







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    You're adorable!

    I was a virgin for the first 2+ years of my dancing 'career', so don't worry: it's not like you gain some crucial knowledge after having had sex that dancing requires.

    As far as dancing vs. 'whoring'...you should be fine as long as you go to a club that is low-contact/no-contact (which they should tell you up front). And even if extras occur in the club, the bouncers will protect you from contact as long as they know you aren't okay with it. I'm currently having to endure watching my previously-no-contact club get dirtier and dirtier while I fight to sell clean dances (extremely difficult). Blah. But the bouncers know that I'm a no-contact girl, so they take care of me.

    Despite your lack of experience, you could probably get hired at nicer clubs. Depending on your area, however, you might want to use the dive bars to gain experience so you can prance into nicer clubs later. It all depends on how comfortable you are with yourself. Dive bars are nice mediums for experimenting with your appearance, getting your hustle down without hundreds of dancers to compete with, and getting accustomed to how strip clubs work...

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    ^ what she said.

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    you are very cute!
    You may possibly need higher heels though. How many inches are those? Some clubs have a heel height minimum (I think it's 5 or 6 inches minimum usually... correct me if im wrong ladies)

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    If I were you, I would work in a no contact club to start. I would hate for the first time someone touches you to be for money, and you're pretty enough to work at a high end gown club. Don't go to dive bars, there's almost always whoring going on in them. Where are you located?

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    You sound a bit naive to me, but a lot of dancers are when they first start.

    Stay away from the word "whoring". There are plenty of people who sell sex for money, some of them legally and a lot of them find that word offensive. Even though this forum is called Stripperweb and most of us only strip, we do share the forum with many people in other lines of work such as escorting and prostitution. Just be aware of that so you don't offend people.

    Personally, I wouldn't show that second photo - it's not very becoming for a woman who wants to exude something of a higher class.

    I agree with Charlie though that you are pretty and could probably get hired at any of the clubs.
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    ^ Agreed about the second photo.

    The third photo is the best, in my opinion. You are cute and you know it - and that's sexy.

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    Like Kylea said, I'd agree that you should stay away from using judgmental terms (connotatively offensive) like "whoring." Unless you are a prostitute who self-identifies as a whore, the term can cause waves.

    You'll be entering an industry where many people (customers, outsiders, etc.) lump 'classy' strippers in the same catergory as prostitutes, so you should probably change the 'tude a bit. You're only hurting your sisters by perpetuating stereotypes and judgment. Just my two cents...

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    Default Re: newbie intro <3

    I agree. As soon as I read the word whoring I almost stopped reading. Stripping and having sex for money is not the same thing all though there are people that do that in some clubs. I would start out in a "middle type" club before moning on to a higher class club so you can get the feel and hustle down. You are gorgeous and you could work in any club you want.
    Look for higher heels. Other than that, you have an awesome look and you'll be ahead of alot of girls. Good Luck!

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    I might be old fashioned, but I once again have to repeat that I would not want the first guy to touch my breasts or vagina to be some perv at a club who grabs you. Even at no contact clubs they can sneak up on you.

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    I'm so sorry everyone
    I really didn't mean to offend anyone
    I'm going to edit it out right now
    I'm sorry again
    I didn't realize that it was so offensive

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    Opps I forgot to say that I live in San Francisco, CA
    I'll add that into my post too

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    ^ You're fine. One of the things you will acquire with dancing = street smarts. Just keep an open mind.

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