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    Duh Annoying new girl! who likes to brag...

    So there's this new girl to my club who has danced before...and I could see she was hustling throughout the night and whatever.

    But at the end of the night in the DR, when all of the dancers were getting ready to go home, she was talking to herself (yet loudly enough for the whole room to hear) about how she had such an amazing night and she couldn't believe it. And she was counting her money OUT LOUD and said she still had all of this over here to count.

    No one said anything, but I was about ready to tell her it's rude to announce how great you did and to not count your fucking money in front of people. Some girls may have done really bad.

    Does anyone have a better approach...???

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    I'm always the one that says something, so I would have said something. Either counterbragging, "oh yeah?? i made 700! bet you'll never be able to make that!", or making her feel guilty.
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    I would just ignore it. She's going to stir up so much hostility by doing that, it's just a matter of time before someone puts her in her place.

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    Default Re: Annoying new girl! who likes to brag...

    I would exlplain its rude or make it a little friendly competition. That's what a friend of mine and I did over the summer when it was super busy. It was funny we would always be only 20 away from each other lol.





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    Default Re: Annoying new girl! who likes to brag...

    Just ignore her, otherwise you'll be adding fuel to the fire.

    As for counting money, I count mine at the end of the night because I usually base my tips on a percentage of what I made... so it's inevitable that someone is going to see. I've had times where I'm sure people thought I was bragging because of all the money I had laying out. Actually though, there are nights where I re-count everything multiple times because the number just seems to high and I want to make sure I counted correctly.
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    Default Re: Annoying new girl! who likes to brag...

    Friendly competition between friends is always good.

    Otherwise ignore this chick. I think there is one of those girls in just about every club.

    I remember one girl doing that a few months ago. She was new at my club and not as experienced. Now all the girls who have been working there for years are over shadowing her and I haven't heard her brag (or seen her dance) as much.




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    I would just ignore her. It's normally the best policy. Let someone else deal with her 'cause she is going to stir up drama more'n likely and you don't want to part of it
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    It sounds to me like she is trying to psych out the other dancers. I've known dancers that bring in their own money and pretend that they earned it that shift to make the other girls feel bad, and consequently hustle less. This technique can undermine the self confidence of other dancers and cut down on competition on the floor.

    Just ignore her. It isn't very clever and it only annoys everyone else.


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    Default Re: Annoying new girl! who likes to brag...

    Quote Originally Posted by keira0304 View Post
    I'm always the one that says something, so I would have said something. Either counterbragging, "oh yeah?? i made 700! bet you'll never be able to make that!", or making her feel guilty.

    Haha! Yeah she would either shut up, or her boasting would then snowball out of control.
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    Default Re: Annoying new girl! who likes to brag...

    i count my money to myself but people can see it.. I would just tell her something like.. Do you want someone to kick your ass?? bc, one day some girl is going to think that you are taking money she could be making and whip your ass


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    Default Re: Annoying new girl! who likes to brag...

    i think that this girl is probably an idiot but you hve to feel sorry for her she's probably not the sharpest knife in the drawer, she's probably not as sharp as the drawer!

    in my club 99.9% of the time im top earner and the system is that we get paid in chips then we cash them in and we all get paid at he end of the night with the commission taken off an be a little awkward counting your money twice when everone has done crap! sometimes hey fuck up in he office and we all have to count it on the same small table in front of the house mom and everyone else!

    just ignore her or talk over her about something else of the room is silen she probably loves the fact you all have to listen.

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    Default Re: Annoying new girl! who likes to brag...

    Yeah, I think it's best I don't say anything. The other girls probably will do that for me haha.

    It's not so much that she was counting her money, it's that she was counting it loudly enought to mess up the other dancer's counting, and saying that she still had sooo much to count. I don't mind when girls whisper to themselves while counting.

    I think next time I'll just give her a look like stfu, but not say anything.

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    Default Re: Annoying new girl! who likes to brag...

    I find that people who brag are usually full of shit. When I first started, I worked a slow day shift, mostly because it was slow and I was nervous as hell, so it made it easier for me. I remember this one girl who was "being nice" to me told me that she never made less than $600 a day. And if you couldn't make that you should just hang it up. She made me feel like shit. Then a few days later, I was having a good day and she walks up to me and says "There's nothing going on here, I'm so bored, have you made anything?"

    I was getting ready to leave and said casually, "Yeah I made about seven."

    Her mouth drops and she's like "Seven hundred!?! Here?!?"

    I just laughed and said "Well, since you make at least six hundred every day here, how is that really so surprising?"

    It was immature but it felt good to rub her nose in it a little for making me feel so shitty as a new girl.

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    I second that the braggers are usually F.O.S. The title of this thread pretty much says it all!
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    Default Re: Annoying new girl! who likes to brag...

    its only a matter of time until some one muggs her as she's leaving...
    i would personally just ignore her and stay away.

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    Default Re: Annoying new girl! who likes to brag...

    yeah, you don't need to say anything to her.... she'll be put in her place pretty soon, as soon as she steps on someones toes hard enough. I'd suggest a little headshake and a sigh, as though you're disappointed you're hearing this.... Very subtle, however, not enough to add fuel to the fire. If you mention anything to her, mention that you're concerned because her counting out loud could entice another girl to attack her or steal her money.

    This girl is going to get jumped outside, soon. All you can do is make sure you're not a part of the incident when it occurs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by babybambi08 View Post
    i count my money to myself but people can see it.. I would just tell her something like.. Do you want someone to kick your ass?? bc, one day some girl is going to think that you are taking money she could be making and whip your ass
    im going to have to agree with bambi, so sit back and watch it unfold it should make for an interesting night

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    I would do all kinds of things to ignore her. Talk over her for sure. There's an older woman at one of my clubs that's stupid enough to brag about her earnings and I started avoiding her since she wasn't smart enough to take the hint she was being ignored. If she ever comes up to me to tell me how much she's made again, I'll be responding with "One of the many things I loved about CH2 was that the girls were classy enough not to tell other people how much money they made." Say something like to someone right in front of that new girl and she should feel embarassed.

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    Default Re: Annoying new girl! who likes to brag...

    Every club has at least one girl like this, it seems. We had one girl who, on the slowest day ever (like, four cheap customers at the bar) was fixing her makeup and was all "Man, it's raining out there!" It was funny, sort of, except when it got annoying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris View Post
    It sounds to me like she is trying to psych out the other dancers. I've known dancers that bring in their own money and pretend that they earned it that shift to make the other girls feel bad, and consequently hustle less. This technique can undermine the self confidence of other dancers and cut down on competition on the floor.

    Just ignore her. It isn't very clever and it only annoys everyone else.
    I sometimes do this, but its not to make other dancers feel bad nor do i ostentatiously count it. If i come in late or im off to a really bad start sometimes i will throw some of my own money in my garter. If its a busy night and i come in later than other girls and have very little money in my garter while they have a lot, customers seem to notice. If i throw a fat wad of cash in there, then customers seem to register that they should spend money on me. Its weird.

    There is one girl at my club who likes to make new girls count her money. She tried to do this to me once. She just put her cash in front of me and was like 'OMG im too afraid to count this. Can you do it for me? I trust you so much for some reason.' She is also a drunk and apparently she has done this to some girls then accused them of stealing her money. At my club there is a strict no discussing earnings rule, which is smart. Some other girl was trying to get me to tell her how much i earned and i wouldnt tell her... then she said "well Girl X and i tell eachother all the time. She actually has me count her money at the end of the night..." where girl X is the aforementioned girl. Im pretty sure she does this to try to get the more vulnerable girls to trust her completely. Actually im not sure i understand why she does this... it seems manipulative to me either way.

    For the most part ignore it, but throwing in a snide remark that throws her off balance is not a bad idea either. Just try to keep it civil, even if she deserves her head to be smashed into a locker.

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    Those who brag arent making REAL money.

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