i get along really well with pretty much every dancer/dj/bouncer at my club. we're a slow club and there aren't a ton of customers but i like it because i enjoy going there and being around the people... i work at one other club but i hate going there because the managers are sleazy and the girls are all really bitchy/clicky.
they've fired a bunch of people in the past week because they just put $$$$ into advertising. i know my job is safe but a lot of the girls i was friends with got fired. they hired a bunch of new girls in the past couple days and i really dont like them. they're bitchy, steal customers, will talk to a guy for 25 minutes even if he's the ONLY guy in the club and everyone else is waiting for a chance. they're constantly bragging about blank and blank, talking shit about other girls. they're also all really gorgeous, good dancers, and have been stripping for a lot longer than i have.
ive tried not to let it bother me and last night none of them were on and i did awesome and got my most dances and felt at home/in my game again. but tonight they were all there (theres 3, my club is small we never have more than 20 girls on weekends, usually like 12) and i just felt intimidated and ugly and shy... i didn't get any dances, sell any drinks, and no one was stage tipping, first night i didnt make a $.
i know everyone just says "don't think about it, just ignore them" but i can't and it's really throwing me off. i feel so insecure now that i know its obvious and the vibe is rubbing off on customer and costing me money. does anyone have good advice on tricks to to up your confidence and stop feeling so intimidated?



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