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    So I'm a regular at a few clubs. I go to strip clubs to get away from work/relationship drama. Just to enjoy myself and get dances with who ever. So I went last night to one of my regular clubs talked with the bartender for a few min then one of the new girls comes up and asks for if I wanted a dance. I say sure since she's very attractive. So we end up doing VIP. So after the dances I go back to the bar for a few more drinks. Then one of the strippers (got a lap dance maybe twice with her in the past 4 months) has a shit and start bitching why i didn't get a lap dance with her yada yada. I for one don't like to have a regular girl that I go to all the time but I do like a few (4-6 dancers) that I frequent and this girl was not one of them. Has any body else had this experience?
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    No but I'm not surprised given the current state of the industry. Just ignore the bitchy ones . No one is anyone's property in a strip club. It's your money and your good time.
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    If she can browbeat you into compliance, then there is no effort required on her part! If it annoys you, tell her nicely that you prefer to make no such commitments.

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    I would remind her that you are the customer and only you dictate who you will be buying dances from. Then give her another chance with the warning that if she acts like that again you will never be buying dances from her in the future.
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    Quote Originally Posted by silk55 View Post
    Has any body else had this experience?

    Yeah......EVERY regular has probably had this experience at least once.

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    just tell her when she stops giving other people dances you will stop getting dances from other strippers in a playful way of course---if that doesnt do it---then tell her she is fired and to leave you alone. I get harsh when my entire body is sunburned so i might have a different opinion next week. I probably shouldnt post the next few days..haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by silk55 View Post
    Then one of the strippers (got a lap dance maybe twice with her in the past 4 months) has a shit and start bitching why i didn't get a lap dance with her yada yada. I for one don't like to have a regular girl that I go to all the time but I do like a few (4-6 dancers) that I frequent and this girl was not one of them. Has any body else had this experience?
    There are so many dancers who don't realize that when they do this they've probably cut themselves off from that guy's money in the future.

    If she were smart she'd slide up to you and ask you how you enjoyed your dance. Let you enjoy it a bit again by reliving it to some degree in the telling and then ask you if there were anything about that dance she could do better in the VIP. If not now, maybe later.

    She might sell a dance right there and then with that approach, and at the very least has maintained customer good will for the future.
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    Tell her she is too shy in VIP and could learn a thing or two from the one you just danced with. Say this as you are pulling up your zipper.

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    Strippers may use drama to manipulate you into paying for something where services have not been rendered. Ignore it, just walk away. Don't sucked into their problems as the "problem" could be a bogus ploy to get your money for nothing. What I do, is try to use the "problem" to negotiate a favorable price on a dance set or extra. Otherwise I will just go out on the floor and find a gal who has a more favorable attitude and more suitable for my enjoyment goal.

    I am a paying customer and expect to be treated with respect. Drama Queens can go blow in the wind somewhere else.

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    I was in a club a while back where there was a dancer that I normally hung out with whenever I came in.

    A friend of mine bought me a dance from another girl while my 'regular' girl was in the middle of her two stage sets (6 songs in a row). I had nothing to do with the purchase.

    So 'new girl' takes me over to the couch dance area, and we chat for a bit before she starts the dance. Long enough for the last song of my 'regular's' stage set to get over. She came off the stage, passed by the couch I was sitting on, glared at the 'new girl' ... who then handed me the money back and refused to dance for me ...

    I told my regular when she came out of the dressing room that we were officially 'divorced' and from that point on, never got another dance from her. Cost her thousands over the years that followed.

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    ^^^ Obviously she's not clued in to the male psyche. What a dumbbitch. Not a dumb bitch but a dumbbitch.
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    Yeah i got a former stripper fave that everytime she gets really high/drunk will come to me talking about how we used to be real cool until i dumped her for another dancer. I'll just look at her, start laughing and walk off. There are others that will get tired of one stripper getting all the stage money and cop a attitude at the customers telling them "There are more strippers up here than just her"

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    hahaha I guess im alone at loving to have one stripper and them expecting money out of me. I'll still give multiple girls tips on stage but for everything else I usually pick my fav.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Earl_the_Pearl View Post
    Tell her she is too shy in VIP and could learn a thing or two from the one you just danced with. Say this as you are pulling up your zipper.
    I don't even know how exactly to respond to this. It's just that fucked up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by silk55 View Post
    So I'm a regular at a few clubs. I go to strip clubs to get away from work/relationship drama. Just to enjoy myself and get dances with who ever. So I went last night to one of my regular clubs talked with the bartender for a few min then one of the new girls comes up and asks for if I wanted a dance. I say sure since she's very attractive. So we end up doing VIP. So after the dances I go back to the bar for a few more drinks. Then one of the strippers (got a lap dance maybe twice with her in the past 4 months) has a shit and start bitching why i didn't get a lap dance with her yada yada. I for one don't like to have a regular girl that I go to all the time but I do like a few (4-6 dancers) that I frequent and this girl was not one of them. Has any body else had this experience?
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    Quote Originally Posted by goreantx View Post
    Doesn't it just make you feel all warm inside, like everyone wants a piece of you? You're so special

    yup very special and very warm. i just wish there was more of me to go around
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    This happens all the time. Just move along.
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    By the way, you should have said "nothing personal, its just business" LOL I'm sure that would have went over well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post
    Yeah......EVERY regular has probably had this experience at least once.

    At least once? {LOL}

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    Once again this thread highlights dancers who from the other side of this board or so "business like" and don't look at the "custies" at a personal level. If that were truely the case I don't think the dancers would get so worked up if you wanted to move onto another dancer. After all its just business right ladies????

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    Losing a customer still sucks. The loss of income of course, plus on some level most of us are bothered by the implication we failed so it is personal on some level. Of course you get to be older and learn it is going to happen, but still on some level nobody likes losing a customer (well unless the customer was a PITA anyway).

    Now if they take it personally like a BF leaving them, sure, that is a problem equivalent to a customer thinking a stripper and he have a loving BF/GF relationship (at a rate of $20/3 minutes).
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    Quote Originally Posted by PatheticLoserCuckold View Post
    Once again this thread highlights dancers who from the other side of this board or so "business like" and don't look at the "custies" at a personal level. If that were truely the case I don't think the dancers would get so worked up if you wanted to move onto another dancer. After all its just business right ladies????
    We are being judged, mainly on our looks and a rejection says we aren't pretty/hot enough, so of course this stings. It isn't about being rejected by that particular person, it's about being rejected and judged as not pretty enough. It doesn't matter that the customer was stictly a customer to us or that it is just business, we aren't hurt over losing the particular customer, it's more like a blow to the ego.

    Logically we realize that it isn't personal, but it's a little hard to not take it that way if we are already having a bad night or are PMSing or what have you.
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    while its true these dancer chicks don't take it as rejection by the customers because they don't give a crap about most customers figuring like 90% are losers either too old, too fat, too ugly or too stupid to ever get a real life date, believe me that when they get rejected by a guy they suspect might have his shi.t together they feel it even more and it really pisses them off sometimes too. chicks cannot handle rejection!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    ...chicks cannot handle rejection!!!
    And what, guys can?

    Men and women are not that vastly different. We want, basically, the same things out of life. We differ in some regards as to how we go about getting there but we are heading to the same place.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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